Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11636166)

Rubbish. He has snapped once.

I know Chesney and he is a nice guy....he just got snappy in a task

Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 11636203)

Well he is the one and only

Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11636166)

Rubbish. He has snapped once.

I know Chesney and he is a nice guy....he just got snappy in a task

Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11636422)

Yes because it’s impossible to pretend for that long

No way is he Mr Perfect

Originally Posted by Maru (Post 11636172)

By American normie standards, I wouldn't say she displays true maturity as much as she is using self-control to her advantage. It's very common for younger generations of females here to like to try to emulate adult think and give boring Ted Talks to try to outrank one another in the social strata. It always sounds like a pseudo-reformed form of narcissism :laugh:, which is not only funny, but also a tell. Everyone is fighting to be the most evolved lifeform with their big logics in that game. She's constantly repeating what she has heard here and that she thinks other people might agree with. Haven't heard her say anything truly controversial or test the patience of someone else in an argument.

She is also very Miss CA and the politeness game is a big game with the young there more than not. It's hard to know if she will be tested properly given she's been using Chris' as a shield, especially with the gender boogiemen, but can tell she is very intimidated by the likes of Danny because he likes to cut through the ****. I think she's a typical narcissist in every way, but just doesn't give the red flags right away. I wouldn't say she is covert, but just very smartly playing the cards she has in her hands. 3 weeks isn't a lot of time for that to unravel.

Her "relationship" with Chris is a non-starter. They're just playing along to get along. :shrug: If she were to try to change teams, it would totally change the entire game she's been playing, so I don't see it.

And yeah... she just might as well just identify as pansexual with her clear attraction. In my own opinion, she's picking other labels so that she can keep people guessing where exactly she might fall, but I don't really like the way she treats other people with this kind of playing with the mind. I can see her being really toxic irl with that nonsense. But that has nothing to do with Chris' behavior. Chris is just being Chris. He's always felt like he is just there for him and doing his own thing and Jojo is a convenient scapegoat to be whoever he wants to be.

Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11635954)

:umm2:
Disgusting. I really want him to go.

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11635980)

She is enjoying his attention but that doesn't mean it's a good thing; that's what I mean by he knows exactly what he's doing. He's "love-bombing" her, the whole point is (essentially) getting someone "addicted to your attention". It's really toxic behaviour.

Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11635986)

Yep, textbook narcissistic behaviour. If you lose control, you go down the sympathy path.

Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11636166)

Rubbish. He has snapped once.

I know Chesney and he is a nice guy....he just got snappy in a task

Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11636160)

That’s the same nice guy front Chesney is using and everyone seems to be buying it


He literally flipped in the karaoke - showed his true self … yet everyone seems to have forgotten

Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11636795)

Fair enough

I wanted to like him but he just seemed to good to be true .. then he bragged he was a naturist which is a tad odd in my book plus he was sooooo touchy-feely with Michael in those early days .


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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11636792)

What the heck is love-bombing?:laugh:

Verbal abuse is the way to go imo.:dance::joker:


















I'm obviously joking about the verbal abuse part.

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11636846)

Love bombing is when someone (deliberately) pours all of their attention/laser focus/constant validation and compliments onto someone to make them feel extremely special and form an intense bond, in an unsustainable way. It's basically an emotional manipulation tactic.