ThisisBigBrother.com - UK TV Forums

ThisisBigBrother.com - UK TV Forums (https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/index.php)
-   BB6 (https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=44)
-   -   The skip incident? (https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11927)

ThaGazBoi 26-07-2005 03:34 PM

lol :spin2:

Dan_ 26-07-2005 03:45 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CharlotteSometimes
Quote:

Originally posted by BB fernzy

Craig is an adult, he get's chatting to people in night clubs and they both want the same thing and the person is going to be around the same age as him, it's the same if I went to a nightclub and chatted up a girl and then had a one night stand, it's normal. Kemal only chatted to a person over the internet at the age of 16 and arranged to meet them, for all he knew they could have been an old pervert who could have killed him,leaving him alone at a skip, anything could have happend he was not even an adult, it was dangerous and totally stupid and set's a totally bad example.

The difference between Makosi and saskia talking about sex and Craig talking about one night stands to kemal meeting up with someone from a gay chatroom is big.
How can you possibly know that the people he'd meet would be of similar age? That's just an assumption. And for all you know, the person he met could've been the same or of similar age. You're just assuming once again, because it adds a little more weight to your viewpoint. And who, exactly, is he setting a bad example to?

It's not at all. They all talked about casual encounters with strangers. It doesn't matter what gender, age or sexuality the parties concerned me be, there's just as much risk involved.
Craig is hardly going to go after some old bloke in a nightclub is he, people who usually frequent the type of nightclubs that Craig goes to would be of his own age. I am stating facts about the man that Kemal met and that is he was older, I don't need more weight added to my viewpoint because I am just stating the facts. Kemal is setting a bad example to impressionable young people that watch the show and who think it is right to go on internet chatrooms and then to arrange to meet these people, it's not safe and it is not the right message to send out.

What you seem to be forgetting about these so called 'casual encounters' is that Craig is an ADULT whilst Kemal was still only 16, I don't care what arguement you put across what Kemal did was foolish and very dangerous. The other housemates partners do not even come into it as far I am concerned because whilst they might be having one night stands with people they barely know they are adults and the intention is clear but in Kemal's case it was not.

It is totally ignorant to suggest that the risk is the same in all cases.

Feyt 26-07-2005 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CharlotteSometimes
Quote:

Originally posted by Feyt

Tell me Charlottesometimes, would you like YOUR 16 year old son or daughter sneaking out and having sex with someone they not only don't know but someone who could have left him for dead in that skip?

For years we tell our kids, Don't talk to strangers, don't get into strange cars....and more recently we install programs to stop our kids seeing things they shouldn't on the internet. Then a complete idiot like this is allowed to shout and brag about it.
:devil::devil::devil:

We parents have a hard enough time of keeping our kids out of trouble as it is without silly little girls like Kemal telling us how much fun it was.
Kemal is male. There's quite a difference between nervous bravado and bragging. The footage was shown well after the watershed, when it is to be presumed that those likely to be in any way influenced by such content would be in bed asleep. And Channel 4 decided to broadcast the conversation, not Kemal himself.
Kemal is male! AND? Nervous bravado is what he probably used when he was 16, bragging(at least in this case)is what you do when you tell people about your sexual exploits. How many 15/16 do you think watch BB? Probably at least half of its viewers are teenagers. I never said Kemal broadcast the show. If you read my original post on here you will see that I said I was disgusted with Channel 4 for airing it.

ThaGazBoi 26-07-2005 04:37 PM

:bouncy: thats true

Feyt 26-07-2005 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BB fernzy
Quote:

Originally posted by CharlotteSometimes
Quote:

Originally posted by BB fernzy

Craig is an adult, he get's chatting to people in night clubs and they both want the same thing and the person is going to be around the same age as him, it's the same if I went to a nightclub and chatted up a girl and then had a one night stand, it's normal. Kemal only chatted to a person over the internet at the age of 16 and arranged to meet them, for all he knew they could have been an old pervert who could have killed him,leaving him alone at a skip, anything could have happend he was not even an adult, it was dangerous and totally stupid and set's a totally bad example.

The difference between Makosi and saskia talking about sex and Craig talking about one night stands to kemal meeting up with someone from a gay chatroom is big.
How can you possibly know that the people he'd meet would be of similar age? That's just an assumption. And for all you know, the person he met could've been the same or of similar age. You're just assuming once again, because it adds a little more weight to your viewpoint. And who, exactly, is he setting a bad example to?

