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Crimson Dynamo 21-10-2024 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11539020)
…I wonder if BB see these characteristics in people through the interview stages and think….ooooooo, yeah…controlling would be good, that’ll bring some drama…or if they don’t see them and they just unfold once the housemates enter the house…it’s quite interesting…
I doubt its that subtle


all they heard was "blah blah blah blah blah lesbian blah blah blah"

tick

AnnieK 21-10-2024 09:35 AM
She is so far out of her comfort zone, I actually feel quite concerned for her. The BB house is obviously not the right environment for her to be in.

The behaviour she is exhibiting looks like total defence mechanisms but she is not realising how bad it is making her look trying to control the narrative for everyone.

I think she will come to regret this experience dearly.

FromBB8 21-10-2024 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11539106)
She is so far out of her comfort zone, I actually feel quite concerned for her. The BB house is obviously not the right environment for her to be in.

The behaviour she is exhibiting looks like total defence mechanisms but she is not realising how bad it is making her look trying to control the narrative for everyone.

I think she will come to regret this experience dearly.
The irony being, if she could just be more friendly towards Khaled, I think he could be someone who could help her through it. From what we've heard on the live feed from Daze and Sarah, he's been very supportive towards them through tough moments.

Zizu 21-10-2024 10:21 AM
Not only is Ali an obnoxious control freak she is wildly inconsistent
 
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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11539106)
She is so far out of her comfort zone, I actually feel quite concerned for her. The BB house is obviously not the right environment for her to be in.

The behaviour she is exhibiting looks like total defence mechanisms but she is not realising how bad it is making her look trying to control the narrative for everyone.

I think she will come to regret this experience dearly.

.. I recorded last night’s episode and was actually watching the Live Feed … as soon as I saw Khaled saying some critical things about Ali it was clear that something has / had just happened involving her.

At that moment I took the decision to stop watching this series completely - no main programs or Late & Live or Live Stream and certainly no participation in BB forum chat.

If she is going to be the centre of another row then she will hopefully WALK in the coming days as it could result in her having a meltdown ..

Clearly most of you would absolutely love seeing her falling apart but that’s on you .

We have seen what can happen to a few Love Island participants after the series



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arista 21-10-2024 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by bots (Post 11539023)
controlling personality is not a typical trait of a psychiatrist :laugh:

Forensic Psychologist

FromBB8 21-10-2024 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11539140)
.. I recorded last night’s episode and was actually watching the Live Feed … as soon as I saw Khaled saying some critical things about Ali it was clear that something has / had just happened involving her.

At that moment I took the decision to stop watching this series completely - no main programs or Late & Live or Live Stream and certainly no participation in BB forum chat.

If she is going to be the centre of another row then she will hopefully WALK in the coming days as it could result in her having a meltdown ..

Clearly most of you would absolutely love seeing her falling apart but that’s on you .

We have seen what can happen to a few Love Island participants after the series

Just imagine when she is voted out and starts reading all the awful criticisms aimed at her on TwitterX … AND on THIS forum .. and then does something unthinkable !!


You will all be partly to blame ..


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Then it's up to the producers to manage the situation effectively in, and also outside of, the House, particularly in supporting Ali. Your approach seems to be that Ali should be above criticism for her behaviour in the House. That's just not feasible considering the public vote is purely based on how we perceive and judge the housemates.

AnnieK 21-10-2024 10:36 AM
:conf:
Quote:
Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11539140)
.. I recorded last night’s episode and was actually watching the Live Feed … as soon as I saw Khaled saying some critical things about Ali it was clear that something has / had just happened involving her.

At that moment I took the decision to stop watching this series completely - no main programs or Late & Live or Live Stream and certainly no participation in BB forum chat.

If she is going to be the centre of another row then she will hopefully WALK in the coming days as it could result in her having a meltdown ..

Clearly most of you would absolutely love seeing her falling apart but that’s on you .

We have seen what can happen to a few Love Island participants after the series

Just imagine when she is voted out and starts reading all the awful criticisms aimed at her on TwitterX … AND on THIS forum .. and then does something unthinkable !!


You will all be partly to blame ..


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Is this posted at me as I have not said anything on this forum, or anywhere else, that I wouldn't feel comfortable saying to a person's face. :shrug: I would absolutely NOT love Ali or anyone falling apart in the name of entertainment,

You yourself have been critical of many reality stars over the years, I remember your dislike for Ekin-Su during her time on Love Island and you were pretty vocal then and so you cannot put blame on people for voicing an opinion on a forum for a TV show that someone has voluntarily applied for and gone on.

I appreciate you feel quite protective of Ali for various reasons but people are allowed to have other thoughts and feelings and express them.

Ammi 21-10-2024 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted by arista (Post 11539143)
Forensic Psychologist
…indeed sir, there are multiple branches of psychology and Ali isn’t in any type of social psychology so far as I know…profiling of criminal behaviours and looking at typical behaviour patterns and how to help in directing them in more healthy ways is very specific…in a house of criminals and offenders etc…she’d be very valuable, I would say…very insightful …but maybe her career makes her quite ‘suspicious and paranoid’ in observing behaviour as well and actions and reactions…/…she might over think and over study in people who she doesn’t know so well…I still find her interesting, I have to say….

Ammi 21-10-2024 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11539140)
.. I recorded last night’s episode and was actually watching the Live Feed … as soon as I saw Khaled saying some critical things about Ali it was clear that something has / had just happened involving her.

At that moment I took the decision to stop watching this series completely - no main programs or Late & Live or Live Stream and certainly no participation in BB forum chat.

If she is going to be the centre of another row then she will hopefully WALK in the coming days as it could result in her having a meltdown ..

Clearly most of you would absolutely love seeing her falling apart but that’s on you .

We have seen what can happen to a few Love Island participants after the series

Just imagine when she is voted out and starts reading all the awful criticisms aimed at her on TwitterX … AND on THIS forum .. and then does something unthinkable !!


You will all be partly to blame ..


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…no, we really and sincerely wouldn’t, Zizu…that would be pretty horrific and uncomfortable …if there are a few who feel that and want that…?….then that would be a tiny minority I would say…

vesavius 21-10-2024 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11539140)
.. I recorded last night’s episode and was actually watching the Live Feed … as soon as I saw Khaled saying some critical things about Ali it was clear that something has / had just happened involving her.

At that moment I took the decision to stop watching this series completely - no main programs or Late & Live or Live Stream and certainly no participation in BB forum chat.

If she is going to be the centre of another row then she will hopefully WALK in the coming days as it could result in her having a meltdown ..

Clearly most of you would absolutely love seeing her falling apart but that’s on you .

We have seen what can happen to a few Love Island participants after the series

Just imagine when she is voted out and starts reading all the awful criticisms aimed at her on TwitterX … AND on THIS forum .. and then does something unthinkable !!


You will all be partly to blame ..


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I make it a habit to not talk about the forum members here and ty to keep it about the HMs and show, but this is a disgusting post.

So much wrong with it that I cba to break it down.

Niamh. 21-10-2024 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted by bots (Post 11539037)
i've never heard of the role forensic psychologist before. Forensic basically means evidenced based research to my thinking. It sounds more like a desk job. A forensic accountant for example examines figures. I'm not convinced she has any dealings with "patients", so how could she get struck off :laugh:


To me, there is more to what she is not saying rather than what she is sharing
What does a forensic psychologist do?
A Forensic Psychologist, sometimes referred to as a Criminal Profiler, works with law enforcement agencies to develop a brief profile of criminals, based on common psychological traits. In their line of work they study the behavior of criminals and address anything from psychological theories to legal issues.

Niamh. 21-10-2024 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11539150)
:conf:

Is this posted at me as I have not said anything on this forum, or anywhere else, that I wouldn't feel comfortable saying to a person's face. :shrug: I would absolutely NOT love Ali or anyone falling apart in the name of entertainment,

You yourself have been critical of many reality stars over the years, I remember your dislike for Ekin-Su during her time on Love Island and you were pretty vocal then and so you cannot put blame on people for voicing an opinion on a forum for a TV show that someone has voluntarily applied for and gone on.

I appreciate you feel quite protective of Ali for various reasons but people are allowed to have other thoughts and feelings and express them.
Exactly. This is what BB is about. It seems very selective moral high grounding depending on which HMs he likes/dislikes.

Gusto Brunt 21-10-2024 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted by GlitterUK (Post 11538892)
Cannot stand the bully. Her treatment of Khaled was awful. She is a hypocritical cold bitch.
I wouldn't go as far as saying I can't stand her, but she is a rather dull person who using what she does in her day job, to try and twist what the housmates say or are feeling.

She doens't have a sense of humour and I find everything she says in small talk tedious. :p

Ammi 21-10-2024 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11539157)
What does a forensic psychologist do?
A Forensic Psychologist, sometimes referred to as a Criminal Profiler, works with law enforcement agencies to develop a brief profile of criminals, based on common psychological traits. In their line of work they study the behavior of criminals and address anything from psychological theories to legal issues.
…bots is still a bit of an apprentice when it comes to true crime stuff and the criminal mind…

Niamh. 21-10-2024 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11539161)
…bots is still a bit of an apprentice when it comes to true crime stuff and the criminal mind…
:hehe:

Oh I watched that show as well Sweet Bobby, crazy

bots 21-10-2024 10:56 AM
i'm a slow horse

Vicky. 21-10-2024 10:57 AM
She said something along the lines of 'you aren't listening to me so the conversation is over' to Marcello too..so basically if you don't capitulate to me there's no point in talking. Kind of got my back up tho I don't like him either

Zizu 21-10-2024 10:58 AM
Not only is Ali an obnoxious control freak she is wildly inconsistent
 
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Originally Posted by FromBB8 (Post 11539147)
Then it's up to the producers to manage the situation effectively in, and also outside of, the House, particularly in supporting Ali. Your approach seems to be that Ali should be above criticism for her behaviour in the House. That's just not feasible considering the public vote is purely based on how we perceive and judge the housemates.

