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Kate! 15-03-2021 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Alf (Post 11018349)
I thought that was Sleeping Beauty?

no Sleeping Beauty pricked her finger on a poisoned needle and fell into a deep sleep for 100 years.

Redway 16-03-2021 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11018328)
that is a story written by a man

I am talking about scientific fact

XY comes from XX since female’s the default sex. That’s a scientific fact.

thesheriff443 16-03-2021 06:10 AM

For the record I love strong independent women I hate week men

user104658 16-03-2021 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 11018436)
XY comes from XX since female’s the default sex. That’s a scientific fact.

This is true, it's (genuinely) why the ballsack has a "seam" up the middle - it's where the two sides of the labia join and seal together when male sex hormones are introduced during gestation. It's also why men have nipples (they start to develop before the fetus goes one way or the other). Fascinating stuff really.

Babayaro. 16-03-2021 07:45 AM

I would say out of those, it would be sometimes letting inappropriate jokes slide. I do make more of an effort nowadays to call a friend out on stuff like that, but know I should try harder

Niamh. 16-03-2021 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 11018190)
Ladies, while they're answering the poll we should say how many of the options we have been affected by. 8 for me.

12 for me

Ammi 16-03-2021 09:14 AM

...I had 9 very definite’s that I didn’t post the number yesterday but it was very valid for Jess to suggest that as well, that the ones felt should be noted also...

Beso 16-03-2021 09:16 AM

They must have designed the cricket ball on a ball sack.

Ammi 16-03-2021 09:18 AM

...to be honest, though...I’m not always entirely quite clear between misogyny and sexism...I mean some are more obvious but for instance, which would ‘inappropriate jokes’ be...?...

user104658 16-03-2021 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11018488)
...to be honest, though...I’m not always entirely quite clear between misogyny and sexism...I mean some are more obvious but for instance, which would ‘inappropriate jokes’ be...?...

I don't actually think the distinction is all that important; it would only be to "lessen" one definition vs the other for the sake of the perpetrator and stop them launching into the defensive whining... which those that way inclined would probably do anyway whether you called it misogyny or sexism. I can't personally think of many examples of sexism that don't come from some level of unconscious misogyny.

Niamh. 16-03-2021 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11018488)
...to be honest, though...I’m not always entirely quite clear between misogyny and sexism...I mean some are more obvious but for instance, which would ‘inappropriate jokes’ be...?...

I would say the two are a lot of times entwined but misogyny is more of an actual hatred for women. Like you could be sexist but not a misogynist but all misogynists are sexists (that sounds like one of those Maths/IQ test questions :laugh: ) These are the definitions

sexism
noun
prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex.

misogyny
noun
dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.

Ammi 16-03-2021 09:29 AM

...yeah, I’m overthinking I guess but there are ‘levels’ which I wasn’t sure if there was a line, if that makes sense...

Ammi 16-03-2021 09:30 AM

...TS, I can’t talk to you very easily when you look like Piers Morgan with a screwed up face...

user104658 16-03-2021 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11018493)
I would say the two are a lot of times entwined but misogyny is more of an actual hatred for women. Like you could be sexist but not a misogynist but all misogynists are sexists (that sounds like one of those Maths/IQ test questions :laugh: ) These are the definitions

sexism
noun
prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex.

misogyny
noun
dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.

See even by the dictionary definitions I think it's largely the same thing... people don't engage in the former without some element of the latter. I guess going by those, they're actually just different aspects of the same thing; misogyny is just the feelings/beliefs in and of themselves from their conception, whereas sexism is the active form of actually engaging in misogynistic behaviours (rather than just thinking them).

user104658 16-03-2021 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11018498)
...TS, I can’t talk to you very easily when you look like Piers Morgan with a screwed up face...

Funny story; the other day I forgot I had this avatar, saw my own avatar when I was scrolling down the page, and thought the post was LT. :joker: there must be some sort of strong cognitive link!

Niamh. 16-03-2021 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 11018501)
See even by the dictionary definitions I think it's largely the same thing... people don't engage in the former without some element of the latter. I guess going by those, they're actually just different aspects of the same thing; misogyny is just the feelings/beliefs in and of themselves from their conception, whereas sexism is the active form of actually engaging in misogynistic behaviours (rather than just thinking them).

Yeah, I suppose you could say misogyny is more of a conscious thing or that some people who behave in a sexist way don't think hard enough about why sexism comes from misogyny? I don't know. Neither is great is it?

Ammi 16-03-2021 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 11018502)
Funny story; the other day I forgot I had this avatar, saw my own avatar when I was scrolling down the page, and thought the post was LT. :joker: there must be some sort of strong cognitive link!

...see, it’s just so not you at all...poor LT, though, I don’t think it’s him either...

Ammi 16-03-2021 09:42 AM

...some of the definitions that I’m reading are suggesting that sexism deals with and defines more the inequalities of sexes, as in salaries not always been equivalent for an equivalent job...?..but misogyny goes deeper into a dislike of..?..well, hatred of I guess, technically...

user104658 16-03-2021 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11018505)
...see, it’s just so not you at all...poor LT, though, I don’t think it’s him either...

Sometimes I think it is literally him Ammi... did Piers ever express being a Big Brother fan?

Ammi 16-03-2021 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 11018508)
Sometimes I think it is literally him Ammi... did Piers ever express being a Big Brother fan?

...LT is the one feeding the grapes to Piers is what was reported in the DM...allegedly...

Alf 16-03-2021 12:13 PM

I give up!

Alf 16-03-2021 12:14 PM

I'm just not allowed to be myself.

Mystic Mock 16-03-2021 12:19 PM

I don't think that I've been guilty of misogynistic behaviour, but then I am gonna say that because nine times out of ten people don't realise that they are prejudiced towards a group of people.

An interesting topic though Redway.

Crimson Dynamo 16-03-2021 12:25 PM

There’s a difference between a sexist and a misogynist


https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/li...st-misogynist/

Mystic Mock 16-03-2021 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11017237)
Mansplaining is definitely a thing but I agree that it's so overused now it's pretty meaningless

Oh I agree.

I saw a woman on Twitter the once say that a guy was mansplaining to her just because he disagreed with her.:joker:

The original meaning of the word is getting lost.

Oh and I've just re-read the inappropriate jokes option, I've definitely let jokes of that nature slide in the past.


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