Mystic Mock |
09-11-2024 09:19 PM |
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Originally Posted by BBXX
(Post 11565091)
I personally don't think she was irrational with Marcello, but that's just my opinion. I think Marcello has time and time again displayed misogynistic behaviour and language and calling someone out on that is fair game :shrug: Marcello has constantly criticised Ali for making him feeling uncomfortable because she's said some things he has said has made her feel uncomfortable.
For me, that is the biggest 'red flag' he has exhibited because it shows an entitlement and someone thinking they can say and do anything they want. Pair that with him choosing BP for eviction because she picked Nathan and not him, and it further reinforces that message. Those kinds of behaviours are displayed by the type of men who get personally offended and vengeful when a woman spurs them and that is a display of toxic masculinity.
I get what you're saying about the terms being Twitter friendly, but I am not on Twitter and I have spoken about Toxic Masculinity. My best friend has never had any social media in her lifetime and she has used both of those terms too.
I personally hate the term and idea of 'mansplaining' because I do think women can be just as guilty of patronising men as men are to women, and I think the term patronising is enough because I just don't believe it's a gendered issue.
As for the T-shirt... Ali has been accused of being both a Zionist and Anti-Semitic which is literally impossible.
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So the T-shirt is a nothing burger from people that don't like her? That does make sense tbf as some of her detractors do take it too far for me sometimes.
And the Ali and Marcello stuff I feel is a bit mixed in all honesty.
I feel like she is out to nitpick at any sexual joke that Marcello makes, which imo isn't very nice from Ali because she is making someone feel uncomfortable from expressing their sense of humour in the house, which we all have to put up with that to some degree in society as it is, so I do feel that everyone (including Ali) should be allowed to express jokes in the house that might be deemed "controversial."
But in fairness to Ali, I do think that Marcello can sometimes (especially earlier in the series) skirt the line of what I personally find acceptable from someone.
And for me with mansplaining I hate how some women will use it because they don't like the guy answering them back, I have seen that happen quite a few times on Twitter, and nearly makes me get involved in the argument every single time as I just despise that word. And I know that sounded borderline Incel there for a second, but I swear that I don't hate women.
And when it comes to the Rosie stuff, I would say that Marcello is being silly.
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