I don't think I'd need to. I don't think many would come anyway.

My ghost at my funeral:

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…that’s so sad that, that someone with that kind of negative impact has been a part of your life…:hug:…I’m so sorry that’s been something you’ve experienced…

…my ‘life song’, which will be played at my funeral has the lyric line…’And you leave 'em laughing when you go…’…and your words made me think of that line…I’d be there waiting for the laugh because that’s gloriously you…:lovedup:…but if you didn’t leave us laughing then I would hunt you down into the after-life, don’t think I wouldn’t….

Totally empathise with you here. My former sister in law destroyed my immediate family as well. She's dead now. I was in shock but I can't honestly say I overly grieved for her at all.

it was my sister in law too....she was my age and died young tragically BUT I could never forgive her for the heartache she caused.

The exact same. Claire died young too, making my brother a widower. He turned on his family because of her and I want nothing to do him again.

Well my sister in law passed away nearly 4 years ago 3 months after my mum passed away...then when my dad passed away over a year ago we met up at the weekends usually just the 3 of us, me and my 2 brothers, to clear out their property and we naturally bonded again..looking at old family photos etc...having dinner together and re-igniting our banter...it was lovely.

I totally get that.

This may sound harsh, but I really don't care. My sister in law is still alive, I wish she wasn't.

Sounds like the three of us have things in common.

Seems so. I don't know about you and Rusty but my brother is a great guy, loyal, funny, hard working, not a drinker a womaniser or a gambler or anything like that.... and he ended up with her. If I thought I could get away with it, I'd kill her with my bare hands.

lol…I know that feeling :wavey:

:love: You always have such a beautiful way with words, Ammi.

Just daw this... Made me lol.