i hadn't thought of it like that. very interesting.

it said on the bb website that her mum just didn't want to be on tv, but someone else in the family could have done it.

david was saying tonight that the friend that made the message (Tee) that although they were close friends, they hadn't seen each other for a year.

it does seem a bit strange

i could understand her being upset and maybe angry with her mum though (if it's not a coded message)

but i suppose it's something that we will never know the truth. bea will never admit it was a coded message

tea is the one on bblb all the time supportin her i thought those were there selected friends maybe she was just in the studio and avaiable at the right time

Totally agree. Her mother might be ashamed, but she is still going to love her daughter and be really worried about her. If it was me in there and my mum knew what was going to happen, she would do anything to get me out before i faced a blood thirsty crowd. I bet Bea leaves, but I hope not.

I thought this too, it would be very easy aswell and she might have told her friend to say a particular phrase if she was hated

I do think Bea's mum has a bit to answer for ... she is not a good advert for her parenting. By her age, she should realise the world does not revolve around her. I do think Lisa was right when she said Bea comes across as someone who has been spoilt.

As a mother, I know a decent person couldn't hate her daughter for those things. There are more evil things in the world than these. :puzzled: :shrug:

However well we bring up our children, teaching them to respect others, etc. etc, parents are not responsible for all of their children's actions :sad: At the end of the day they have their own minds. :bored: