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vesavius 14-10-2024 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by UserSince2005 (Post 11529030)
havent seen the episode, but big brother shouldnt be promoting such a messed up lifestyle choice.
guy wont even be able to get hard with all the christian shame he must have.
sex should be enjoyed its 2024.

The key word here is choice.

Some need to learn to accept other lifestyles and preferences. It's 2024 after all.

GoldHeart 14-10-2024 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by vesavius (Post 11529180)
The key word here is choice.

Some need to learn to accept other lifestyles and preferences. It's 2024 after all.

Ikr
Imagine if Segun did a Marcello and bragged about shagging around,I doubt that would be seen in a good light. So surely it makes a change ,that a man is choosing to wait .

Lostie! 14-10-2024 06:21 PM

He's 25, I was one until 26. For different reasons (I was slow at embracing my sexuality and putting myself out there to meet guys), but I think it's a shame that people have an expectation on everybody to have had sex by a certain age.

caprimint 14-10-2024 10:18 PM

Yeah I liked that he wasn't afraid to say this as well, especially with a bunch of guys around (particularly with someone like Marcello there too), it was refreshing to see

GlitterUK 14-10-2024 10:40 PM

Good on him for being honest I say. So many in his position would blag it. Hanah also.

Mystic Mock 15-10-2024 12:55 AM

He can join the club.

Although I'm amazed that a guy like him hasn't had sex with a woman by now, even with his religious beliefs.:joker:

Mystic Mock 15-10-2024 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Crimson Dynamo (Post 11528961)
I find it hard to understand a word she says

This.:laugh:

She seems alright though.

Mystic Mock 15-10-2024 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Gusto Brunt (Post 11528972)
I don't know how old he is - perhaps 22 or something but if I was a virgin at 22 I wouldn't admit it.:shocked:

Well some of us are less on the hunt for constant sex tbf.:laugh:

Not saying that there's anything wrong with wanting lots of sex btw, you do you.

Ammi 15-10-2024 08:09 AM

…I know someone who didn’t have religion in their life until they were adult age…maybe early twenties, I can’t recall exactly…but they had already lost their virginity before they found their faith…anyway, from then on their beliefs changed in terms of waiting to meet their life partner and waiting for marriage…it feels quite a rare thing but it’s very much a part of some beliefs and good for others to understand so hopefully disperses any type of mockery or whatever…this is what I love about BB…

Gusto Brunt 15-10-2024 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11530327)
Well some of us are less on the hunt for constant sex tbf.:laugh:

Not saying that there's anything wrong with wanting lots of sex btw, you do you.

I can't remember when I last had sex - with somebody. :p

Gusto Brunt 15-10-2024 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Abra (Post 11529072)
He is clearly still a virgin by choice though, it's not like some kind of incel thing or where he can't get laid. Admitting that it's something you are choosing for yourself isn't really embarrassing.

Yeah you're right there. He isn't seething he hasn't done it yet. ;)

Beso 15-10-2024 10:12 AM

Far too much stigma attached to sex these days, it doesnt go away either the older you get. You just get labelled sad and lonely by the supposed caring youth of today, if you ainr getting any, or not wanting any.

GoldHeart 15-10-2024 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11530319)
He can join the club.

Although I'm amazed that a guy like him hasn't had sex with a woman by now, even with his religious beliefs.:joker:

Well neither has Hannah,both of them take their beliefs seriously... it's rare and nice. They'll probably both appreciate it more when the find the right person.

Mystic Mock 16-10-2024 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Gusto Brunt (Post 11530564)
I can't remember when I last had sex - with somebody. :p

Fair enough.:laugh:

I just don't see the issue with him admitting to being a virgin.

Mystic Mock 16-10-2024 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 11530824)
Well neither has Hannah,both of them take their beliefs seriously... it's rare and nice. They'll probably both appreciate it more when the find the right person.

It's the translator for Hanah that's going to be expensive when entering a relationship with her.:joker:

Zizu 16-10-2024 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11531915)
It's the translator for Hanah that's going to be expensive when entering a relationship with her.:joker:


Where has she learnt to talk like that ?


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Mystic Mock 16-10-2024 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11531920)
Where has she learnt to talk like that ?


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I don't know, but it's one hell of an accent.:joker:

And I have listened to AJ and Tess Daly recently.:laugh:

GoldHeart 16-10-2024 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11531915)
It's the translator for Hanah that's going to be expensive when entering a relationship with her.:joker:



Well it's how she talks, upbringing ,her friends... where she grew up I guess. Is she from London?. There's different dialects on parts of London/ street talk etc.

What I like is she isn't putting on an act , she's 100% her authentic self .

HettyLip 16-10-2024 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Abra (Post 11528930)
I thought it was pretty ballsy of him (no pun intended) to discuss this openly on last night's show. Maybe he hadn't intended on it, but when the conversation came up he wasn't going to lie. The conversation seemed to be going well, but I got the sense that he became more uncomfortable the more Emma was cracking jokes about it. She did seem to be prying a bit much, and with Hannah too, but I do think Emma is harmless and she did provoke an interesting conversation to watch.

It is utterly absurd to deny himeslf what is human. Indeed survival of the species depends on it.

Now feast your eyes on the drivel below.
Conform or die, it shrieks in irrational fury


“Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with me nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.”

Ray. 16-10-2024 06:26 PM

It's disturbing how parochial some are on here sometimes, ironically

Mystic Mock 16-10-2024 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 11532266)
Well it's how she talks, upbringing ,her friends... where she grew up I guess. Is she from London?. There's different dialects on parts of London/ street talk etc.

What I like is she isn't putting on an act , she's 100% her authentic self .

I agree with you that Hanah is one of the more genuine contestants in the house imo.

Mrluvaluva 17-10-2024 01:38 AM

I respect him for being honest and it's a personal choice. Nobody else's business. There's too much peer pressure on young people to lose their virginity. That's a problem with society in general. Maybe there wouldn't be so many unwanted pregnancies etc if people weren't ridiculed for being a virgin. Especially young men. Attitudes still haven't changed. You're a stud if you shag loads of girls but, reverse the roles, and you're a slag. He's also said he's been tempted but had the willpower to abstain. Thoroughly admirable. Wait until the time is right for you and have no regrets.

GoldHeart 17-10-2024 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Mrluvaluva (Post 11533057)
I respect him for being honest and it's a personal choice. Nobody else's business. There's too much peer pressure on young people to lose their virginity. That's a problem with society in general. Maybe there wouldn't be so many unwanted pregnancies etc if people weren't ridiculed for being a virgin. Especially young men. Attitudes still haven't changed. You're a stud if you shag loads of girls but, reverse the roles, and you're a slag. He's also said he's been tempted but had the willpower to abstain. Thoroughly admirable. Wait until the time is right for you and have no regrets.

Great post
:clap1:


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