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Crimson Dynamo 30-01-2020 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 10766753)
Then you get couples that work but don’t put equal amounts into the relationship in terms of money.

well the TL is using her dead mums money to do the kitchen and bathrooms and i said when my old mum dies i will do the bedrooms and living room

you have to have a system

thesheriff443 30-01-2020 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 10766757)
well the TL is using her dead mums money to do the kitchen and bathrooms and i said when my old mum dies i will do the bedrooms and living room

you have to have a system

Not everyone in relationships play fair.

thesheriff443 30-01-2020 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 10766756)
Screams of sexism to me tbh

I’m sorry it’s every day examples that are relivent to the thread.

smudgie 30-01-2020 06:28 PM

Yes.
If I loved them.:shrug:
Life is never that black and white.
As long as you can get by in life.

smudgie 30-01-2020 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 10766765)
I’m sorry it’s every day examples that are relivent to the thread.

My son hasn’t worked in his old career since he met his wife.
She is American, the 8 hour time difference was too much to handle when she was ill, he used to read to her to sleep over the internet.
He helps run her many businesses now they are married, but doesn’t actually have a job at the minute, firstly down to green card issues, the relocating back here.
Big plans on the way.

Beso 30-01-2020 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 10766757)
well the TL is using her dead mums money to do the kitchen and bathrooms and i said when my old mum dies i will do the bedrooms and living room

you have to have a system

Almost the opposite of Harry and Meghan. :joker:


Can more people vote please.:shrug:

Cherie 30-01-2020 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 10766757)
well the TL is using her dead mums money to do the kitchen and bathrooms and i said when my old mum dies i will do the bedrooms and living room

you have to have a system

:laugh:

thesheriff443 30-01-2020 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by smudgie (Post 10766768)
My son hasn’t worked in his old career since he met his wife.
She is American, the 8 hour time difference was too much to handle when she was ill, he used to read to her to sleep over the internet.
He helps run her many businesses now they are married, but doesn’t actually have a job at the minute, firstly down to green card issues, the relocating back here.
Big plans on the way.

You can’t knock that.

I live on my own with my daughter who is autistic with a rare metabol condition and has mental health issues i jugle work with taking care of my daughter I cook and clean our house.

People throw around sexism but I’ve had to be mum and dad for most of my daughters life.

Beso 30-01-2020 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 10766777)
You can’t knock that.

I live on my own with my daughter who is autistic with a rare metabol condition and has mental health issues i jugle work with taking care of my daughter I cook and clean our house.

People throw around sexism but I’ve had to be mum and dad for most of my daughters life.


****ing hats off sherrif. ..

Zizu 30-01-2020 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 10766777)
You can’t knock that.



I live on my own with my daughter who is autistic with a rare metabol condition and has mental health issues i jugle work with taking care of my daughter I cook and clean our house.



People throw around sexism but I’ve had to be mum and dad for most of my daughters life.


Words fail me , she’s fortunate to have such a great father with a tremendous attitude to life .
I’m on the spectrum myself and it is complex business. In my case the negatives kinda outweigh the positives .


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smudgie 30-01-2020 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 10766777)
You can’t knock that.

I live on my own with my daughter who is autistic with a rare metabol condition and has mental health issues i jugle work with taking care of my daughter I cook and clean our house.

People throw around sexism but I’ve had to be mum and dad for most of my daughters life.

Your daughter has a wonderful dad sheriff.

Marsh. 30-01-2020 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10766690)
and that is the thread title :shrug:

Exactly, a different one to the poll question. A muddled and not very well thought out thread.

Marsh. 30-01-2020 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 10766777)
You can’t knock that.

I live on my own with my daughter who is autistic with a rare metabol condition and has mental health issues i jugle work with taking care of my daughter I cook and clean our house.

People throw around sexism but I’ve had to be mum and dad for most of my daughters life.

What has that got to do with sexism though?

Josy simply pointed out the two examples of relationships you stated previously could apply to men as equally as women. And they can, I've heard men complain about the hours their wives work as much as the other way around.

It depends on the job they have, not their gender.

Jake. 30-01-2020 07:48 PM

Which are we answering? The thread title or the question in the poll?

Beso 30-01-2020 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Jake. (Post 10766831)
Which are we answering? The thread title or the question in the poll?

Both please...


11 more voters would be nice.

Cherie 30-01-2020 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10766961)
Both please...


11 more voters would be nice.

How can you answer both? I answered the thread question on the poll

Cherie 30-01-2020 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 10766822)
Exactly, a different one to the poll question. A muddled and not very well thought out thread.

I didn’t notice the different questions :laugh:

Zizu 30-01-2020 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10766596)
Yes or no.



Depends

If they looked like Michelle Keegan for example- yes of course


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Zizu 30-01-2020 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 10766745)
well gold diggers don’t work instead give sexual favours and men are happy to marry them pretty much like footballers wife’s.



Exactly .

Sex rules ok


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Beso 30-01-2020 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10766968)
How can you answer both? I answered the thread question on the poll

Sorry Cherie. .it's hard enough starting a poll let alone get the correct questions.


Basically the question is..would you marry someone who is willing to be supported all thier married life.



Im guessing men will say yes..and women will say no..

Looks like I'm not far off.

Marsh. 30-01-2020 09:55 PM

But now you're asking a third question "Would you marry someone who is willing to be supported all their married life?". That's not the same as either the thread title or the poll question. :shrug:

Niamh. 30-01-2020 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10766995)
Sorry Cherie. .it's hard enough starting a poll let alone get the correct questions.





Basically the question is..would you marry someone who is willing to be supported all thier married life.







Im guessing men will say yes..and women will say no..



Looks like I'm not far off.

That's not what you asked originally at all [emoji23]

Beso 30-01-2020 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10767013)
That's not what you asked originally at all [emoji23]

Fgs..

Just something popped up on my Facebook about most men willing to marry a non working women and support them..whilst most women wouldn't do the same if it were reversed. .

Im shute at polls and questions....gimme a break fgs.

michael21 30-01-2020 10:42 PM

You are all silly the titles says world you marry a person who dose not want to work that don't mean there not working just there don't want to

Mystic Mock 31-01-2020 12:18 AM

Why wouldn't I?:laugh:


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