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Originally Posted by Ammi
(Post 11603856)
…the judges don’t generally make the ruling as a one person thing, which is why they have like a ward of court type system and why so many agencies are involved with so many aspects in the child’s welfare…the process is very lengthy and involves many agencies…and obviously schools are a part of that because they have a representative present for so much of it…
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A good judge will use all of the above in making their ruling, a bad judge can choose to ignore anything they feel like ignoring. The ruling absolutely
is a one-person thing though, at the end of the day. The judge can over-rule
anything they want that's been said by either parent, social services, schools, medical professionals, and hand down a ruling that would boggle any reasonable person's mind. Custody/access court rulings between parents are very different to, say, custody cases where the state is removing custody from both parents entirely. Often what's being sought is court-mandated access, not custody - they're not a ward of the court, the parent denying access already has established custody.
Should also mention often it's not even
denying access, it's simply refusing to force the child to engage in access that's causing them distress. Yes, they are supposed to
force them to go with the other parent, no matter how distressed they are, no matter what they're saying happens when they're with that parent. It's unthinkable. And that's when the "parental alienation" BS starts to come in (the idea that the child is only terrified of the other parent because they've been "lied to". Pseudoscience, pop-psychology and nonsense. There's no basis for this idea, at all, other than men's rights activism pushing the idea).
I wish this was all just conjecture but I know from multiple real-world examples that this is going on, god knows I wish I didn't, and as I said maybe the court system here is worse here than the rUK (and I don't know anything about Ireland), but this new ruling being UK-wide suggests to me that the issues are UK-wide at least.
For obvious reasons I can't share anything about those examples, which I realise makes the claim "trust based" and meaningless on an internet forum, but :shrug:.
Anyway like I said earlier in the thread - we can hope that transparency results in better accountability and fewer judges going god-mode on people's lives.