It's not at all. They all talked about casual encounters with strangers. It doesn't matter what gender, age or sexuality the parties concerned me be, there's just as much risk involved.
Craig is hardly going to go after some old bloke in a nightclub is he, people who usually frequent the type of nightclubs that Craig goes to would be of his own age. I am stating facts about the man that Kemal met and that is he was older, I don't need more weight added to my viewpoint because I am just stating the facts. Kemal is setting a bad example to impressionable young people that watch the show and who think it is right to go on internet chatrooms and then to arrange to meet these people, it's not safe and it is not the right message to send out.

What you seem to be forgetting about these so called 'casual encounters' is that Craig is an ADULT whilst Kemal was still only 16, I don't care what arguement you put across what Kemal did was foolish and very dangerous. The other housemates partners do not even come into it as far I am concerned because whilst they might be having one night stands with people they barely know they are adults and the intention is clear but in Kemal's case it was not.

It is totally ignorant to suggest that the risk is the same in all cases.
:hello::hello:

OPL73 26-07-2005 05:31 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CharlotteSometimes
No probs - those are seedless grapes. :thumbs:
Class. Even if you like the look of your own writing.

CharlotteSometimes 26-07-2005 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BB fernzy

Craig is hardly going to go after some old bloke in a nightclub is he, people who usually frequent the type of nightclubs that Craig goes to would be of his own age. I am stating facts about the man that Kemal met and that is he was older, I don't need more weight added to my viewpoint because I am just stating the facts. Kemal is setting a bad example to impressionable young people that watch the show and who think it is right to go on internet chatrooms and then to arrange to meet these people, it's not safe and it is not the right message to send out.

What you seem to be forgetting about these so called 'casual encounters' is that Craig is an ADULT whilst Kemal was still only 16, I don't care what arguement you put across what Kemal did was foolish and very dangerous. The other housemates partners do not even come into it as far I am concerned because whilst they might be having one night stands with people they barely know they are adults and the intention is clear but in Kemal's case it was not.

It is totally ignorant to suggest that the risk is the same in all cases.
Not true. I live fairly close to Garlands in Liverpool, which is one of the most popular gay clubs in England. It's won club of the year in Mixmag a few times, too. I've been there many times, and can confirm that there are plenty of people that go there that are quite a bit older than Craig. So, to follow your point through to its logical conclusion, why haven't there been any press reports about Dolcis selling out of size 8 stilettos and there being a surprising shortage in the availability of extra-long saris? If teenagers are watching BB, then their parents should be monitoring their viewing a little more closely. That's the whole point in having a watershed in the first place, and the reason why every late night BB show starts with a warning about language and nudity.

What you seem to be forgetting is that, whether his account was fantasy or not, Kemal said quite distinctly that he deliberately set out to make contact with someone with the sole intention of having just such an encounter. He wasn't 'groomed' or 'coerced' into anything. If you really think that a teenager that's sexually confused is going to listen to what Kemal said, and then think 'I'd really like to orally satisfy a man at three-o-clock in the morning, inside a skip', then email me your address - you've won this month's luxury hamper (I've already eaten the Edinburgh shortbread and Ye Olde Oak hotdog sausages though, I'm afraid).

Okay, whatever. You take the high road and I'll take the low road ... but I'll look better in a kilt than you.

Bone, meat, stripped of - rearrange to suit.

SMC 26-07-2005 06:01 PM

im not reading these long posts but whatever, i'll agree with the person who hates Kemal

CharlotteSometimes 26-07-2005 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Feyt

Kemal is male! AND? Nervous bravado is what he probably used when he was 16, bragging(at least in this case)is what you do when you tell people about your sexual exploits. How many 15/16 do you think watch BB? Probably at least half of its viewers are teenagers. I never said Kemal broadcast the show. If you read my original post on here you will see that I said I was disgusted with Channel 4 for airing it.
Make your mind up! He was a 'silly little girl' in your previous post. Not at all. He was quite clearly prepared to go to any lengths at that particular moment to shut Makosi up. He resorted to shock tactics to do it. But if you want to believe that he said that deliberately in an attempt to corrupt the nation's youth, then you're entitled to your opinion, of course. Best put padlocks on your wardrobe just incase though, huh?

OPL73 26-07-2005 06:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CharlotteSometimes
[.
Not true. I live fairly close to Garlands in Liverpool, which is one of the most popular gay clubs in England. It's won club of the year in Mixmag a few times, too. I've been there many times, and can confirm that there are plenty of people that go there that are quite a bit older than Craig. So, to follow your point through to its logical conclusion, why haven't there been any press reports about Dolcis selling out of size 8 stilettos and there being a surprising shortage in the availability of extra-long saris? If teenagers are watching BB, then their parents should be monitoring their viewing a little more closely. That's the whole point in having a watershed in the first place, and the reason why every late night BB show starts with a warning about language and nudity.

What you seem to be forgetting is that, whether his account was fantasy or not, Kemal said quite distinctly that he deliberately set out to make contact with someone with the sole intention of having just such an encounter. He wasn't 'groomed' or 'coerced' into anything. If you really think that a teenager that's sexually confused is going to listen to what Kemal said, and then think 'I'd really like to orally satisfy a man at three-o-clock in the morning, inside a skip', then email me your address - you've won this month's luxury hamper (I've already eaten the Edinburgh shortbread and Ye Olde Oak hotdog sausages though, I'm afraid).

Okay, whatever. You take the high road and I'll take the low road ... but I'll look better in a kilt than you.

Bone, meat, stripped of - rearrange to suit. [/quote]

Funniest thing I have read for a while.:bigsmile: Last word again. Self opinionated just as I thought. Charlotte, you have to respect the parent's opinion on this one surely?

P.S. To follow on from your 'logical' babble. Why hasn't there been any press reports about Makosi's 'fro? Or what was the 'fro?

James 26-07-2005 06:11 PM

There's too many posts in this thread expressing an opinion on other forum members instead of the Big Brother housemates or events in the house.

Fangz 26-07-2005 06:14 PM

Sorry, James, it wasn't supposed to turn out like this!

CharlotteSometimes 26-07-2005 06:15 PM

My apologies. Point taken.

CharlotteSometimes 26-07-2005 06:22 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by OPL73

Funniest thing I have read for a while.:bigsmile: Last word again. Self opinionated just as I thought. Charlotte, you have to respect the parent's opinion on this one surely?

P.S. To follow on from your 'logical' babble. Why hasn't there been any press reports about Makosi's 'fro? Or what was the 'fro?
I don't think I can answer that without getting myself in trouble. The short answer would be yes, but I'll let you imagine my reservations that come with it.

I really don't know, as I tend to read newspapers whilst shopping in Tescos, rather than buy them. As long as I don't do the crosswords, they don't seem to mind too much.

OPL73 26-07-2005 06:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CharlotteSometimes
II really don't know, as I tend to read newspapers whilst shopping in Tescos, rather than buy them. As long as I don't do the crosswords, they don't seem to mind too much. [/quote]

:bigsmile: And I thought I was the only one.

ThaGazBoi 26-07-2005 06:35 PM

lol :thumbs:

CharlotteSometimes 26-07-2005 06:35 PM

Wherever there's meat there's Bisto.



EDIT: Why has my post grown an 'I' in your quote?

Sunny_01 26-07-2005 06:40 PM

Can I remind people to get back on topic please or this thread will have to be locked

Dan_ 26-07-2005 06:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CharlotteSometimes
Quote:

Originally posted by BB fernzy

Craig is hardly going to go after some old bloke in a nightclub is he, people who usually frequent the type of nightclubs that Craig goes to would be of his own age. I am stating facts about the man that Kemal met and that is he was older, I don't need more weight added to my viewpoint because I am just stating the facts. Kemal is setting a bad example to impressionable young people that watch the show and who think it is right to go on internet chatrooms and then to arrange to meet these people, it's not safe and it is not the right message to send out.

What you seem to be forgetting about these so called 'casual encounters' is that Craig is an ADULT whilst Kemal was still only 16, I don't care what arguement you put across what Kemal did was foolish and very dangerous. The other housemates partners do not even come into it as far I am concerned because whilst they might be having one night stands with people they barely know they are adults and the intention is clear but in Kemal's case it was not.

It is totally ignorant to suggest that the risk is the same in all cases.
Not true. I live fairly close to Garlands in Liverpool, which is one of the most popular gay clubs in England. It's won club of the year in Mixmag a few times, too. I've been there many times, and can confirm that there are plenty of people that go there that are quite a bit older than Craig. So, to follow your point through to its logical conclusion, why haven't there been any press reports about Dolcis selling out of size 8 stilettos and there being a surprising shortage in the availability of extra-long saris? If teenagers are watching BB, then their parents should be monitoring their viewing a little more closely. That's the whole point in having a watershed in the first place, and the reason why every late night BB show starts with a warning about language and nudity.

What you seem to be forgetting is that, whether his account was fantasy or not, Kemal said quite distinctly that he deliberately set out to make contact with someone with the sole intention of having just such an encounter. He wasn't 'groomed' or 'coerced' into anything. If you really think that a teenager that's sexually confused is going to listen to what Kemal said, and then think 'I'd really like to orally satisfy a man at three-o-clock in the morning, inside a skip', then email me your address - you've won this month's luxury hamper (I've already eaten the Edinburgh shortbread and Ye Olde Oak hotdog sausages though, I'm afraid).

Okay, whatever. You take the high road and I'll take the low road ... but I'll look better in a kilt than you.

Bone, meat, stripped of - rearrange to suit.
Jeez after reading all of that garbage I just about got what you're trying to say.

So what if the people that frequent this certain gayclub in Liverpool are also older men but that does not mean that Craig is going to go out with them, you seem intent on trying to justify the actions of Kemal and make comparisons with the other housemates sexual experiences but that is not really the issue here.

Kemal may well influence people he may not but the main thing is people of a certain age perhaps confused about their sexuality are easily led and he is sending out a dangerous message, teenagers may not even watch Big Brother with their parents, you do not know the thoughts of a young person confused by their sexuality and neither do I fully but people are easily influenced and it's not the way that Kemal graphically described his experience but the way that he courted it through the means of a internet chatroom.

You have turned a sensible debate about a sensitive situation into a mockery and you're ignorant stance on this imo is rather silly.

CharlotteSometimes 26-07-2005 07:09 PM

You're welcome to your opinion. Even if it is poppycock. :thumbs:

Dan_ 26-07-2005 07:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CharlotteSometimes
You're welcome to your opinion. Even if it is poppycock. :thumbs:
It might be poppycock in you're opinion but going by what most of the people have said in this thread they agree with me, you just cannot admit when you're in the wrong and always want to have the last word. I have read nothing from you to change my views or actually managed to disprove my arguement.

CharlotteSometimes 26-07-2005 08:16 PM

Yeah, that was a little harsh on my part. But fortunately, we have a population of 60 million, and what, about 4 million of them watch the show? So excuse me if I don't take a straw poll as conclusive. You don't even know me, so that's rather speculative, don't you think? And I think that's already been said by another member. That's a real shame. I shall have trouble getting to sleep tonight now.

lily. 26-07-2005 08:19 PM

Yawn.

Tanser_Man 26-07-2005 09:39 PM

Kemal's a slayg.

A skip?!... i'll be intriged to ask him how much he charges.

ThaGazBoi 26-07-2005 09:40 PM

Probley free of charge mate! Knowing Kemal

Fangz 26-07-2005 09:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Tanser_Man
Kemal's a slayg.

A skip?!... i'll be intriged to ask him how much he charges.
Why, Tans? You can't be that desperate?:shocked:

ThaGazBoi 26-07-2005 09:44 PM

I dont think no-one is :thumbs:

lily. 26-07-2005 09:46 PM

For god sake Tanser.. give urself a shake... U surely wouldn't pay that little pr!ck for a "job".:nono::bigsmile:

ThaGazBoi 26-07-2005 09:48 PM

Good point tho Stropz!!

Nature 26-07-2005 09:56 PM

course its frightened you stupid moron lmaoo craig got it

lily. 26-07-2005 09:56 PM

Derek is such a patronising b4st4rd.

Nature 26-07-2005 10:01 PM

its got fook all to do with you lmaoo

Nature 26-07-2005 10:06 PM

that was funny from anthony

Kore 26-07-2005 10:46 PM

tonights episode was good.

ThaGazBoi 26-07-2005 11:33 PM

Yes it was!! :wavey:


All times are GMT. The time now is 06:24 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.
User Alert System provided by Advanced User Tagging (Pro) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2025 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.