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Originally Posted by Niamh.
(Post 11309186)
Absolutely agree. In my experience, a man that doesn't want a woman just because she's slept with a few guys is probably not the kind of person you would want to have a relationship with anyway because he clearly doesn't view women as a proper human being like he is. That sounds a bit dramatic but I truly do believe that, especially when usually these guys think it's perfectly fine for men to have slept with as many women as they wanted. It means they don't view women as equal to them but more like a possession. That type of relationship is not for me
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What you say makes perfect sense, imo anyway. And yeah, the view that it's cool for a man to sleep around, and that he's a "top g" if he does and celebrated by his peers, but that if a woman sleeps with different men she's a slut is absolutely ridiculous. Why can't a single women enjoy sex like a single bloke does without being branded "unworthy of marriage and a partner". It's such a weird stance to have.
It's a very selfish stance too. A guy that wants young and pure basically means he wants to show you what his idea of sex is, and what he expects from sex from you. Sod that, that's controlling ,and boring for the woman. Trust me young lads (if any are on here) experience in a woman is MUCH better. Not some lifeless shag whenever you feel like it because some think it's the "wifey's duty" to pleasure you whenever you feel like it. How soulless and boring!
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