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fredmeneedle 11-10-2024 10:31 PM

The thread is about him not her..... he is a legend in his own lunchtime and a complete narcissist.

Mystic Mock 11-10-2024 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11526026)
I can’t see the fuss being made about some old dull lesbian

She's not my type.

But she is heads and shoulders above the other women this year in terms of looks imo, so creeps like Marcello go into overdrive when they see someone like Ali.

Liam- 11-10-2024 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11526015)
Hiw was she at fault? She did nothing

The crime of being a woman

Cherie 11-10-2024 10:34 PM

If she was in anyway upset about it she would be honing in on Marcello not on Khalid and suggesting alliances, Khalid and Hanah ironed out their diffferences, no need for her to take offence on Hanahs behalf

thesheriff443 11-10-2024 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11526030)
She's not my type.

But she is heads and shoulders above the other women this year in terms of looks imo, so creeps like Marcello go into overdrive when they see someone like Ali.

No way mock she got a long face with a big nose rosey and Hannah are far more attractive

thesheriff443 11-10-2024 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11526037)
If she was in anyway upset about it she would be honing in on Marcello not on Khalid and suggesting alliances, Khalid and Hanah ironed out their diffferences, no need for her to take offence on Hanahs behalf

Can see her being the sh1t stirrer

Heaven = Winner 11-10-2024 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11526018)
…one thing I like about him…?…he brought you back to the forum, lovely to see you posting…:love:…

Oh, espèce de charmeur! Thank you, lovely <3

Mystic Mock 11-10-2024 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11526039)
No way mock she got a long face with a big nose rosey and Hannah are far more attractive

Fair enough.

At least you didn't say Lily.:laugh:

Cherie 11-10-2024 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11526040)
Can see her being the sh1t stirrer

I think she will be a major bitch and she will drag Nathan and Lily down with her if they are not careful

Maru 11-10-2024 10:52 PM

I don't think it matters whether it is Ali or someone else, he's farming for reactions. I think part of the reason they're not reacting to his "banter" yet is because it must be very obvious in the house what he is doing.

Ali I think considered taking it further, but then realized it could backfire massively... consider too if he's that blatantly creepy to us, only imagine how it must feel like in there. Then why would Ali share a vape with him at all, if she's worried about boundaries accidentally appearing to be crossed? She's not stupid, either.

Niamh. 11-10-2024 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Maru (Post 11526058)
I don't think it matters whether it is Ali or someone else, he's farming for reactions. I think part of the reason they're not reacting to his "banter" yet is because it must be very obvious in the house what he is doing.

Ali I think considered taking it further, but then realized it could backfire massively... consider too if he's that blatantly creepy to us, only imagine how it must feel like in there. Then why would Ali share a vape with him at all, if she's worried about boundaries accidentally appearing to be crossed? She's not stupid, either.

Letting him try her vape is hardly encouraging someone though, that wouldn't even have occurred to me

fredmeneedle 11-10-2024 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Maru (Post 11526058)
I don't think it matters whether it is Ali or someone else, he's farming for reactions. I think part of the reason they're not reacting to his "banter" yet is because it must be very obvious in the house what he is doing.

Ali I think considered taking it further, but then realized it could backfire massively... consider too if he's that blatantly creepy to us, only imagine how it must feel like in there. Then why would Ali share a vape with him at all, if she's worried about boundaries accidentally appearing to be crossed? She's not stupid, either.

Indeed, well said. I can see him getting a reprimand at some point when he takes his lothario-ness a bit too far

Maru 11-10-2024 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11526071)
Letting him try her vape is hardly encouraging someone though, that wouldn't even have occurred to me

I wouldn't think to share anything that has my body fluids attached to it with a person who is actively going out of their way to overly sexualize interactions with other females in the house. I certainly couldn't push aside that tendency with an SO watching :laugh: It's too hard to believe for me she wouldn't be aware of that with her psych background, either.

That said, I don't think he or the gf would be offended by a bad joke at home because it's so obviously not a "thing" between them. And if the girlfriend were to be the sensitive jealous type, she would be even more careful with her interactions around that person. So the level she had to take it to to find offense, imo, seems a bit strange.

I'm not saying it has to this delicately contrived scheme of 3D chess, but Marcello is his own downfall waiting to happen. It's clear to us, so have to think, it's reasonably clear to many of them in there? Interacting directly with him is a good way to test how he actually handles conflict and whether he actually is intentionally hitting buttons or not. So she can figure out what might happen with him by making him more comfortable around her with little gestures like sharing a vape as it gives her a chance to make a good analysis of him. It's not to get him evicted per say because he's going anyway... but any resulting drama from his bad wording of virtually anything can work in her favor also if she plays her cards right, since we know Marcello is quite the skilled wordsmith according to Marcello... Still, it's too early for anyone to start up too much drama, as Marcello is an easy pickings for the next person out. Doing nothing about it is an easy way to avoid getting under people's skin and being nominated earlier on.

I don't think the HMs are as offended by his commentary and behavior as we might be out here, but other than Lily, they would have to be daft to not even be considering how he easily could be perceived based on past ejections alone.

Zizu 12-10-2024 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Heaven = Winner (Post 11525876)
I'm coming out of hiding for the year just to say how dreadfully abhorrent the vile Marcello is. I can't remember the last time I loathed watching a housemate the same way I loathe watching this terrible cretin.


He’s even more loathsome in the unedited LIVE FEED !!

When speaking to females more or less every conversation turns to sex ..


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Maru 12-10-2024 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11526170)
He’s even more loathsome in the unedited LIVE FEED !!

When speaking to females more or less every conversation turns to sex ..


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Oh wow...

