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Cherie 27-01-2020 01:20 PM

A Dad who went from being amazing in 2016 to not being so amazing in 2017 does not make any sense

Marsh. 27-01-2020 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10764317)
A Dad who went from being amazing in 2016 to not being so amazing in 2017 does not make any sense

Of course it does. People do things that break up families all the time.

The only ones who know the exact details of what happened between them are the two of them.

thesheriff443 27-01-2020 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10764317)
A Dad who went from being amazing in 2016 to not being so amazing in 2017 does not make any sense

No one wants to give this any merit cherie.

arista 27-01-2020 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 10764314)
He ain't entitled to jack**** and by selling out his own daughter, he's only showing them why he should never know his grandchild.

I have no time for narcissists who believe they are entitled to their grandchildren and blame the world when it's their own toxic actions that got them cast out from their children's lives.


But if the 2 Ex Royals
do meet him,
it will end all TV interviews.

They should Send a Car
to take him up to Canada
keep it a private meeting.

Tom4784 27-01-2020 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by arista (Post 10764321)
But if the 2 Ex Royals
do meet him,
it will end all TV interviews.

They should Send a Car
to take him up to Canada
keep it a private meeting.

And give the narcissist what he wants so that whenever he's unhappy about not being the center of Meghan's world he can run to the papers all over again until she gives in?

WOEFUL advice, Arista. You take power away from a narcissist, you don't give it them. Let him bleat on about her, it'll do him no good and it'll just solidify to her and anyone of sound mind that he deserves to be disowned.

Tom4784 27-01-2020 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10764317)
A Dad who went from being amazing in 2016 to not being so amazing in 2017 does not make any sense

When you have a difficult relationship with your parents, you tend to sugarcoat it for the outside world because it's easier than letting strangers in and knowing things about your homelife that you aren't ready to share.

She probably had an epiphany and realised that he doesn't have to have that power over her, that she doesn't need his presence in her life. Things like that can happen suddenly or slowly over time, there's no rule book on it.

arista 27-01-2020 01:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 10764325)
And give the narcissist what he wants so that whenever he's unhappy about not being the center of Meghan's world he can run to the papers all over again until she gives in?

WOEFUL advice, Arista. You take power away from a narcissist, you don't give it them. Let him bleat on about her, it'll do him no good and it'll just solidify to her and anyone of sound mind that he deserves to be disowned.


He Helped her alone
age 11-18.

Its not up to you
She can choose what to do
before he is dead.

arista 27-01-2020 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by arista (Post 10764183)



Thanking her Dad
in a big way.


Posting again for Dezzy,

Cherie 27-01-2020 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 10764326)
When you have a difficult relationship with your parents, you tend to sugarcoat it for the outside world because it's easier than letting strangers in and knowing things about your homelife that you aren't ready to share.

She probably had an epiphany and realised that he doesn't have to have that power over her, that she doesn't need his presence in her life. Things like that can happen suddenly or slowly over time, there's no rule book on it.

Given he was going to walk her down the aisle I call codswallop on the above

Cherie 27-01-2020 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 10764320)
No one wants to give this any merit cherie.

It’s a hell of a turn around, I find it odd Harry has never met him in person if only once

Kazanne 27-01-2020 02:02 PM

There are always two sides to a story , no matter which one you prefer, no harm in him giving his side,if its wrong I am sure she will counteract.

thesheriff443 27-01-2020 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10764333)
It’s a hell of a turn around, I find it odd Harry has never met him in person if only once

You know saint Megan can do no wrong in people’s eyes.

Let him keep talking I say.

Tom4784 27-01-2020 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10764332)
Given he was going to walk her down the aisle I call codswallop on the above

Again, you don't know. You want a reason to hate her so you vindicate her father despite red flags the size of skyscrapers.

A narcissistic parent can have a lot of control over their kids, it very well could be that she didn't truly break free of that control until 2017. I know narcissism when I see it, I know the patterns of the carrot and the stick that they use and how they always see themselves as the victims and Thomas Markle, from everything I've seen, is a classic case of it.

thesheriff443 27-01-2020 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 10764341)
Again, you don't know. You want a reason to hate her so you vindicate her father despite red flags the size of skyscrapers.

