DT. Don't do anything you don't want to do. Do not feel pressurised. If people egg you on, do not rise to it, and if you do feel uncomfortable, then leave and go home. You should tell a friend where you are going too, if your parents don't know where you are.

Yes I do agree I said it earlier but I repeat it, leave it it you don't feel good but normally everything will be alright ! :thumbs:

Wise Words from wise men!:joker:

You can join Remy and I. We can be the 3 wise men! :joker:

Lol sure, I can be a huge party-boy, clubber, whatever you call it I've always been respectful with people who didn't want to drink or more.
Some people are awkard and it's not good.

OMG Luva I didn't know you were a hot party-boy lol :laugh2::tongue:

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I hate those people at partys that sit in the corner and wont talk to you even! Especially at family occasions!

It depends which type of family occasion is.
Of course it's annoying to invite someone who doesn't talk.
But it never happened to my parties as they are always such a big success...especially when my parents are on holidays ! :rolleyes:

just dont go

you can get drunk it fun

but just to warn you i got drunk from the age of 12- 15 every week i and did a hell of a lot of stupid things which i regret

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I wasn't drinking socially until I was 17, before that it was just a glass of wine at Christmas, and got drunk for the first time at home when I was 15 - my mum dealt with me then!

I'd say do what you feel comfortable with, if you want a drink or two then that's fine as long as someone makes sure you don't get up to anything untoward. I wasn't interested in that sort of stuff at 14, I wouldn't have handled certain social situations either sober or drunk!

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Ignore that! The Issue will only come around another time!

You would be surprised! I can party with the best of them. And outdo them. Go on a night out with me in London and you would be surprised! Sometimes they don't end until around 10am the next morning! :bigsmile:

OMG! Your out! Blooody ell your brave at 14! I wouldnt have the nerve to tell people im bi haha

Are you?

DIDENT YOU JUST SAY lol

Haha no i mean in real life to my friends and family and kinda yeh i am prob like 30% guys 70% girls, Kate Nash and Chanelle is holding back that 70% :P

if i was gay or bi i would never come out of the closet

haha closet woo! :dance:

Lol. Was only joking. I know what you meant.

I knew it, we are exactly identical, great ! :tongue:
The biggest party boys on TIBB wooo ! :hugesmile:

i'm 14 too and it is hard to say no especially to your friends but if they were really your friends then they'd respect your decision that you have a boyfriend and you don't want to drink or cheat on your boyfriend and even if they do fall out with you they won't hold it against you for long i'm sure of it so go to the party, have a good time and if you friends give you grief maybe you should just go stand with some kids with a head in a book for an hour or so :bigsmile:

people i cant sleep its like 4:30 in the morning i just cant sleep :(