I actually think she shouldn’t have gone in .. on the first place .. the production team also have a responsibility/ duty of care though .
If she suffers any kind emotional distress they will get some serious criticism from many different groups.

They would have definitely put measures in place if she had some kind of visible ( not visual) impairment.


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Zizu 21-10-2024 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11539150)
:conf:

Is this posted at me as I have not said anything on this forum, or anywhere else, that I wouldn't feel comfortable saying to a person's face. :shrug: I would absolutely NOT love Ali or anyone falling apart in the name of entertainment,

You yourself have been critical of many reality stars over the years, I remember your dislike for Ekin-Su during her time on Love Island and you were pretty vocal then and so you cannot put blame on people for voicing an opinion on a forum for a TV show that someone has voluntarily applied for and gone on.

I appreciate you feel quite protective of Ali for various reasons but people are allowed to have other thoughts and feelings and express them.

It was aimed at all the people who are relentlessly targeting Ali often unjustly.. sometimes predicting what despicable thing she will do next ..


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Niamh. 21-10-2024 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 11539165)
Sounds about right.

She said something along the lines of 'you aren't listening to me so the conversation is over' to Marcello too..so basically if you don't capitulate to me there's no point in talking. Kind of got my back up tho I don't like him either
Yeah I don't like either of them much so it's a lot easier imo to be objective. I don't like a lot of things he says but this situation was ridiculous and Ali was totally in the wrong and very selective in who she called out, there were others involved in that conversation not just Marcello. That conversation was pretty tame and something you should really expect in the BB house

Zizu 21-10-2024 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11539150)
:conf:

Is this posted at me as I have not said anything on this forum, or anywhere else, that I wouldn't feel comfortable saying to a person's face. :shrug: I would absolutely NOT love Ali or anyone falling apart in the name of entertainment,

You yourself have been critical of many reality stars over the years, I remember your dislike for Ekin-Su during her time on Love Island and you were pretty vocal then and so you cannot put blame on people for voicing an opinion on a forum for a TV show that someone has voluntarily applied for and gone on.

I appreciate you feel quite protective of Ali for various reasons but people are allowed to have other thoughts and feelings and express them.

Ekin Sue wasn’t autistic


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Zizu 21-10-2024 11:03 AM
Not only is Ali an obnoxious control freak she is wildly inconsistent
 
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Originally Posted by vesavius (Post 11539155)
I make it a habit to not talk about the forum members here and ty to keep it about the HMs and show, but this is a disgusting post.

So much wrong with it that I cba to break it down.

I didn’t name anyone.. if you feel bad thats on you ..

Some nasty ‘personal’ things maybe shouldn’t be said /posted on a public forum as they can come back and bite ..

imho


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FromBB8 21-10-2024 11:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11539167)
I actually think she shouldn’t have gone in .. on the first place .. the production team also have a responsibility/ duty of care though .
If she suffers any kind emotional distress they will get some serious criticism from many different groups.

They would have definitely put measures in place if she had some kind of visible impairment.


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Isn't that the issue with these kinds of shows, though? You could argue if any of the Housemates go through any kind of emotional distress then there's going to be backlash. To an extent, there is now.

The more I do see of her the more I agree with you that it probably wasn't the best move for her to go in. Now the producers will have to handle the fallout, not only with the actions in the house but also the upcoming public vote and the message it will potentially send out. They are on dodgy ground and I can accept the argument they have at least partly brought it on themselves.

Zizu 21-10-2024 11:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Gusto Brunt (Post 11539160)
I wouldn't go as far as saying I can't stand her, but she is a rather dull person who using what she does in her day job, to try and twist what the housmates say or are feeling.

She doens't have a sense of humour and I find everything she says in small talk tedious. :p

Having a sense of humour is something rarely attributed to autistic people .. indeed.

::::::

Some autistic people both get and make jokes of the more “traditional” variety. But some people with autism simply don’t find popular joke types or structures amusing. While they may get the point of a funny anecdote or something that is visually or physically funny, they may struggle with more contrived types of humour.


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Ammi 21-10-2024 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 11539165)
She said something along the lines of 'you aren't listening to me so the conversation is over' to Marcello too..so basically if you don't capitulate to me there's no point in talking. Kind of got my back up tho I don't like him either
… oh absolutely I’m the same and was the same with Khaled also…in their own characters are not in any way related to any actions or reactions of Ali …Marcello isn’t someone that could be a favourite for me and that hasn’t changed throughout just because of Ali displaying controlling aspects…


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