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thesheriff443 29-05-2022 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11171027)
Mock if you were a Dad and your darling 18 year old daughter said she is dating a 44 year old bloke from the Black Country im sure you would not be like:

"i say darling that is just dandy, when can we have the chap over for a Curry supper?"

:joker:

That’s the standard protective father routine

I’d rather my daughter be with an older man who worshipped her than some snotty nose kid treating her like sh1t

It’s hard but they are not kids forever

Crimson Dynamo 29-05-2022 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11171033)
That’s the standard protective father routine

I’d rather my daughter be with an older man who worshipped her than some snotty nose kid treating her like sh1t

It’s hard but they are not kids forever

sure you would

in that instance you would react like every father would

thesheriff443 29-05-2022 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11171038)
sure you would

in that instance you would react like every father would

See you are pressuring I think like you other fathers.

You could jump up and down and scream the house down but at 18 they are an adult.

Beso 29-05-2022 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11171040)
See you are pressuring I think like you other fathers.

You could jump up and down and scream the house down but at 18 they are an adult.

And fair game for us silver foxes.:creep:

Sorry kate, darling.

thesheriff443 29-05-2022 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11171045)
And fair game for us silver foxes.:creep:

Sorry kate, darling.

Easy there grandad.

Mystic Mock 29-05-2022 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11171027)
Mock if you were a Dad and your darling 18 year old daughter said she is dating a 44 year old bloke from the Black Country im sure you would not be like:

"i say darling that is just dandy, when can we have the chap over for a Curry supper?"

:joker:

What's up with the Black Country? Besides Wolverhampton Wanderers anyway.:hehe:

But in all seriousness in that scenario it would honestly depend on how long that they've known each other for.

Like for example if he was her Teacher back in Primary School then I'd see that as a massive red flag.

Beso 29-05-2022 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11171047)
Easy there grandad.

I reckon I could outrun you sherriff.

Beso 29-05-2022 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11171049)
What's up with the Black Country? Besides Wolverhampton Wanderers anyway.:hehe:

But in all seriousness in that scenario it would honestly depend on how long that they've known each other for.

Like for example if he was her Teacher back in Primary School then I'd see that as a massive red flag.


What if it was one of your mates?

thesheriff443 29-05-2022 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11171050)
I reckon I could outrun you sherriff.

I’ve done heavy physical work for most of my adult life so I would say no plus I don’t drink or smoke

My brother did a 14 mile have marathon without any training and was so fast waited for his wife a the finishing line and she had been running half marathons for years

GoldHeart 29-05-2022 08:43 PM

Depends really on how big the age gap is and their intentions. Can't really say anymore than that .

Also how they met plays a part in it aswell .

Beso 29-05-2022 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11171053)
I’ve done heavy physical work for most of my adult life so I would say no plus I don’t drink or smoke

My brother did a 14 mile have marathon without any training and was so fast waited for his wife a the finishing line and she had been running half marathons for years



You're too butch to run far. you know it, and I know it.

You're brother however, well that's a different story.

Kate! 29-05-2022 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 11171056)
Depends really on how big the age gap is and their intentions. Can't really say anymore than that .

Also how they met plays a part in it aswell .

How so? What would constitute a good way and a bad way to meet?

thesheriff443 29-05-2022 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11171061)
You're too butch to run far. you know it, and I know it.

You're brother however, well that's a different story.

My brother is smaller than me but he is just as strong his son is tall and skinny but can punch like a mule.

If it was a run for the pub you would win

GoldHeart 29-05-2022 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11171066)
How so? What would constitute a good way and a bad way to meet?

E.g if the older person was their boss , teacher , or their parent's friend , or their best friend's mother or father etc . That would be awkward/ weird.

As for a good way , I don't know just something relaxed & comfortable . Online dating seems to be how alot of people meet ,or if they've known eachother a while etc.

Kate! 29-05-2022 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 11171070)
E.g if the older person was their boss , teacher , or their parent's friend , or their best friend's mother or father etc . That would be awkward/ weird.

As for a good way , I don't know just something relaxed & comfortable . Online dating seems to be how alot of people meet ,or if they've known eachother a while etc.

You've inspired me to make a thread. Ty. X

Kizzy 29-05-2022 09:35 PM

I think there's a point where it works and then not... I was 17 when I met the kids dad he was 25. Then when I was 23 and he was 31 it felt odd.

GoldHeart 29-05-2022 09:44 PM

That's why people's intentions are really important.

Sometimes the gap can be far too big ,but other times it could be fine. Depends on the age difference. also they might not have much in common. Everyone is different.

Another weird example I just thought of aswell is if the person use to be their babysitter , that would be a red flag I would say.

Beso 29-05-2022 10:21 PM

[QUOTE=thesheriff443;11171069

If it was a run for the pub you would win[/QUOTE]

I would run to keep any business open..not just pubs.

Crimson Dynamo 29-05-2022 10:45 PM

Only if it's been ages since you last did it


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