[rquote=2604342&tid=148092&author=Dr.Gonzo]Yeh, that's happened a couple of times. It's trial and error like most things in life. You start to trust your instincts, spotting things you don't like earlier than you once would, enabling you to get out before the sh*t starts to stink. Now, I'm with a girl I'm crazy about, and I can look back on all of those other failed relationships with appreciation because they got me where I am today. It's just a learning curve that most people have to humour. It's not a bad thing, it's just another ingredient in the stewing pot of life.[/rquote]

You should be an agony uncle. Yeah on failed relationships and so on in the past have brought me to where I am now :D I suppose you have to look back in humour rather than bitterness lol. Well my ex's turned bitter which made me bitter but then I got over it lol

[rquote=2604401&tid=148092&author=Lauren][rquote=2604387&tid=148092&author=Niamhxo]It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well![/rquote]

Ouch!![/rquote]

I bet you wanted to scouled him with the tea lol

[rquote=2604566&tid=148092&author=thebeast][rquote=2604401&tid=148092&author=Lauren][rquote=2604387&tid=148092&author=Niamhxo]It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well![/rquote]

Ouch!![/rquote]

I bet you wanted to scouled him with the tea lol[/rquote]

Did I what!!! :mad: lol!!!

I hate partners who want to rule your life too

I feel the opposite.
I always feel i haven't taken my chances enough and regret it when we end up lasting about 2 weeks or just a month.

Wish i was in a relationship now..

[rquote=2606984&tid=148092&author=30stone]I feel the opposite.
I always feel i haven't taken my chances enough and regret it when we end up lasting about 2 weeks or just a month.

Wish i was in a relationship now..[/rquote]

you have to find the right person to be honest
i'm happy as larry right now and i took my chance and thankfully it paid off

[rquote=2604334&tid=148092&author=arsenalforever]I mean you think you meet the perfect girl/boy for you and the first few dates are great and you like her or him and you decide to become a couple. But then a few weeks in you don't want to be with the person cause either their boring or that you just don't want a reltionship. you either told the person and it turned ugly and you hurt their feelings and it cause mayhemin your life. Or the person you got with end up not been the person you liked after you got together as a couple.[/rquote]

I can't say I've been there before...

Sounds like a gut wrenching drama.

[rquote=2606856&tid=148092&author=arsenalforever]I hate partners who want to rule your life too[/rquote]

Ey the controlling ones! Just rebelise and do what the hell you want!

[rquote=2606984&tid=148092&author=30stone]I feel the opposite.
I always feel i haven't taken my chances enough and regret it when we end up lasting about 2 weeks or just a month.

Wish i was in a relationship now..[/rquote]

You obviousely haven't met the right person yet, you wouldn't even have to think about taking a chance with them if you had. You're better off being single rather than being with someone just for the sake of it.It never works out!