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Ammi 21-09-2024 09:13 AM

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…the whole story is just so screwed up and the monster characteristics were inherited from their parents who took away their childhood which ultimately led to their adulthood being lost also in the confines of a prison…their father was obviously an horrendous abuser but their mother also was awful…and if they appeared to be sociopathic in their behaviour, it was obviously because learned to bury so much of their emotion inside in trying to make themselves immune and detached to the harm that was being done to them…

Ammi 22-09-2024 07:04 PM

…I finished watching the series yesterday evening….I do need to read up some information about it and see how factual it all was….such a complex case, though…

bots 22-09-2024 07:12 PM

i've just started it :worry:

Niamh. 23-09-2024 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11509769)
…I finished watching the series yesterday evening….I do need to read up some information about it and see how factual it all was….such a complex case, though…

Oct 7th there's a documentary coming to Netflix about the case so that should be better

LaLaLand 23-09-2024 04:25 PM

There’s a documentary about the case featuring the brothers (via phone from prison) coming to Netflix in October.


Ammi 23-09-2024 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11510112)
Oct 7th there's a documentary coming to Netflix about the case so that should be better

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Originally Posted by LaLaLand (Post 11510126)
There’s a documentary about the case featuring the brothers (via phone from prison) coming to Netflix in October.


…thank you both, I’ll for sure watch the documentary next month…

bots 24-09-2024 10:34 AM

i was just bewildered by this series. I can't think of another way of describing it :laugh:

Niamh. 24-09-2024 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by bots (Post 11510326)
i was just bewildered by this series. I can't think of another way of describing it :laugh:

Are you going to watch the documentary that's coming out soon?

bots 24-09-2024 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11510327)
Are you going to watch the documentary that's coming out soon?

yep

Niamh. 24-09-2024 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by bots (Post 11510328)
yep

Good, it will be interesting to see the two side by side

Niamh. 24-09-2024 11:35 AM

Oh just one other piece of information that wasn't in the show (and unfortunately wasn't found until after the verdicts) was

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A letter Erik wrote nine months before the killings to his cousin telling him about the abuse

bots 24-09-2024 12:03 PM

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This event happened in the 80's at which point abuse really wasn't a thing that was talked about, so comparing it with todays environment just doesn't work. Many juries wouldn't believe it was an actual credible possibility

The way the show was dramatised, really didn't work for me. It's like latter series of the crown, where we are all well aware that apart from the key historical facts, the rest was just fiction. Look at the jury discussion during sentencing. That was just complete nonsense. They were going back and questioning whether they were innocent or guilty, where the same jury had just unanimously declared them guilty. The object of sentencing is to determine the death or imprisonment, not to relitigate the case


Niamh. 24-09-2024 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by bots (Post 11510352)
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This event happened in the 80's at which point abuse really wasn't a thing that was talked about, so comparing it with todays environment just doesn't work. Many juries wouldn't believe it was an actual credible possibility

The way the show was dramatised, really didn't work for me. It's like latter series of the crown, where we are all well aware that apart from the key historical facts, the rest was just fiction. Look at the jury discussion during sentencing. That was just complete nonsense. They were going back and questioning whether they were innocent or guilty, where the same jury had just unanimously declared them guilty. The object of sentencing is to determine the death or imprisonment, not to relitigate the case


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I stopped watching the Crown, only watched a couple of episodes of the last season

I agree with you though I really didn't like how they dramatised this case. I found it really distasteful how the brothers who were very very likely to have been victims of childhood sexual abuse were really objectified and sexualised in this show

Niamh. 26-09-2024 11:55 AM


Ammi 26-09-2024 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by bots (Post 11510352)
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This event happened in the 80's at which point abuse really wasn't a thing that was talked about, so comparing it with todays environment just doesn't work. Many juries wouldn't believe it was an actual credible possibility

The way the show was dramatised, really didn't work for me. It's like latter series of the crown, where we are all well aware that apart from the key historical facts, the rest was just fiction. Look at the jury discussion during sentencing. That was just complete nonsense. They were going back and questioning whether they were innocent or guilty, where the same jury had just unanimously declared them guilty. The object of sentencing is to determine the death or imprisonment, not to relitigate the case


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…also, though…that it was discussed that the reason the male jurors didn’t give a not guilty was not because of the case or any evidence put forward…?…it was because they didn’t take to the female defence attorney/…one of them…

Glenn. 26-09-2024 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11510353)
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I stopped watching the Crown, only watched a couple of episodes of the last season

I agree with you though I really didn't like how they dramatised this case. I found it really distasteful how the brothers who were very very likely to have been victims of childhood sexual abuse were really objectified and sexualised in this show

The gays have been proper thirsting on it for the last few days.

Ammi 26-09-2024 03:49 PM

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…I’ve been chatting to someone a bit about it…not in depth but they know more about the case/story than I do and they don’t feel that it was an accurate portrayal…I’m more looking forward to watching the documentary now…

Ammi 26-09-2024 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11511327)
The gays have been proper thirsting on it for the last few days.

