It's not very difficult to understand, lol. But just to help:

I began to realise when I was twelve. I had been called gay by the majority of my classmates by that time anyway. The reasons for this were 1. I didn't play soccer (Vile sport, I'd sooner kill myself) and 2.The majority of my friends were girls.

Also because I was about ten times more intelligent then them. (I'm not being snooty, we took an IQ test).

Good on you too.
Keep your head high and thing's will get better.
It is hard in school, but it does get easier.

Wow @ lesbian teachers.
We had three openly gay ones.

I'm not entirely convinced about the nature argument. I did sexuality to death in psychology and there was some very overwhelming evidence in favour that suggests its nurture (upbringing) not nature.

Some would say cursing itself demonstrates a limited vocabulary , so I dont think you have a point :thumbs:.

'Gay' as a descriptive word for inanimate objects is just a meme that has set itself in the minds of the people so that they automaticaly believe in it without questioning it [See : Religion].

Who knows. Some people are born gay. Some people become gay. Get a straight person in a room a la Clockwork Orange and expose them to men and who knows , maybe they could turn gay.

Its pointless trying to figure out how the mind works. :thumbs:

i get on better with girls than boys, that doesnt mean im gay!?!?

I agree that environment plays an important role in sexuality.

John Barrowman's[<3] doing a documentary on whether you're born gay or not, which should make interesting viewing.

WOAH OMG.
Sorry TOTALLY OF SUBJECT - BUT DID THE LESBIANS GET IT ON?.

And DAREN OMG, GAY TEACHERS - GANG BANG?

Sorry, back on subject.

I dont get it as much as i used to.
And im not out.

Bear in mind I was listing words that someone who is likely is resort to using gay would perhaps be more open to.

Nobody said it did.
It's just often presumed that guys that have a lot of female friends are gay.
Obviously that's one of many stereotypical characteristics.

My boyfriend's VERY straight acting.
If you met him, you'd think he's straight.

Religion complicates itself. Your bound to contradict yourself and end up as a sinner even for being homophobic , the way everything in religion overlaps itself.

Why bother with teachings? Jesus was a man who absoloutely existed , and its safe to say he was down with ALL the peeps in the hood. In fact , he was hundreds of years ahead of his time with all the turn the other cheek stuff. Just keep it simple.

Screw the old testament. If your going to be homophobic due in part to Christianity , your going to have to be mysoginist and racist too [its all in 'the good book'].

Just because there's multiple gay people in one environment, it doesn't mean they're gonna get it on ;D

Either way, there's no conscious choice or decision to "be gay".

I think it's not a case that I get on with girls it's more that I don't get on with boys.

From experience, boys immediatly hate me. I don't know why but they do. That's fine, I've come to terms with that.

Oh come on , you know we are wilder than most. :joker:


Come to think of it , I have straight friends who love to go to the gay clubs with me , simply cause the party is better [and the free amyl nitrate helps I suppose].

see this is my religious argument

i consider myself a christian and in the old testament it talks about the importance of procreation, yet throughout the bible the message is clear about loving everyone around you and treating everyone as equals, thats why i dont fell offended by homosexuality, even if i dont quite get it

We also have 3 BI teachers and 1 Gay teacher. I love school tho, i'm quite known, girls tell me i get picked on because i get hugs and kisses from them and the boys get jellous. On the plus side if people calls me gay, the girls will kill them! :). Thanks everyone for there replys.

What really p***** me off is boys come up to me and go "Loukas, how you get all the girls man?!" If you show them some b***** respect they might give some back!! FFS boys can be so dumb. XD

Thats exactly why I'm split. Its full of contradictions and the way in which the 21st century life is lead leads to more contradiction and double standards, and the mentality that its fine to follow one rule but not another. Those who are homophobic and put it down to religion should read through the entire Bible and ensure they're following every rule and have never sinned before condemning other people.

And yet Catholic priests cant have sex :rolleyes:.

See how religion just pointlessly contradicts itself over and over?

Just keep it simple. Love everyone. Peace. If theirs a god , thats what he wants. Thats my religion , summed up in a few short words , and its the best damn religion their is :thumbs:.

LMFAO.
yeah, I've got straight friends whom I've kissed and stuff.
Hell, I've got three coming Pride with me Saturday.
&they're dressing up.

On the other hand; I couldn't deal with being in a relationship with a confused male.
I've been there, done that.
&It sounds cruel but as much as I tried to help him out, I regret it.
He led me on and my emotions were taken on a complete rollercoaster.
So I tend to stay away from confused/indenial people.

You can just never win with Religion :joker: . Read my last post I made immediatly beneath yours.

No.

Wanting to sleep with guys instead of girls does.

But again with the labels...:spin2:

Oh but one thing that really annoys me. Imagine the setting in the changing rooms after PE.

Narrow minded person: "Eww, I'm not getting undressed in front of him, he might want to bum me. Watch your backs everyone".

I just feel like saying well youre full of yourself aren't you? Not all straight lads want to jump into bed with every girl they see so either I'm missing something or I'm right in saying gay people are exactly the same, and the generalisation that all gay men fancy all other men is just silly and quite frankly bizarre.

I think its nurture, I have a bad relationship with my father and a great one with my mother who's interests include fashion. My sister forced me to play with dolls with her as well (More feminine things) However, I had alot of male friends and had an interest in go-karting and video games (more masculine things) and I turned out bi. So from personal experiance, I think its nurture definatley. :bigsmile:

I HATE that generalization.

Trust me, I've heard that from some seriously unattractive guys.
&It's like please. don't flatter yourself. I have standards.

On a more serious note; It is stupid.

Since everyone else is giving their story , I might as well give mine.

...three or four years ago , I became obsessed with a man named Ville Valo [Google image him].























...err yeah , thats about it. Ive been gay since then. Go figure :joker:.