Garfie 12-10-2024 12:34 AM

Just to make people aware, one of the major difficulties of people on the Autistic Spectrum, is their inability to read and understand social interactions effectively, as they tend to interpret language in a very literal way, making it challenging to recognise when someone is being sarcastic, using banter or making a joke.. I would imagine it is probably her condition, rather than for any devious reason, that Ali showed concern about the kiss comment.

Due to how they interpret language, Autistic people can be quite naive and innocent regarding the intentions of other people, and can therefore easily be taken advantage of, or manipulated. Just as their tendency is to interpret language very literally, they also tend to use it in the same way, and for that reason, they have much less capacity to lie, deceive, manipulate or scheme than the average person.

The majority of us can identify whether someone is being serious or having a joke through social cues which we can easily recognise, such as tone of voice, facial expressions and body language. We can do this without even thinking about it. In contrast, Autistic people cannot read social cues, so they are often unable to understand them in the way we instinctively do - to them, these cues are a foreign language which is immensely difficult (and for many impossible) to master, as their brains just don’t work that way. This makes navigating social situations and interactions unimaginably challenging, and like a minefield of confusion.

These are things that might be worth considering when forming views on how Ali is behaving.

Mystic Mock 12-10-2024 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11526170)
He’s even more loathsome in the unedited LIVE FEED !!

When speaking to females more or less every conversation turns to sex ..


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Marcello is going to come out to this song, isn't he?:laugh:


Maru 12-10-2024 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Garfie (Post 11526178)
Just to make people aware, one of the major difficulties of people on the Autistic Spectrum, is their inability to read and understand social interactions effectively, as they tend to interpret language in a very literal way, making it challenging to recognise when someone is being sarcastic, using banter or making a joke.. I would imagine it is probably her condition, rather than for any devious reason, that Ali showed concern about the kiss comment.

Due to how they interpret language, Autistic people can be quite naive and innocent regarding the intentions of other people, and can therefore easily be taken advantage of, or manipulated. Just as their tendency is to interpret language very literally, they also tend to use it in the same way, and for that reason, they have much less capacity to lie, deceive, manipulate or scheme than the average person.

The majority of us can identify whether someone is being serious or having a joke through social cues which we can easily recognise, such as tone of voice, facial expressions and body language. We can do this without even thinking about it. In contrast, Autistic people cannot read social cues, so they are often unable to understand them in the way we instinctively do - to them, these cues are a foreign language which is immensely difficult (and for many impossible) to master, as their brains just don’t work that way. This makes navigating social situations and interactions unimaginably challenging, and like a minefield of confusion.

These are things that might be worth considering when forming views on how Ali is behaving.

Hmmmm.. That gives me something to consider. Honestly, if it weren't for her psych background, I could've just as easily chocked it to slow reaction time and not really thinking through regarding who she was dealing with. But I might have still kept her on yellow. However, I feel like of all the HMs there, even with an Autism diagnosis, she has a potential edge when it comes to gameplay if she plays her cards right. It's entirely possible though she or BB are over-representing her expertise. That wouldn't be surprising either.

GlitterUK 12-10-2024 01:23 AM

I don't think he is being any different towards Ali than he is with baked potato. He is a bit sleazy and cringey.
I also think Ali is a smart cookie, I think she is a game player.

MTVN 12-10-2024 06:19 AM

Did Ali say she's autistic? I know she said she has ADHD

Zizu 12-10-2024 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 11526224)
Did Ali say she's autistic? I know she said she has ADHD


It apparently comes under the spectrum these days

I guess everything under the spectrum kinda overlaps to one degree or another


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Zizu 12-10-2024 06:32 AM

Is Marcello being creepy with Ali?
 
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Originally Posted by GlitterUK (Post 11526195)
I don't think he is being any different towards Ali than he is with baked potato. He is a bit sleazy and cringey.
I also think Ali is a smart cookie, I think she is a game player.


He was unbelievably sleezey when interacting with Rosie last night in the LIVE footage show..

But sadly Rosie is a tad needy and was lovin it - she was like a giggly schoolgirl- soaking all the sleezeball comments up like a sponge

It was an uncomfortable watch to my mind


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GoldHeart 12-10-2024 09:03 PM

First of all wtf is that weird little vaping/ smoking hut with their own mini lockers .

It's too enclosed / tiny , there isn't even chairs or anything.

Why was the camera in there like it was being filmed on a literal potato from 2001 old vintage style :joker::rolleyes: .

Why did Ali even share a vape with Marcello, I've always found it a bit gross when smokers casually do that .

His comment wasn't funny,and he kept pushing the joke . Ali should have just ignored his garbage antics and walked away.

Anyone with common sense knows he's full of BS, you can tell he's enjoying causing trouble and pushing people's buttons. Ali should have just told him he'd be the last man she'd Kiss.

Crimson Dynamo 12-10-2024 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 11526224)
Did Ali say she's autistic? I know she said she has ADHD

I think it depends on who she is talking to

thesheriff443 12-10-2024 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 11526849)
First of all wtf is that weird little vaping/ smoking hut with their own mini lockers .

It's too enclosed / tiny , there isn't even chairs or anything.

Why was the camera in there like it was being filmed on a literal potato from 2001 old vintage style :joker::rolleyes: .

Why did Ali even share a vape with Marcello, I've always found it a bit gross when smokers casually do that .

His comment wasn't funny,and he kept pushing the joke . Ali should have just ignored his garbage antics and walked away.

Anyone with common sense knows he's full of BS, you can tell he's enjoying causing trouble and pushing people's buttons. Ali should have just told him he'd be the last man she'd Kiss.

They don’t want to make the smoking area comfortable and housemates to spend too much time in there because it’s not being filmed for us to watch the lockers are so each house mate can keep their own smoke stuff safe


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