No
she loves Women

You have misread the tension.

we don't know her name but we did see her on L and L

a tall black girl with cropped hair

she went one way and could go back

the whole thing is on a knife edge

it seems

Sneak Peek: Ali and Khaled reach breaking point.
 

She means you could have just said “her girlfriend “ … its fine , we understand

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I see this kind of behaviour as a bad trait in Ali. She says what see wants to say, shuts the conversation down and walks away. It's frustrating to watch never mind experience and we've seen it happen on a few occasions now.

Yes, very telling.

She called herself a lesbian. That should be respected. Anything other than that is blatant homophobia.

Very worrying and controlling behavior that borders on bullying tbh

I am disappointed in this from Ali because it's completely unnecessary, he was trying to find some common ground. It's also extremely hypocritical to mention the tactic because she's done that herself, to Khaled, just a week ago.

I think Ali is a great HM, and I don't think the level of vitriol aimed at her is warranted, I've disagreed with her opinion on Khaled, but respected her for her honesty, I agreed with her when she spoke out against Marcello's comments and judgement of her having an issue with discussing his ejaculate... but this feels unneeded.

This is the funny thing, she's blaming other housemates for her job being potentially in jeopardy. When in reality she's sabotaging herself. I bet she'll lose clients all by herself.

I think that's a very fair and balanced assessment. There is something which we haven't seen yet, which led to the majority of Housemates supporting Khaled on the live feed (as the conversation on the sneak peak was just those two), so slightly more context is required from tonight but, from what we've seen so far, I would agree with you.

Borders or is?

Bullying - It can include embarrassing the victim in public, spreading rumours, purposely leaving them out of social situations, or ostracizing them from a group.

Verbal abuse involves using words to name call, bully, demean, frighten, intimidate, or control another person.

Some signs that you are experiencing verbal abuse include:
You feel like you have to walk on eggshells around the other person
You feel like you cannot share things about yourself with them for fear that they will mock or ridicule you
You feel as if you are constantly being put down about how you look, think, act, dress, or talk
You feel inferior or ashamed about who you are
They yell at you but then suggest that you are overly sensitive or that you don't have a sense of humour
They overreact to small problems and then blame you for the resulting argument
They suggest that they are the victim and try to make you feel guilty about something they accuse you of doing

The goal of the abuser is to control you by making you feel bad about who you are.

yes she is gaslighting poor Khaled and Marcello and there will be more victims ahead

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It is not a nice watch. BB need to have a word with her now and make her aware of her actions. I want to know if Khaled made it to the diary room after last night, he was waiting for a while but they appeared in the bed room. I hope they let him in, if they didn't that is awful.

hopefully the penny drops tonight for the housemates and they see what is going on with her and her ways

:fc: