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lostalex 04-09-2010 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by stonedape (Post 3757039)
I'm failing to bridge the mental gap between not being attracted to someone and not being able to touch them. Are you physically repulsed by everyone and everything you aren't attracted to?

No. Which means this isn't about lack of attraction, it's about ignorant repulsion based on lack of familiarity. :elephant:

i think the concept, of a man having plastic surgery, to become a woman, is unattractive to most heterosexual men.

is that offensive? is there anything wrong with that? that's what i'm really asking.

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:12 PM

is it offensive and discriminatory for most heterosexual men to prefer biological women?

Shardlake 04-09-2010 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Grimnir (Post 3756998)
the main reason Nadia is unattractive is not because she is ******

but because she looks like a bag of potatoes, with one of the potatoes stickin out the top of the bag for her head

I've seen countless numbers of women who were born as straight females that are far far uglier.

When she is done up all ready to go out or whatever, there is not a man on here who would say no if she randomly came up to you in a club and you didnt know her history, offering you a night of unbridled, kinky sex. You simply would not guess (despite what you will obviously say) that she was born a man.

FACT

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757061)
I've seen countless numbers of women who were born as straight females that are far far uglier.

When she is done up all ready to go out or whatever, there is not a man on here who would say no if she randomly came up to you in a club and you didnt know her history, offering you a night of unbridled, kinky sex. You simply would not guess (despite what you will obviously say) that she was born a man.

FACT

i'm a man, and i definitely would say NO. so that totally discredits yur theory.

SoBig 04-09-2010 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757061)
I've seen countless numbers of women who were born as straight females that are far far uglier.

When she is done up all ready to go out or whatever, there is not a man on here who would say no if she randomly came up to you in a club and you didnt know her history, offering you a night of unbridled, kinky sex. You simply would not guess (despite what you will obviously say) that she was born a man.

FACT

Bull****.

You can always tell a real woman from a ******.

stonedape 04-09-2010 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 3757056)
is it offensive and discriminatory for most heterosexual men to prefer biological women?

Prefer sexually? No. Discriminatory but totally unoffensive, we all discriminate sexually.

Prefer as a person? Yes.

And again, this has nothing to do with preference or lack of sexual preference. It has to do with repulsion or lack of "tolerance". You're conflating the two on purpose.

Shardlake 04-09-2010 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by SoBig (Post 3757071)
Bull****.

You can always tell a real woman from a ******.

Listen you odious little bigot, you cannot.

Ever seen the crying game?

Please watch it

Livia 04-09-2010 04:18 PM

You can be accepting of someone's lifestyle choices without fancying them.

stonedape 04-09-2010 04:19 PM

http://resources1.news.com.au/images...FP-5746728.jpg

Transexual ^ And it's only going to get more confusing past 2010 :joker:

SoBig 04-09-2010 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3756788)
Just thank God that you were fortunate to not be born where you spent your childhood agonising over your gender and sexuality. Also that you never have children born with the same problem.

Thats when they should go and get psychological help.

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by stonedape (Post 3757079)
Prefer sexually? No. Discriminatory but totally unoffensive, we all discriminate sexually.

Prefer as a person? Yes.

And again, this has nothing to do with preference or lack of sexual preference. It has to do with repulsion or lack of "tolerance". You're conflating the two on purpose.

i dont know what "conflating" means. google it for me plzzz.

Shardlake 04-09-2010 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by SoBig (Post 3757100)
Thats when they should go and get psychological help.

When you mentally picture someone having a sex change, do you imagine them nipping over to the Drs surgery and saying 'hey doc I fancy being a woman today, cut my cock off and give me some tits love'.


The process involves years of psychological evaluations, medication, pain (physical and mental) and years and years of counselling before and after.

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757087)
Listen you odious little bigot, you cannot.

Ever seen the crying game?

Please watch it


the crying game?? omg, could you be anymore stereotypical??? and you have the nerve to call someone else a "bigot"???? seriously???

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:22 PM

Can we all plz calm down?, i don't want my thread to be locked plzzzz.

SoBig 04-09-2010 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757087)
Listen you odious little bigot, you cannot.

