Which is what a nursery child does who hasn't developed proper manners or social skills yet .she even fully spat food out on the first night ,when she was in storage. She doesn't seem to care ot understand how to behave around people.

Yes, exactly! She behaves as a very young child would behave, yet she mentioned gambling away her student loan, which suggests she is someone who apparently has the intelligence, qualifications and ability to be accepted onto a university course. The two things don’t add up.

And she's been banned from the inernet and can only buy scratch cards on a Saturday. She admitted she couldn't complete her first course as it was so hard for her. It seems she's incapable of living life on her own. It's hard to imagine.

I understand that she found the first course at Uni too difficult, but to be accepted in the first place, she ie educated to A Level standard, and must have achieved pretty decent grades in order to gain a University place in the first place. In my experience, Unis tend to interview candidates before an offer is issued, so again, she must have presented appropriately during that.

The fact that she achieved good A Level grades suggests she must be able to be calm and focused to study, which would indicate an ability to control herself. She must also have the intellect necessary to learn and understand more complex concepts to be able to complete A Levels.

Therefore, it doesn’t make sense to me that she is presenting almost like a young child. It seems to indicate that she is picking and choosing how and when she behaves. This, to me, is the conundrum you identified.

Yeah i'm very sceptical,so either it's all about act or something doesn't add up. Is the university story an exaggeration....I wonder :suspect: .

Conditions like "special needs" & "ADHD" are being thrown around...and I do wonder if Lily has some type of learning need,but like we said it doesn't add up .

it's just strange that the actual person with a condition is cool as a cucumber aka Ali , infact she's almost icy lol.

Which is why we should take some responsibility and not let her walk off as the winner with that amount of money...:nono:

Her actual course at university tells us all we need to know about her aspirations.

And you know what she'll still win it ,it will be seen as a 'laugh', for someone that childish to win :notimpressed: .

Oh we know her aspirations. Just to keep working at the Chinese Takeaway forever and ever and ever and ever and ever.

Off to Ibiza in a private jet to gamble it all away. Don't think she'll have much change...

Which would suggest little goals and no ambition or aspirations,yet she went to university :conf::huh:.

Obviously if you're happy in any job , there's nothing wrong with wanting to keep/ stay in that job for however long . But it's weird how she acts like she can't see beyond "Chinese takeaway", and it seems her mother needs to watch over her spending aswell...if she's so reckless with money & gambling. She doesn't sound like she knows how to be independent.