A narcissistic parent can have a lot of control over their kids, it very well could be that she didn't truly break free of that control until 2017. I know narcissism when I see it, I know the patterns of the carrot and the stick that they use and how they always see themselves as the victims and Thomas Markle, from everything I've seen, is a classic case of it.

Your trying claim your opinion is fact. With what you know when you see it.

It’s speculation like anyone’s else’s opinion.

Tom4784 27-01-2020 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 10764335)
There are always two sides to a story , no matter which one you prefer, no harm in him giving his side,if its wrong I am sure she will counteract.

Why should she have a slinging match with him in public because he saw money in it? I'm pretty sure she's never commented on her dad so why should she do so now and give him what he wants when people defending the dad would find fault if she did just that.

If his concerns were genuine, he would have tried to reconnect without making money from the press. It's honestly concerning that there are people who think she should give into him when he's behaved terribly towards her.

Tom4784 27-01-2020 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 10764342)
Your trying claim your opinion is fact. With what you know when you see it.

It’s speculation like anyone’s else’s opinion.

Yes , thank you for pointing out the obvious, Do you actually have anything to add to the topic or are you just going to pretend that I'm stating facts when anyone with a bit of reading comprehension can tell I'm sharing my views just like anyone else?

Tom4784 27-01-2020 02:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by arista (Post 10764330)
He Helped her alone
age 11-18.

Its not up to you
She can choose what to do
before he is dead.

Plenty of parents care for children their whole lives and do so without a sense of ownership or entitlement to that child's life when they are grown up. It's blatant narcissism and self-entitlement to believe that he has any rights to her life when it's down purely to her.

She is choosing what she wants to do, she has chosen not to have him in her life and it's her right to do so.

Cherie 27-01-2020 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy;10764341[B
]Again, you don't know. You want a reason to hate [/B]her so you vindicate her father despite red flags the size of skyscrapers.

A narcissistic parent can have a lot of control over their kids, it very well could be that she didn't truly break free of that control until 2017. I know narcissism when I see it, I know the patterns of the carrot and the stick that they use and how they always see themselves as the victims and Thomas Markle, from everything I've seen, is a classic case of it.

I don't hate her, just puzzled by their behaviour as a couple

I quite like her actually :laugh: so wrong again

You don't hold any psychology degrees so I would hold off with the embarrassing web definitions

Tom4784 27-01-2020 02:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by arista (Post 10764331)
Posting again for Dezzy,

See what I said to Cherie, it's easy to put on a public face and pretend that your family life is fine when it's not. I'm sure there's lots of people here who can relate to that.

Tom4784 27-01-2020 02:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10764348)
I don't hate her, just puzzled by their behaviour as a couple

I quite like her actually :laugh: so wrong again

You don't hold any psychology degrees so I would hold off with the embarrassing web definitions

So your entire response is an attack aimed at me. Typical.

If you don't like what i'm saying, argue against it. You know nothing about me and you will only continue to embarrass yourself if you try to lash out at me personally instead of arguing against my points.

Twosugars 27-01-2020 02:28 PM

Is he an alcoholic? Or any other substance abuse?

arista 27-01-2020 02:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 10764347)
Plenty of parents care for children their whole lives and do so without a sense of ownership or entitlement to that child's life when they are grown up. It's blatant narcissism and self-entitlement to believe that he has any rights to her life when it's down purely to her.

She is choosing what she wants to do, she has chosen not to have him in her life and it's her right to do so.


So Far
today was a good interview
she can change her mind

Cherie 27-01-2020 02:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 10764350)
So your entire response is an attack aimed at me. Typical.

If you don't like what i'm saying, argue against it. You know nothing about me and you will only continue to embarrass yourself if you try to lash out at me personally instead of arguing against my points.

So telling me I hate her isn’t a personal attack lol

You aren’t making any points, just trotting out your opinion in the form of psychobabble, what am I meant to argue against precisely?

Alf 27-01-2020 02:57 PM

What an utterly vile woman she is.

Took all our tax payers money for her wedding and then pissed off when she found out that virtue signaling was a no no in her royal duty. And then called us all racists on her way out.

And she's turned Harry into a simp.

Good riddence.

arista 27-01-2020 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Twosugars (Post 10764352)
Is he an alcoholic? Or any other substance abuse?

not now


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