I think that we as the members make the forum what it is, so for those of you that think it isnt the same have a think about what you can do differently to make things better!!

Arguing is tiresome and stops decent debate as people feel intimidated into not stating their opinions, lets all have a group hug and try to get along xxx

The forum has been alot happier the last few days. Keep up the good attitude people :thumbs:

I dont come on much anymore because of the pathetic arguements.
I come on to check updates and comment about the X Factor.

One of my arguements was about farhad because I was fed up of the way people were treating him and his threads, nothing was done though. Luckily it has calmed down.

I don't have anyone on here I hugely dislike, or even argue with, but the mood is so dark, so meh.

If anyone annoys me I leave for a while until I know I'm not going to unncessarily argue with them. It works.

Couldn't agree more, Sunny. :thumbs:

And here's my group hug for all of you ............. http://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/s...liebe/d010.gif .

Lauren - welcome back, you've been missed. :hug:

Agree to all of that!

ahh thanks sunshine:kiss: i am glad i am thought of by you as a nice member:thumbs: i guess some newbies can cause a real stir

I couldnt agree with you more kissylittlemissy it is just a few of the new members that are starting to argue but with us i think myself we should learn them to calm down what would you think to that one :lovedup:

:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:, aww see thats nice int it.:lovedup::lovedup:

yes i agree and i am not doing any wrong smilys either or i will get a warning and i dont want that:sad: i bet theres worse members anyroads and that prob makes the matter worse sometimes for others and you seem nice and friendly to Ann:kiss: i like your message in your signature

thanks for that mate i put that in because i feel that all of you are my second family and i love everyone on here it does mean alot to have loads of friends ive always said :hug::hug:

glad to be one:thumbs: im Sandra by the way:spin2: only new but enjoin the fun slowly. got to log off now though as my brother is moaning to get on here and im on his computer see:sad: seeya later:xyxwave:

see ya laters Sandra and take care too :hug:

fatrat glad you liked that :hug::hug:

:hug::hug::kiss::kiss::kiss:

thanks dear TIBB friend you are so kind :thumbs::thumbs::thumbs:

:lovedup::lovedup::lovedup::kiss:

so what you up to today then mate ive been cleaning all morning :whistle: