| user104658 |
18-03-2025 10:49 AM |
Quote:
Originally Posted by thesheriff443
(Post 11616281)
That’s bull sh1t
It’s like saying I’m sure a few drinks didn’t make him crash
You are just trying to dismiss the effects of alcohol on someone so you can push the moral high ground
And you should know better being in the healthcare sector
|
I'm not particularly judging him for doing it, I'm saying that if it happened drunk it's something he wanted sober as well, and also his wife has the right to feel however she wants to feel about it. There's no "should or shouldn't" there - some couples don't consider anything less than sex to be "really cheating", others think a kiss is minor, others think it's unforgivable - that's an entirely personal decision ... if it's something she doesn't want to accept, she doesn't have to accept it, and can end their marriage.
Also the "a few drinks didn't make him crash" - I think you're looking at that wrongly, the "bad decision" there isn't crashing the car, it's getting into the car and driving it while drunk. And yes... people are fully to blame if they do that. Morally and, of course, legally - you drunk drive and kill someone, you're going to jail for vehicular manslaughter. Saying to the judge "Sorry pal I'd had a few pints so I wasn't myself!" isn't going to cut it. |
