Strangley enough, from reading your other posts about Mario, I've came to much the same conclusion about you. You seem to have an irrational aversion to Mario, looking for any spurious reason to criticise him, making him out to be the one in the wrong, when he has been led on by ben for the past few weeks.

Apart from your repetitive claims over Ben's integrity, I see nothing of consequence in what you are posting. Ben is a liar, he is a homophobe, he has led Mario on, he has caused friction, he is self serving, he gives up far too easily.

Whereas Mario sucessfully completed a task that demanded a lot from him, ben has shown nothing but weakness in his interaction with others and his attempts to actually complete tasks adequately.

That suggests to me that Ben is his own man and is genuine - and not trying to win approval with either hms or the public by conforming and doing what is expected!

Lol, I actually wasn't that fussed on Mario until his spat with Ben, which was totally over the top & out of order... But thanks for taking the time to look through my posts sweet...

I see nothing of consequence in your posts either honey... You seem to have a bizarre dislike of Ben for spurious reasons... & calling him homophobic is pathetic...

And before you start trying to call me homophobic too, I'm a gay myself love... Next...

While it shows to me that Ben is essentially weal and unreliable. He is in a team, he couldn't complete the puishment task, so Dave had to do it for him. I know "honour" is an old fashioned concept but a decent and dependable person shouold have some personal honour, it's what allows others to have regard and respect for you.

Erm, you really do have a knack for circular arguments. I did not take the time to check your other anti Mario posts in other threads, the fact is I could not miss them, there were so many. Also, it's reassuring to know that you understand my mind better than I do myself, I would suggest therefore that you employ your prodigious talents for perspicacity and telepathy to a more immediate use, geddit?

Finally, exactly where have I said that you are homophobic, or is that another of your circular arguments? So what's next? :hugesmile:

I agree perspective is required - for example, I keep seeing the word 'homophobic'- which is akin to suggesting a disagreeing with someone is bullying.

I've met proud gay men who are more homophobic than Ben.

Pot & kettle spring to mind love...

You said yourself that you had looked at my other posts & seen that they were "anti Mario"... So that's a plain lie... :sleep: Though obviously you still ignore the fact that I said I had only gone off him since his hissy strop with Ben, but don't let that get in the way of your ranting eh...

I dare say a shrink may be able to make out what goes on in your head honey, I sure as hell can't, you seem to like arguing for the sake of it, you aint related to JJ are you? ;)

Again love, please read things before giving yourself a nosebleed... I said don't call me homophobic (because I agreed with Ben), not that you did, as you seem fit to call anyone homophobic for extremely petty reasons... :xyxwave:

I agree, I think homophobia can come from someone who is homosexual but if someone refers to themselves as gay, I think it's less lilkely. After all, the word GAY is just an acronym developed during the Stonewall uprising of the the 60's.

You do love answering in cliches ehh? Also, where exactly am I lying in saying that your posts indicated that you were anti Mario and how does that transpire to mean you are homophobic. If you are, you should say so, not bang on accuse me of what you so much seem to want me to "say, perhaps the shrink you mention could be of some help to you here.

I thought we were both having an argument about Ben and Mario but if you don't want to continue with it, then why do you choose to respond? I can't be involved in this argument without you joining me ehh? Once again, I must remind you of the facts. I....have...only....called.....Ben....Homophobic, not as you seem so desperate to claim "anyone".

Thanks for your concern about any possible incidents of Epistaxis, I shall bear that in mind, meanwhile I caution you to "Breathe.......and relax", repeat as required. :joker:

He's on big brother, that makes it our business wombia.

Sorry I couldn't be bothered to read all that, but I guess you are still going round in circles & making no sense... I have lost interest now to be honest... :sleep:

Good luck :xyxwave:

That's good. I hope in our discussion you have gained a better insight into yourself, at least. Goodbye love

:xyxwave: