Its 2018 not 1918 ,but i don't want to make folks put away their violins :whistle:

get off your high horse :laugh:
considering circumstances (family knew) he made too much out of it
it felt drawn out and staged by him
(speaking as a gay man btw)

No offence but when you pass judgment on how a person coming out isn't a big deal then expect to receive some criticism back.

Will folk stop using the fact they're gay as a way to make other people think their opinion is more valid. I'm gay, does that mean my opinion is more valid than chuff's???

You do not speak for the experiences of other gay folk around the world! Please stop!

Lost on this one, all I have to say is that everyone imo has a right to live their lives in the way they want to so long as it isnt hurting another being. Whilst we may not be in a certain situation, we have experienced another and therefore we learn empathy, love and understanding. Eventually we will all know the reason why and until then we have to live each day as though it were our last. My thoughts apply to all things unacceptable to some but ok with others and vice versa, we have no right to judge....Possibly there shoudnt be headings, just life...it is the headings which make people uncertain.

I suppose it's a sore subject for me as I still know many (unhappy) people living double lives in the closet - so apologies if i appeared on my 'high horse' but i really struggle to accept people's opinions on issues they have no experience with...

The voice of reason :flowers:

Even though it was Cameron (David) who legalised gay marriage, Tories are not noted for their liberal values. Might well be a big thing for Cameron (BB) to reveal this to his wider family and friends - he's only just left school.

I can make a cracking Yorkshire pudding, can you ? and I wouldn't judge you if you couldn't

That is sad but you know your own feelings and what is best for you, that is all that counts. In knowing, you can help this is where our experiences give us the empathy and love which we all strive to obtain.

Aw Chuff send me one please, my mother used to put jam on the leftovers and we ate them just like a biscuit, tasted good.

get off me, I didn't start bringing sexuality into this, I was responding to dean who dismissed a straight poster opinion bc of him being straight
if anything my post showed that sexuality has nothing to do with how cameron's coming out is viewed, I'm gay and I found it cringe

and nobody talks about "around the world" but britain in 2018

Love a good yorkshire pudding. My granddad who was proper Yorkshire, broad in his accent an all used to make smashing big ones from scratch. They were divine! God rest his soul.

i wasn't dismissing... but struggle to see how someone can have an informed opinion on something they haven't gone through themselves..

just as people who haven't suffered racism have little right to express how POC should feel...
just as men have no right to tell women what they can/can't do with their bodies...
just as someone who is CISgender has no right to tell a transgender person how to feel/react/live their life...

list goes on.. but yeah i'll leave it there. :shrug:

:hug:
I'm sorry, I didn't mean to make you feel bad. I take your point and am familiar with what you talk about.
His situation is a bit different tho, with tv cameras, endless and unnecessary monologues about it. It felt a bit ott to me.

Well it certainly makes a difference. People with actual experiences regarding this matter also probably have more empathy for others going through the same thing than someone people who have never met a gay person for example. It doesn’t make their opinion any less, but you can see why people value it more

And tbh at the time, and still do tbh, I found the coming out episode cringe. It was so played up by production with the cheesy party n such

I suppose nobody had come out on TV before that I know of and in that it was a step in the right direction, and I thought the party was a real sweet touch... I was watching a video on facebook the other day about a guy in Manchester who became homeless after his parents rejected him coming out and had been living on the streets for 6 years because of it... so when things like that happen, seeing it celebrated is... refreshing? :shrug:

Dean, I do agree with your points, but remember this one was on tv, be it cameron or production or both milked it a week or two too long, that's all. I don't dismiss his right to come out on tv as such.
Anyhow, peace, huh? :hug:

No I agree and i'm sure in ways it was part of his game plan.. but yeah :hug::flutter:

Mmmmmmmmmmmm! Yorkshire pudding!

:kiss:
it's really nitpicking I know, but that's what we do on a bb forum :shrug:
there's no question that to those lgbt people in the closet the whole thing must have felt important and helpful.
there's still plenty of people who'd prefer us to "know our place"

I hate Cameron, but this really pisses me off. Coming out can still be extremely difficult, and I'd presume, based on this thread, you'd have no idea what it's like.

Yeah it makes sense it just rang X factor sob story alarms for me. I think they knew it’d be relatively publicised so they just kinda went with it. Also like there’s been lgbt arcs before on big brother and the house was relatively accepting. Take bb13 for example with Luke a coming out as trans to everyone and literally everyone being respectful, and tbh transgender is far less accepted in society at the moment too. Considering the episode came off some spiteful behaviour to akeem from him and Lewis too it was just a very sour episode for me, but it grabbed headlines so what do I know

Either way folk are being manipulated emotionally set up by the producers and Cameron. The facts are there for all to see if they want to look at them. The story gave him a short term boost in popularity and it then sank back down again. That tells me viewers don't see it as a particularly big deal

I've just watched Ryan stride up to a women in the audience and tell her after asking her a question, " I didn't listen to a word you said cause j was looking at your amazing cleavage"

Is he allowed to judge what a decent set of tits are?


Never mind behave like that on telly!!!