Oh dear... Only ONE MONTH?!?! Boy you been stung!

Deep down would you want this now or in a few years time?

Yeah were together a month but we've kind of been seeing each other 2 - 3 months (not much better I know)


Few Years maybe I'm not even 21 yet, I always said I wanted kids though but never this early, just goes to show though never plan things, and always use a CONDOM

Oh I know what you mean now. I know it as "the implant".

It's VERY effective.

Could be that she had a physiological reaction to it or more than likely she took antibiotics whilst using it which reduces it's effectiveness to almost zero.

Edit: Oops. I've kinda gone off the topic with something retrospective.

Stop using big words!

I don't know what happened, I can't argue now though so all I can do is be there for her and the kid (has to be the scariest thing i've ever said)

:sad: Okay.

Here's my post in less words:
O the implant, ey? Maybe it didn't work cos she took other pills.

Iceman! How far gone is she?

Could you just dim it down a wee bit, ta.

An abortion is still possible provided she's not far gone. Since you've been together for only a month, I'm guessing she's not. I'm not saying go for one, or look at it lightly - but you're acting as if you've no choice in the matter.

If you genuinely feel now is not the right time, I think you should have a right to say - it doesn't mean you won't support her final decision, but at least try to argue your cause.

Like I said earlier, congratulations - but just make sure you're totally happy about it first.

She has only just booked her first scan yesterday so I wont know until tuesday next.

Abortion is out of the question we live in Ireland, I mean If we both decided it was best then we would consider it but I don't think I could ever do that.

Fair enough, my initial congratulations still stand.

Thanks Lauren and to those who believe me, kinda makes me pissed off that people wouldn't believe me in the first place though, ive never lied about anything on TIBB before though.

Both go on the dole, you will get £500 for the baby before the birth, huge dole money due to claiming for you, gf and baby..
Plus you will get child benefit, milk tokens, plus if you claim for a budgeting loan you could get upto £1,000! And the council will find you a flat and you will get your flat paid for. Also put your name down on the housing list so you will get a nice council house, then after few years put in for the right to buy!!

I think it was just cos people couldn't understand your typing? It was a little erratic, and at first I wasn't even sure what you were on about. :tongue:

I always believed in you Iceman!

No doubts your a quality guy.

Well I was a bit drunk typing but I didn't even know what I was typing myself, I literally found out at about half 12 tonight.

But thanks anyway!

Aw shucks yoyu make me blush!lol
Serious though thanks Ben!:wavey:

Aw thats soo sweet congrats!!

If a boy.
Maximus.
Maximo.
Maximian.
Maxentius.

If a girl.
Lisa.
Laura.
claudia.
Julia.

If its a Boy Name him after me

Ben a quality name.

Though could be

Francesc

Boys or girls name and one of the best midfielders in the world.

Call him Fabio! Or Fabius!

I haven't even thought about names to be honest but I want to name the baby either FRANK for a boy (My grandad who died last month) or MARIE for a girl (My Mother's name she died in 2001)!

Have some good reasons, just have to talk to your lady about it now :thumbs:

Am happy for you.:thumbs:

Could you change the Marie to Maria?