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Redway 10-03-2019 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by montblanc (Post 10473777)
i had my first phone when i was 8 and i turned out fine so i don't think phones are the problem :nono:

Did your phone let you access nude pictures on Snapchat when you were 8?

Morgan. 10-03-2019 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by montblanc (Post 10473777)
i had my first phone when i was 8 and i turned out fine so i don't think phones are the problem :nono:

Children are different though. Some kids at 8 would do nothing but want the phone, and throw tantrums when they got one.

My first smart phone (I had a ****ty flip one that did just calls for a while) was when I was in year 9 and even that didn't do much because it was ****ing Microsoft and they can't make good phones :laugh:

I didn't get an iPhone until literally last year :skull:

Matthew. 10-03-2019 09:49 PM

Phones themselves are not the problem most of the time, that’s such a lazy excuse

Morgan. 10-03-2019 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Matthew. (Post 10473785)
Phones are not the problem most of the time, that’s such a lazy excuse

They aren't the problem, but they're definitley not helping

Denver 10-03-2019 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Matthew. (Post 10473785)
Phones are not the problem, that’s such a lazy excuse

It's part of the problem.

Parents dont check what the kids get up to or who they chat to

Matthew. 10-03-2019 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Blurryface (Post 10473786)
They aren't the problem

Yeah that’s what I meant. I’ll edit it because I’ve realised that post wasn’t worded the best way

montblanc 10-03-2019 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Adam. (Post 10473782)
Why are they necessary??

internet access for assignments and just general safety

also if a students stays after school for something they're gonna need it to call their parents

Liam- 10-03-2019 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Matthew. (Post 10473785)
Phones are not the problem most of the time, that’s such a lazy excuse

It’s the lazy parent excuse for their kids being knobs

montblanc 10-03-2019 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 10473783)
Did your phone let you access nude pictures on Snapchat when you were 8?

well no

Alf 10-03-2019 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Adam. (Post 10473788)
It's part of the problem.

Parents dont check what the kids get up to or who they chat to

Well then the parents are a bigger problem than the phone. If thy're not fulfilling their duty as a parent.

Matthew. 10-03-2019 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam- (Post 10473791)
It’s the lazy parent excuse for their kids being knobs

:clap1:

Morgan. 10-03-2019 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by montblanc (Post 10473790)
internet access for assignments and just general safety

also if a students stays after school for something they're gonna need it to call their parents

None of these are necessary features though.

Every family will have a computer, laptop or tablet that can have controlled access.

Tbf a flip phone for just calling is enough for general safety. Having a calculator and a health app aren't gonnahelp when they're being bundled into a white van

If a students staying after school the next the school will have parents contacts details and all teachers can access these so I'm sure they wouldn't mind letting them know the reasons for the student staying longer

Liam- 10-03-2019 09:58 PM

If you raise a kid properly and teach them right from wrong, then 90% of the time, they’ll turn out to be good people no matter what technology is in front of them

I think parents are just gradually getting lazier, kids need discipline, a lot of parents these days want to be friends with their kids rather than be parents and that’s when you get kids without boundaries and fear of repercussions.

Alf 10-03-2019 09:59 PM

Kids should only be allowed to have old Nokias, for emergences. That's a fair compromise.

montblanc 10-03-2019 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Blurryface (Post 10473799)
None of these are necessary features though.

Every family will have a computer, laptop or tablet that can have controlled access.

Tbf a flip phone for just calling is enough for general safety. Having a calculator and a health app aren't gonnahelp when they're being bundled into a white van

If a students staying after school the next the school will have parents contacts details and all teachers can access these so I'm sure they wouldn't mind letting them know the reasons for the student staying longer

whenever a parent chooses to give their kid a phone that's a different story but banning them altogether from schools like adam said is not at all progressive or helpful especially in today's society

smudgie 10-03-2019 10:04 PM

A bit of stick and a lot of carrot.
Parenting classes wouldn’t come amiss either.
Your kids are not your friends, they are your responsibility, you love and nurture them until they can make big decisions on their own.
You become friends once they become young adults, hopefully.
Kids don’t need money thrown at them, just love..and understanding.

montblanc 10-03-2019 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by smudgie (Post 10473815)
A bit of stick and a lot of carrot.
Parenting classes wouldn’t come amiss either.
Your kids are not your friends, they are your responsibility, you love and nurture them until they can make big decisions on their own.
You become friends once they become young adults, hopefully.
Kids don’t need money thrown at them, just love..and understanding.

:love:

Morgan. 10-03-2019 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by montblanc (Post 10473809)
whenever a parent chooses to give their kid a phone that's a different story but banning them altogether from schools like adam said is not at all progressive or helpful especially in today's society

Oh yeah I wouldn't ban them altogether. All 5 of the high schools in my town have them banned and confiscated if found :skull:

I just don't think they're necessary things until older

montblanc 10-03-2019 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Blurryface (Post 10473818)
All 5 of the high schools in my town have them banned and confiscated if found :skull:

what the **** :omgno:

i can't even IMAGINE that

Morgan. 10-03-2019 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by montblanc (Post 10473823)
what the **** :omgno:

i can't even IMAGINE that

The rule came in last year so I didn't experience it luckily :joker:

Moniqua 10-03-2019 10:15 PM

wow some of y'all would be AWFUL parents tf :worry:

Alf 10-03-2019 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Moniqua (Post 10473834)
wow some of y'all would be AWFUL parents tf :worry:

I know that I'd teach my children proper English. And teach them that it's "you all' and not "y'all"

Moniqua 10-03-2019 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Alf (Post 10473838)
I know that I'd teach my children proper English. And teach them that it's "you all' and not "y'all"

am not english, am oirish WHEW :dazzler:

user104658 10-03-2019 11:51 PM

No.

Also;

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Originally Posted by Adam. (Post 10473755)
Social services are very strict on how you punish a child like your not even allowed to send them to their rooms and make them sit on a step as it is deemed cruel

Utter nonsense :idc:

Mystic Mock 11-03-2019 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 10473783)
Did your phone let you access nude pictures on Snapchat when you were 8?

I think that 8 year olds would be watching Cartoons and playing Video Games on the Mobile Phone rather than being on Snapchat tbf.


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