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…do you think that it was a good portrayal, Glenn…?…or do you think it was quite ‘Ryan Murphy fantasised…?…‘

Glenn. 26-09-2024 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11511329)
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…do you think that it was a good portrayal, Glenn…?…or do you think it was quite ‘Ryan Murphy fantasised…?…‘

Just more of the same from Ryan Murphy isn’t it really. I mean it’s like he tried to cover all bases and make you feel for the mum and dad and the brothers but it was a mess.

Niamh. 26-09-2024 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11511327)
The gays have been proper thirsting on it for the last few days.

Did you watch it? It's just in pretty bad taste considering what they went through as children really. I know that seems to be Ryan Murphys schtick to sexualise everything but it's a bit much when your talking about child abuse victims

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11511328)
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…I’ve been chatting to someone a bit about it…not in depth but they know more about the case/story than I do and they don’t feel that it was an accurate portrayal…I’m more looking forward to watching the documentary now…

Yeah same here Ammi. This dramatisation is supposed to be decent too

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6110318/

Ammi 26-09-2024 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11511330)
Just more of the same from Ryan Murphy isn’t it really. I mean it’s like he tried to cover all bases and make you feel for the mum and dad and the brothers but it was a mess.

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11511331)
Did you watch it? It's just in pretty bad taste considering what they went through as children really. I know that seems to be Ryan Murphys schtick to sexualise everything but it's a bit much when your talking about child abuse victims



Yeah same here Ammi. This dramatisation is supposed to be decent too

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6110318/

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…also the inference seemed to be that the relationship with the brothers was possibly incestuous…?…which seems to be a fabrication in terms of anything factual written…that was only ever a speculation thing based on a one time incident of Lyle taking Erik into the woods with a toothbrush and enacting something his father had done to him in trying to ‘normalise’ it as something that was done within a family…that abuse act with Erik is something he always admitted and only happened one time…he apparently never abused him again…

Ammi 26-09-2024 04:07 PM

…also…

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…also the inference that ‘gay males were drawn to Erik’…that he was gay and in being gay, he enjoyedthe horrific abuse by his father…both he and Lyle were handsome, wealthy boys…lots of people were drawn to them both male and female….

Niamh. 26-09-2024 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11511339)
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…also the inference seemed to be that the relationship with the brothers was possibly incestuous…?…which seems to be a fabrication in terms of anything factual written…that was only ever a speculation thing based on a one time incident of Lyle taking Erik into the woods with a toothbrush and enacting something his father had done to him in trying to ‘normalise’ it as something that was done within a family…that abuse act with Erik is something he always admitted and only happened one time…he apparently never abused him again…

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Yeah, infact it was noted that they weren't tactile with eachother at all in reality which was 100% the opposite to how they were portrayed on the show


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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11511341)
…also…

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…also the inference that ‘gay males were drawn to Erik’…that he was gay and in being gay, he enjoyedthe horrific abuse by his father…both he and Lyle were handsome, wealthy boys…lots of people were drawn to them both male and female….

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Yeah, obviously there would be nothing at all wrong with Erik being gay but he's stated numerous times that he isn't and the reasoning behind the inference comes from a really disgusting place as you pointed out

Ammi 26-09-2024 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11511347)
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Yeah, infact it was noted that they weren't tactile with eachother at all in reality which was 100% the opposite to how they were portrayed on the show




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Yeah, obviously there would be nothing at all wrong with Erik being gay but he's stated numerous times that he isn't and the reasoning behind the inference comes from a really disgusting place as you pointed out

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…yeah, exactly…(…of that time…)…there was a stigma attached to homosexuality and it was the time of AIDS…/…hence his mom carrying out penis checks uggggghhhhhh…because his father would not tolerate AIDS being ‘brought into this house…’….the speculation of Erik being gay was surely just used as a way of saying, what was happening was something that he enjoyed…it was ‘weaponised’ by the series as being something negative…and that was also part of the storyline with his friendship in prison…which apparently he was in solitary and not mixing with others…?…when he married in prison and married a female, again it was inferred that, that relationship would suit him because it wasn’t sexual ….but he’s not portrayed as having any sexual attractions so far as I know…?..probably because of the abuse…

Niamh. 26-09-2024 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11511353)
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…yeah, exactly…(…of that time…)…there was a stigma attached to homosexuality and it was the time of AIDS…/…hence his mom carrying out penis checks uggggghhhhhh…because his father would not tolerate AIDS being ‘brought into this house…’….the speculation of Erik being gay was surely just used as a way of saying, what was happening was something that he enjoyed…it was ‘weaponised’ by the series as being something negative…and that was also part of the storyline with his friendship in prison…which apparently he was in solitary and not mixing with others…?…when he married in prison and married a female, again it was inferred that, that relationship would suit him because it wasn’t sexual ….but he’s not portrayed as having any sexual attractions so far as I know…?..probably because of the abuse…

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I listened to a podcast about the case before watching the show and on that they said that Lyle & Eric were in a separate wing to general population while they waited trial because the case was so high profile and there were fears for their safety


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