People can be many things at the same time. I've always thought that Ali's offensive confrontations have come from a place of defensive vulnerability. One of the reasons Ali defended Lily so much was because the entirety of the house was coming down on her. It wasn't a fair contest Ali understands the effect that type of interaction can have on someones mental state

That is so true. You end up questioning yourself. Respect for that comment.

I watched every episode plus the after show plus the 3 hour LIVE show each day so I saw quite a lot of Ali over that first two weeks ..
I am also on the spectrum and have ADHD ( and dyslexia) so it is natural to feel a certain attachment/ attraction to her imho


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Tbf. We all identify to different people for different reasons.

One man's meat is another man's poison.

…and one man’s feet are everyone’s poison …/..book of Emma, volume 3…

Yes we know you have certain conditions and that’s why I personally don’t get to involved with you because you are not going to see things in a way a person would that doesn’t have your conditions

Life is far deeper and harder than getting to involved with others over a woman you will never meet

WTF? Zizu has every right to share their opinions. An opinion only comes from your own perspective. To dismiss someone's opinion and reasoning though is totally harsh.

Life is far deeper and harder for some on different levels. Try to understand rather than create conflict.

I've got Nathan's toenail clippings and am currently putting them in the post for you.

However, I'm not going to lick the envelope.

:laugh:

I’m not actually creating conflict
Just because it’s harder for people on different levels doesn’t make them right

I’m well aware of the situation but zizu can also create conflict with his opinions

Rapping someone in cotton wool is not going to help them in the long run

A new Marcello song?

I take it you won’t be his backing singer in a tight little leather number :joker:

You take that correctly :hee:

You would of looked great

True but we all have different perspectives on things. We all have our own thoughts on matters. We are all drawn to certain people or situations because you might feel like someone understands where your mindset is or can at least identify with it.

And listening is everything. You don't need to necessarily understand it.

I'll shut up now. I've said my piece.

Niamh.? In a tight little leather number? I'm gone...

:oh:

So we have Ali's bad dreams and Nathan's talking in his sleep come to light. The end is near people must be more restless.

what was interesting about Nathan's dream was that he referred to baked potato rather than Rosie. That, more than anything, showed the depth of their relationship

You are correct in that I do not react to certain things / comments/ circumstances as most people do … sometimes it’s a disadvantage and other times its a definite advantage..

I do feel that many in here have said some truly despicable things about Ali who in the grand scheme of things has done absolutely nothing to warrant such toxicity - so maybe you should direct your comments to those people as well as they have completely overreacted to the things a woman they have never met … has THOUGHT !!


That’s right …. many times she’s been criticised for something the poster thought that Ali was maybe thinking or maybe plotting !!

How bizarre is that !!



She’s become a hate figure for being herself, a young woman with hidden disability and a tragic backstory ( young brother committed suicide in the not too distant past )


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You make some good points

Thank you


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With all due respect people are allowed to say what they want on here regarding those on big brother if its not breaking the rules

If you want to be offended and hurt by people talking about a stranger on a reality tv show that’s your look out

This isn’t anything new, it just happens to be your fave this year. :laugh:

It's been so mild actually compared to other HMs in previous years when the forum was a lot busier

Wasn't Trish your fave last year, Zizu? :smug: You demonstrate great judgement in HMs, may I say.