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setanta 15-07-2010 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by sooty (Post 3501651)
My husband loved ballroom dancing.

When he was young, he used to say, if he could not dance for any reasons, he would kill himself.

Now he is on wheelchair (failed spinal operation) and shows early stage of dementia. Before his meals he cleans his hands throughly. One time I told him the hands have full of jam. It shows clearly he wants to live.

Sometimes I suddenly worry things. but I am not good at thinking too complicated matter. Think about it some other day.

It's a terrible thing to see a person you love struggling or in pain. You have my sympathies hun. Don't worry; you're there for him and he knows and loves you even more for it, that's all that matters.

sooty 15-07-2010 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by setanta (Post 3501851)
It's a terrible thing to see a person you love struggling or in pain. You have my sympathies hun. Don't worry; you're there for him and he knows and loves you even more for it, that's all that matters.

Oh thank you setanta.:)

BB_Eye 15-07-2010 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by sooty (Post 3501651)
My husband loved ballroom dancing.

When he was young, he used to say, if he could not dance for any reasons, he would kill himself.

Now he is on wheelchair (failed spinal operation) and shows early stage of dementia. Before his meals he cleans his hands throughly. One time I told him the hands have full of jam. It shows clearly he wants to live.

Sometimes I suddenly worry things. but I am not good at thinking too complicated matter. Think about it some other day.

Awfully sorry to hear that sooty. :shocked:

I think some people's will to live, whatever the circumstances is remarkable. You should be really proud of him and yourself. I find that I have learned to value life above all other things as I've matured.

setanta 15-07-2010 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by sooty (Post 3501890)
Oh thank you setanta.:)

You're welcome. Chin up darling. Just give him plenty of cuddles and kisses and you'll be fine. :hug:

sooty 16-07-2010 09:07 AM

BB_Eye, setanta

I was little bit embarassed. But thank you so much.

Lee. 16-07-2010 09:29 AM

My biggest fear is definitely losing loved ones, especially my kids. I just do not know how parents cope with that. I was at a friends funeral the other day; he was the same age as me and to see his parents grief was devastating. Obviously, I dread anything happening to my mum and other older family memebers but I realise that it is inevitable, whereas losing a childs is something I don't think any parent should have to face.. it's just a horrific thought..

My other main fear is fire... I've been involved in a few fires and since then I feel panic if I see or smell fire and even get nervous if I see firemen. I have a bedtime routine which involves unplugging everything in the house apart from the fridge/freezer and I test the smoke alarm probab;ly more often than is necessarry!

I suppose the last time I felt scared was after my mum had been in a serious car accident and the b!tch nurses at the hospital wouldn't let me see her or tell me anything about her.. I asked if she was still alive and they just said "we can't tell you anythin". It's the only time I remember feeling panic; I was frantic. (The nurses were very lucky to not have a few injuries themselves!)

Oh and when I had to go to hospital to have my wisdom teeth removed.. I felt fear that day! :)

setanta 16-07-2010 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by sooty (Post 3503729)
BB_Eye, setanta

I was little bit embarassed. But thank you so much.

Don't be silly. You don't have to be embarrassed about it at all. It was lovely and touching to hear you being so candid about your situation. Makes a change to the usual stuff you get online.

supernoodles! 18-07-2010 11:46 PM

It sounds stupid although its probably quite common but moths.I think it stems from when I was about 5-6 and I was on a day trip to flamingo land with my mam and her friend and her daughter.There was a huge moth at the back of the coach and my mam was going mad trying to get it out lol.Ever since then I`ve been petrified of moths,I don`t even get scared by other insects,give me a spider anyday but moths,yuck.
When I was little,before I`d even been on a flight I had a really bad phobia of flying.I diddn`t go on a plane until I was 18 and by then I was absolutly fine and now I love flying however when I was little I was really terrified by the thought of ever getting on a plane.
I was scared of everything as a child tbh,I was fascinated by the after life,religion,superstition and myths/legends.I would read books about them and I loved it but it terrified me at the same time.

Peppa. 21-07-2010 04:12 PM

getting seriously ill with like cancer of something scares me.. also dying.

Lee. 21-07-2010 04:14 PM

:wavey: Hello Peppa. I see you're new here. You keep popping up in all these threads that I have already posted in :)

Ninastar 21-07-2010 04:16 PM

I have loads of fears but I think my biggest fear is the sea. I dont mind it when the water is clear but its when its really blue or black that I get the most freaked out. Sometimes I even have to change the Channel if its about the ocean. Eugh I just dont like it at all.

Novo 23-07-2010 04:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Ninastar (Post 3533372)
I have loads of fears but I think my biggest fear is the sea. I dont mind it when the water is clear but its when its really blue or black that I get the most freaked out. Sometimes I even have to change the Channel if its about the ocean. Eugh I just dont like it at all.

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