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letmein 17-09-2008 10:30 AM

No one should hit anyone.

You have to understand that there is a long history of domestic abuse against women for centuries. Men also outweigh women biologically, although that never an absolute. Many women are bigger than men, and many men are small to begin with. You can then refer to what I stated earlier about the historic nature of violence against women.

But alas, no one should be slapping anyone. :thumbs:

Now, enough with this, or I'll be forced to slap you.

Glenn. 19-09-2008 01:31 AM

The way I see it, if a woman is big enough to throw a punch or a slap at a bloke, they are big eniugh to get one back. If a woman slapped/punched me I would hit them back.

Z 19-09-2008 01:45 AM

I particularly hate women who slap men for no reason; like they literally just slap you for thrills. Those sorts of people deserve a slap back, but I've never done it because I don't want to be judged over it (which is ridiculous, but that's the way things are!)

Women shouldn't be "allowed" to hit men, and if they do, then it should be considered acceptable for a man to hit back (from society's POV) because it's self defense.

MrGaryy 19-09-2008 01:48 AM

It;s weird. If a couple got in a fight and one of them hit the other, in the law's eyes, had it been the women hitting the man - it's self defense. But if it's the man hitting the women - it's domestic violence.

Spike 19-09-2008 07:05 AM

No way, it shouldn't be tolerated for anyone to be slapped

*mazedsalv** 19-09-2008 07:35 AM

Imo, it could be tolerated if the woman caught her husband cheating on her, but defenitley not without a reason.

Slapping someone when they have done nothing bad should not happen.

Sticks 19-09-2008 07:47 AM

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Originally posted by *mazedsalv**
Imo, it could be tolerated if the woman caught her husband cheating on her, but defenitley not without a reason.

Slapping someone when they have done nothing bad should not happen.
It would still be criminal assault, irrespective of whether the "victim" of the assault were willing to raise a complaint with the police and bring charges.

*mazedsalv** 19-09-2008 07:51 AM

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Originally posted by Sticks
Quote:

Originally posted by *mazedsalv**
Imo, it could be tolerated if the woman caught her husband cheating on her, but defenitley not without a reason.

Slapping someone when they have done nothing bad should not happen.
It would still be criminal assault, irrespective of whether the "victim" of the assault were willing to raise a complaint with the police and bring charges.
Yeah I see what your saying.

Ruth 19-09-2008 05:14 PM

Nobody should hit anybody, regardless of gender (unless in self defence, if it is the only option).

Ruth 19-09-2008 05:15 PM

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Originally posted by Sticks
Quote:

Originally posted by *mazedsalv**
Imo, it could be tolerated if the woman caught her husband cheating on her, but defenitley not without a reason.

Slapping someone when they have done nothing bad should not happen.
It would still be criminal assault, irrespective of whether the "victim" of the assault were willing to raise a complaint with the police and bring charges.
Chances are, if the victim of the assault did not want to press charges, then the matter would be dropped. I see it through work, almost on a daily basis. Although, the police do not need a complainant to press charges, they rarely will press charges without one.

Spike 19-09-2008 05:33 PM

This is a stupid question. Violence shouldn't be tolerated no matter who is hitting and who is on the receiving end. For those people saying yes to this question then here are some more..

Should a black woman be able to slap a white woman?
Should a Christian be able to slap a Muslim?
Should a old woman be able to slap a young woman?

Vicky. 27-10-2009 06:35 AM

I think if a woman feels fine to hit a bloke, he should feel fine being able to do it back.

If women want equality, give them it...

Stephanie 27-10-2009 06:40 AM

i don't think a women should be able to slap a man.
and i have slapped a boy in the face, he punched me in the face back. which i expected.

Crimson Dynamo 27-10-2009 07:58 AM

The answer lies in the fact that women are physically smaller and weaker than men, in most cases. Thus the slap rarely is more than a surprise and does not constitute assault.

It is used to shock rather than injure. If a man slapped a woman it would more likely lead to a reversal of that.

When a woman resorts to slapping a male 99/100 they deserved it and it has the desired affect.

atieah2009 27-10-2009 10:30 AM

of course they should not be able to. But if the conservatives come into government then they will be able to LOL.

30stone 27-10-2009 10:36 AM

If i have been slapped or punched by a woman for doing somthing wrong id take it and do nothing as im in the wrong, or if it was just a bit of fun.

But if someone actually tried beating me up as in continually punching me in the face... then im not sure what i would do, would at least scare them, probably get them into a hold until i understood what the were doing.

Dr.Gonzo 27-10-2009 10:36 AM

Equal rights... when it suits. No it should not be allowed.

Stacey. 27-10-2009 11:25 AM

women should be able to slap men,, (my opinion)

Crimson Dynamo 27-10-2009 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by VickyJ (Post 2632466)
I think if a woman feels fine to hit a bloke, he should feel fine being able to do it back.

If women want equality, give them it...

and the fact that men are bigger and stronger?

your comment takes no account

WOMBAI 27-10-2009 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by SiaSiaSia (Post 1488999)
I have slapped a boy, but because he put out naked pictures of me on the internet.
If it was a girl I would have done the same.

I agree with Xander in general though

A perfectly acceptable reason - he deserved it.

Is a difficult one - but as your situation shows - there are times when it is justified.

So I would say in principle, no - but it depends. A woman slapping a man is not the same though as a man slapping a woman - because of the imbalance in physical strenth and size.

Prole 27-10-2009 11:42 AM

No one should hit anyone. Violence is never acceptable. You cannot hit someoneone regardless of how they've provoked you, what they've called you, if they've cheated on you... there is no excuse.

Niamh. 27-10-2009 11:44 AM

It's not right for a woman to hit a man but a man hitting a women back probably wouldn't be a good idea as they are more likely to cause damage!

Crimson Dynamo 27-10-2009 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Prole (Post 2632831)
No one should hit anyone. Violence is never acceptable. You cannot hit someoneone regardless of how they've provoked you, what they've called you, if they've cheated on you... there is no excuse.

So if you are a woman and a man approaches you in the street (or some such example) and tries to feel your boobs and there is noone to help you are not justified in whacking him?

WOMBAI 27-10-2009 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 2632876)
So if you are a woman and a man approaches you in the street (or some such example) and tries to feel your boobs and there is noone to help you are not justified in whacking him?

Yes! How dare he! He should also be charged with sexual assault - men can't be allowed to go around behaving like that.

Crimson Dynamo 27-10-2009 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by WOMBAI (Post 2632916)
Yes! How dare he! He should also be charged with sexual assault - men can't be allowed to go around behaving like that.

indeed, one must politely ask first.


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