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BBfan46 23-08-2009 12:17 PM

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Originally posted by lucifer1968
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Originally posted by calyman
Yes, your not aware there are many Gay Parents in Britain today.
:puzzled: so you think he should get a girl pregnant just so he can have children that end up on jeremy kyle:joker:
You are insecure. Charlie FTW

Taijitu 23-08-2009 12:20 PM

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Originally posted by olliebeak
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Originally posted by BlackOrWhite
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Originally posted by olliebeak
So, let me get this straight (no pun intended, honest).........

Charlie wants to become a father.
He wants this to happen while he's still quite young.
He's gay.


So, what he really wants is to become a 'sperm donor' for a woman who wants to be a 'single mother' and thus become a 'part-time father'?

Or does he envisage a 'relationship of convenience' where he shares a home-life with a woman and child/children while both of them feel free to pursue romantic relationships outside the family home?


I'm really sorry Charlie, even with the very best of intentions, I can see somebody getting hurt eventually - no matter how much you want children.

Children are NOT a life-style accessory like a new mobile phone, latest pair of trainers or the newest piece of technology - they actually DESERVE a life-time commitment (meaning the parents lifetimes not just their own) from at least one, preferrably BOTH, parents.
What a load of sh1t, how many women every day do this. But suddenly when a man wants to do it, no, no, no, no, no. No, I'm not gay or sticking up for Charlie etc. just for what's right. Some people really do need to open their minds.
I agree with you - too many WOMEN do this as well without thinking about it first.

I will repeat that it's not right - for ANYBODY to deliberately put their own 'desire to have a child' before the long-term need for the child to have life-long love and stability.
Little point being rational with the willfully irrational but you make good posts.

Dolphin-and-Whale 23-08-2009 01:59 PM

Not trying to be controversial but I don't agree with gay parents. 2 gay men raising a child isn't right imo

CaudleHalbard 23-08-2009 02:03 PM

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does Charlie know he's GAY?
I think the fact that he won Mr Gay Newcastle 2007 and was runner up in Mr Gay UK, may have given Charlie a bit of a clue about his sexuality. :joker:

lisank 23-08-2009 02:15 PM

I don't see a problem with Charlie being gay and having kids. I actually think the problem is he is still a kid himself - he needs to do some growing up before even considering becoming a parent. Imagine his child throwing a tantrum during 'the terrible twos', what is he going to do maybe immatate it and wind it up, then say 'I didn't do anything' like he does with Rodrego, who, lets face it, behaves like a two year old!

DaniBoi 23-08-2009 02:53 PM

Turkey baster.

kisywisy 23-08-2009 03:04 PM

i'm actually suprised there are still people that think this is wrong!! the OP seems to be very immature.

as long as the child has parents/parent to love and raise the child, there is no problem.

if infertile couples can 'cheat' nature by conceiving through IVF etc, then so should gay couples.

CaraRawr 23-08-2009 03:04 PM

:| He can adopt?

BlackOrWhite 23-08-2009 03:06 PM

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Originally posted by kisywisy
i'm actually suprised there are still people that think this is wrong!! the OP seems to be very immature.

as long as the child has parents/parent to love and raise the child, there is no problem.

if infertile couples can 'cheat' nature by conceiving through IVF etc, then so should gay couples.
:thumbs: Completely agree. And if women who are 60, 70 some even nearing 80 years old can now have children, why can't people of different sexual interests, which is all it is, a different interest. It doesn't reflect on someones parenting skills in any way.

Braden 23-08-2009 03:06 PM

god charlie is weird

Tom4784 23-08-2009 03:10 PM

The homophobia in this thread is outrageous. There's plenty of options available for gay people to become parents. There's surrogacy and adoption for a start. I say if he wants to become a parent and he thinks he can do a good job of it then why not?

Prole 23-08-2009 03:10 PM

Maybe if Charlie was in a serious, committed relationship and wanted to have kids, it'd be a different arguement. Strikes me he sees having kids like having a new fashion accessory. The one who's rights people should be focusing on is the potential child.

BB22 23-08-2009 03:15 PM

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Originally posted by kisywisy
i'm actually suprised there are still people that think this is wrong!! the OP seems to be very immature.

as long as the child has parents/parent to love and raise the child, there is no problem.

if infertile couples can 'cheat' nature by conceiving through IVF etc, then so should gay couples.
I think that sums it up very nicely indeed. :hug:

CaudleHalbard 23-08-2009 03:29 PM

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Originally posted by Prole
Maybe if Charlie was in a serious, committed relationship and wanted to have kids, it'd be a different arguement. Strikes me he sees having kids like having a new fashion accessory. The one who's rights people should be focusing on is the potential child.
Spot on!

The child's wellbeing must always come first. Homophobia is a no-no :nono: but just stop and think for a moment.

Child A: What's your dad's name?
Child B: Charlie
Child A: What's your mum's name?
Child B: John.
Child A: Eh??????

:bigsmile:

Chuckyegg 23-08-2009 03:35 PM

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Originally posted by lucifer1968
in last nights LF Charlie was saying that he wanted to have children.and he also said he wanted them when he's still young:rolleyes: how does he intend to have children if he's GAY:joker:

have i missed something:conf:


you sad idiot

kisywisy 23-08-2009 03:46 PM

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Originally posted by CaudleHalbard
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Originally posted by Prole
Maybe if Charlie was in a serious, committed relationship and wanted to have kids, it'd be a different arguement. Strikes me he sees having kids like having a new fashion accessory. The one who's rights people should be focusing on is the potential child.
Spot on!

The child's wellbeing must always come first. Homophobia is a no-no :nono: but just stop and think for a moment.

Child A: What's your dad's name?
Child B: Charlie
Child A: What's your mum's name?
Child B: John.
Child A: Eh??????

:bigsmile:
for a start, he's hardly making plans right now to have children, he's looking into the future, like a lot of people do. how many times have we all had that conversation??

as for the dad's name, mum's name comment, is it not obvious that the child would have 2 dads?? i think a child raised with gay parents will have the advantage of growing up knowing that homosexuality isn't something to be feared or to discriminate against.

mado 23-08-2009 04:16 PM

he can still father a child

CaudleHalbard 23-08-2009 04:37 PM

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i think a child raised with gay parents will have the advantage of growing up knowing that homosexuality isn't something to be feared or to discriminate against.
But may themselves suffer ridicule and discrimination from their peers. Children can be cruel and tend not to be as "politically correct" as their elders would like them to be.

I am betting most on here are happy they have a dad & mum - not a dad & dad or a mum & mum?

kisywisy 23-08-2009 05:11 PM

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Originally posted by CaudleHalbard
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i think a child raised with gay parents will have the advantage of growing up knowing that homosexuality isn't something to be feared or to discriminate against.
But may themselves suffer ridicule and discrimination from their peers. Children can be cruel and tend not to be as "politically correct" as their elders would like them to be.

I am betting most on here are happy they have a dad & mum - not a dad & dad or a mum & mum?
i'll also bet a lot of people on here are from broken homes and themselves have 2 mums/dads (step parents). remember single parent families were also shunned at one time.

children are at risk of being picked on for lots of things. it says more about the way they are raised than anything (the bullies). if they are raised in an intolerant environment, they are more likely to be intolerant of others and their differences.

i know one of the girls in my daughter's class is being raised by her gay father and his longterm partner. she's a popular girl. i know that wouldn't be the 'norm' but she's a very well adjusted little girl. and she goes to a catholic school!!

i've brought my daughter up to know that it's ok for women to love women and men to love men. and she knows that they can have children too because of her friend in class. she's got no problem with it. love is love at the end of the day

BB22 23-08-2009 05:50 PM

It is the kind of attitudes expressed by certain people in this thread which ensure that children in unusual circumstances continue to face ridicule. Such ridicule cannot then, on pain of a form of circularity, be used to justify those very attitudes.

Nigeria_Bob 23-08-2009 08:38 PM

Charlie… Bwahahhahahhhahahahaha… Children looking after Children :nono:


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