Hey gUUrl.

Seeing someone = watching them through their window.

Is that how everybody else does it? Is this where I've been going wrong? Damn.

Yes, try it with a pair of binoculars late at night.

I'm too shy with girls. I'm not sure I want one though as whenever any of mates get one they never seem to have time for anyone else any more. I'd like to think I wouldn't change if I was in a serious relationship. If I'm still single in 10 years time I might start to worry a bit.

Never been in a 'proper' relationship, never firstly found anyone I'd like to be in one with, and plus I hate restrictions, I like to be able to go out and not worry about what I might do.

i havnt had a girlfriend for a couple of months, i want another one now though lol

I have a lovely girlfriend for almost 2 years and so far it has been great, well we had arguments (a lot) but that makes your couple stronger.
And before I met her, I used to cheat on my girlfriends a lot, I guess because I didn't love them but now I don't cheat anymore.
We plan to get a flat together in the coming year. I don't think we will get married or engaged as we don't have the same religion and between our parents, it's a bit complicated. But it's fine.

Apart from the marriage bit (never say never, just not yet), thats pretty much the same as me ... dunno about you but I feel a lot better about myself and an all round better person for starting to settle.

To be honest I do feel a bit frustrated not to dance with another girl or to play with her and I miss sometimes the whole 'I am cheating my girlfriend, it's so exciting'. But I wouldn't do that anyway, I realized I couldn't hurt her as I used to hurt my previous girlfriends, and she knows that.

I'm single, and I'm quite happy with it. I don't need a boyfriend or a girlfriend to complete my life. But if the right one comes along... I aint gonna say no! :wink:

Been in a relationship for 4 months, she was a really good friend for a couple of years, but then it changed etc. In any case, it's the easiest relationship ever, we've never had an arguement, there's never been any drama about it, and there's just not been a problem, and I doubt there will be; I think if it ends it'll be mutual & we'll still be really good friends.

Single but I want a girlfriend.

You cannot say so, you never know what will happen. We are all like that at the beginning, we think there will be no drama and arguments. I am not saying there will be but you don't know what to expect in a relationship.

Arguments are good though. Cracks will show shortly but its not a bad thing, don't think because you're arguing you'll split up :tongue:

Never had a girlfriend so I am single atm.

I am only 13. Not looking for a relationship atm it is too much hassle.

if youve never had a girlfriend how do you know?

Yes they are. It bring a bit of spice in a relationship, it would be boring without them. :hugesmile:

Theres also the make up sex to look forward too :joker:

Yes, it's the best way to make it up again. :hugesmile: It pretty much always ends this way.

Becuase lots of people my age have and they dump and run off with other people.

What happens if that happens to me?

You will run off with other people. That's what makes a life and makes you stronger you know.
Don't be influenced by what other people are doing.

Don't take that attitude, each and every relationship experience is different to the every other - plus, as you said, you're 13, you don't need to be thinking about relationships all the time. Give it a couple of years before you start thinking about it; and even then, don't rush into something you don't want! :spin2:

When I was 13 I already had 2 girlfriends lol That was easy when we were younger, just kissing and being happy. Now it's different.

Thats the point, and if you start younger then the better bf/gf you'll be in the long run to whoever you eventually think is the one ...