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pinkmichk 12-05-2009 09:08 AM

ever thought about not judging a book by its cover and actually get to know the lad before assuming all sorts based on how he looks acts and cos of facebook quizzes :rolleyes: you say he has been bullied before so he is probably a bit 'cagey' and worried in case it happens again bullying is horrid and can really make someone go into theirs selves etc
as for speaking to tutor just dont it could only make things worse for him to be singled out like that
no offence but you do act a bit like a drama llama at times over really daft things

Sod_James 12-05-2009 10:01 AM

meh, i would just shrug and get on with it. if he goes on a suicidal killing spree just make sure your out of his way.

xDramatick 12-05-2009 10:43 AM

I totally agree with Lauren+Ross.
Way overreacting.

Billy 13-05-2009 04:25 PM

Overly pathetic,even for you.

Scarlett. 13-05-2009 04:26 PM

shoot him Loukas! is the only way!

lily. 13-05-2009 04:32 PM

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seung-Hui_Cho


You'll all be sorry if Loukas isn't over-reacting..


Mwahahahahahahahaha

lily. 13-05-2009 04:35 PM

http://hitsusa.com/blog/285/finland-...youtube-video/


I'm just making him more paranoid now..

Brad* 13-05-2009 04:35 PM

If you want to be safe, join Andymans Brotherhood.:thumbs:

lily. 13-05-2009 04:39 PM

Lmmfao.... you actually deserve him now.. that was the best recruitment pitch ever! Gettin the poor lad once I've scared the shite out of him with linkage of nutjobs!

Loukas 13-05-2009 04:43 PM

I don't think I'm over reacting ONE LITTLE BIT. He's the quite type that keeps himself to himself, poking dead animals with sticks in the park, Sorry if i find that strange. Every time anyone goes up and talks to him, he tells them not to talk to him or says get out of my way or even not talking to them at all. Emotionless cold person, then letting his emotions out on Facebook, saying how he wants to die before he turns 16 and saying hes going to take us with him.. Sorry if i was scared, i come on to TiBB to talk to people i trust and give me advice and i get called pathetic, i guess everyones entitled to their opinion.

lily. 13-05-2009 04:44 PM

For the record Loukas,, I'd be worried too. Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris acted that way before Columbine.. and nobody did anything..

Scarlett. 13-05-2009 04:45 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
I don't think I'm over reacting ONE LITTLE BIT. He's the quite type that keeps himself to himself, poking dead animals with sticks in the park, Sorry if i find that strange. Every time anyone goes up and talks to him, he tells them not to talk to him or says get out of my way or even not talking to them at all. Emotionless cold person, then letting his emotions out on Facebook, saying how he wants to die before he turns 16 and saying hes going to take us with him.. Sorry if i was scared, come on to TiBB to talk to people i trust and give me advice and i get called pathetic, i guess everyones entitled to their opinion.
he probably wants to look weird to get noticed, trust me, its very unlikely he is a genocidal-suicidal-homicidal crazed loonie

lily. 13-05-2009 04:46 PM

U don't know that chewy... :nono:

Tom4784 13-05-2009 04:46 PM

Just stay out of his way, If you're worried perhaps discreetly tell someone your fears who can help.

Z 13-05-2009 04:47 PM

I'm thuper, thuper serial, manbearpig is real.

Brad* 13-05-2009 04:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by lili
Lmmfao.... you actually deserve him now.. that was the best recruitment pitch ever! Gettin the poor lad once I've scared the s**** out of him with linkage of nutjobs!
:thumbs:

Lauren 13-05-2009 04:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
I don't think I'm over reacting ONE LITTLE BIT. He's the quite type that keeps himself to himself, poking dead animals with sticks in the park, Sorry if i find that strange. Every time anyone goes up and talks to him, he tells them not to talk to him or says get out of my way or even not talking to them at all. Emotionless cold person, then letting his emotions out on Facebook, saying how he wants to die before he turns 16 and saying hes going to take us with him.. Sorry if i was scared, i come on to TiBB to talk to people i trust and give me advice and i get called pathetic, i guess everyones entitled to their opinion.
Wow so he's shy and quiet. It's obvious when people go up to speak to him, they're being ignorant little twerps, giggling with their friends to try and prove him to be "weird".

So far you know he's shy and wants to die, yet your first thoughts come to YOURSELF? The poor lad is obviously suffering somewhere in his life, stop treating him like a freak and let him get on with it.

lily. 13-05-2009 04:49 PM

Or get him the help he might need.... ?

Lauren 13-05-2009 04:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by lili
Or get him the help he might need.... ?
By telling a teacher it'll push him into isolation. No offence to Loukas, but his friends going up to him to try and get him to speak is never going to help.

lily. 13-05-2009 04:53 PM

Maybe. Maybe not.

I personally don't think people should just ignore these things. Maybe he's getting the chit kicked out of him at home. Maybe he doesn't have the courage to speak up. Maybe someone has to come to him to see what's goin on.

Or maybe it's nothing, and he's just being a teenager and acting up.

I still don't think ignoring it is the answer. If it was my kid I'd wanna know wtf was going on with him.

Loukas 13-05-2009 04:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lauren
Quote:

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
I don't think I'm over reacting ONE LITTLE BIT. He's the quite type that keeps himself to himself, poking dead animals with sticks in the park, Sorry if i find that strange. Every time anyone goes up and talks to him, he tells them not to talk to him or says get out of my way or even not talking to them at all. Emotionless cold person, then letting his emotions out on Facebook, saying how he wants to die before he turns 16 and saying hes going to take us with him.. Sorry if i was scared, i come on to TiBB to talk to people i trust and give me advice and i get called pathetic, i guess everyones entitled to their opinion.
Wow so he's shy and quiet. It's obvious when people go up to speak to him, they're being ignorant little twerps, giggling with their friends to try and prove him to be "weird".

So far you know he's shy and wants to die, yet your first thoughts come to YOURSELF? The poor lad is obviously suffering somewhere in his life, stop treating him like a freak and let him get on with it.
I don't see anyone pointing and laughing at him, nobody wants to prove he's 'wierd' he wants to be the way he is fair do's, i just don't want him to hurt himself or others. When i tried to speak to him he asked me not to speak to him again, i respected that and i haven't spoken to him since. But the things he has said on facebook has worried and scared me..

Lauren 13-05-2009 04:55 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by lili
If it was my kid I'd want to know wtf was going on with him.
If it was me (I won't say my kid cos I won't have been in that situation and you have) - I won't want people posting on an internet forum saying I'm weird and quiet, and analysing my quiz results on fb whilst inducing mass panic about being a 'killer', which is what Loukas is doing.

If someone genuinely came up to me to help, great. But it just sounds like it's irritating the situation more and could push him into isolation.

Conor 13-05-2009 04:56 PM

loukas, I dont think you should be worrying as much as you are, but i think its being overlooked in this thread that this person obviously needs help in some form. The problems may not be as serious as thought, but there could still be something deeper. It think its gone a bit further than an 'emo' stage. Althoguh maybe he just has an obsession with death?

lily. 13-05-2009 04:56 PM

As long as Loukas keeps his details off here, then it should be ok.. but yeah, I already said to Loukas in U2U not to make it a discussion point among his friends, but no harm in talking to teacher or whatever about it.

Annie 14-05-2009 08:41 AM

Leave him alone.
I mean seriously. He is obviously upset about things and seeking attention.

You are actually bullying him by making this thread, what if he came across this?


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