Ever seen the crying game?

Please watch it

http://img227.imageshack.us/img227/7866/laff.gif @ bringing up a movie.

Shardlake 04-09-2010 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 3757112)
the crying game?? omg, could you be anymore stereotypical??? and you have the nerve to call someone else a "bigot"???? seriously???

Not quite sure what point you are trying to make to be honest.


There is a transexual in that movie that for the majority of the film you think is a bonafide woman...which kinda gets my point across.

If a grown man saw that when it first came out and says they did not fancy the transexual before the reveal they are lying.

stonedape 04-09-2010 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 3757103)
i dont know what "conflating" means. google it for me plzzz.

it means "mixing" basically. In this case, you're mixing the idea that you shouldn't have to be attracted to transsexuals with the idea that you shouldn't have to tolerate them. One is ignorant, one isn't.

Shardlake 04-09-2010 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by SoBig (Post 3757118)

The transexual in the film is what I was refering to you little fool

Shall we play a little game?

I'll post a picture and you guess whether the person is female or a man (not even a post op)

Can you take that level of embarrassment ?

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:26 PM

well let me make something clear, i don't believe you should "tolerate" anyone. i believe every human being has a right to live on this earth in safety and peace just as anyone else. no one should be "tolerated", everyone should be ACCEPTED.

My only point is about trying to demonize str8 men or anyone else for not accepting nadia as a woman.

We al accept Nadia as a human with all the same rights and responsibilties that all humans have. but for someone to not accept her as a woman, is that offensive. that's what i'm asking

SoBig 04-09-2010 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757122)
Not quite sure what point you are trying to make to be honest.


There is a transexual in that movie that for the majority of the film you think is a bonafide woman...which kinda gets my point across.

If a grown man saw that when it first came out and says they did not fancy the transexual before the reveal they are lying.

Now, thanks for spoiling it. :bored:

stonedape 04-09-2010 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 3757138)
well let me make something clear, i don't believe you should "tolerate" anyone. i believe every human being has a right to live on this earth in safety and peace just as anyone else. no one should be "tolerated", everyone should be ACCEPTED.

My only point is about trying to demonize str8 men or anyone else for not accepting nadia as a woman.


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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 3757138)
"It's easy for str8 women and gay men to be tolerant of people like Nadia, but do we honestly think that Nadia is attractive to true heterosexual men?"

I hate the word too, but these were the concepts you were mixing together. Tolerance vs. Attraction.

SoBig 04-09-2010 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757132)
The transexual in the film is what I was refering to you little fool

Shall we play a little game?

I'll post a picture and you guess whether the person is female or a man (not even a post op)

Can you take that level of embarrassment ?

hahah

Its easy to spot a ******. Look for signs of plastic surgery, hips, hands, throat etc.

They are very easy to spot.

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:33 PM

I don't see Nadia as a woman. I see her as i see a lot of other people that have obscene amounts of plastic surgery. like michael jackson, or joan rivers.

or Pete burns to put it in a more BB universe context.

Grimnir 04-09-2010 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757132)
The transexual in the film is what I was refering to you little fool

Shall we play a little game?

I'll post a picture and you guess whether the person is female or a man (not even a post op)

Can you take that level of embarrassment ?


as long as all the pics are hotties I wanna play :thumbs:

no uglies like spud face Nadia

stonedape 04-09-2010 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by SoBig (Post 3757155)
hahah

Its easy to spot a ******. Look for signs of plastic surgery, hips, hands, throat etc.

They are very easy to spot.

But what about biological women with plastic surgery, huge hands, an adam's apple, a manly face etc?

case study: http://www.algorelabs.com/images/cou...adamsapple.jpg :joker:

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:36 PM

oh don't get me started on ann coulter.. LOL talk about disturbing the hornet's nest... LOL

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757122)
Not quite sure what point you are trying to make to be honest.


There is a transexual in that movie that for the majority of the film you think is a bonafide woman...which kinda gets my point across.

If a grown man saw that when it first came out and says they did not fancy the transexual before the reveal they are lying.

You know justas well as i do that referncing he crying game is incredibly stereotypical. you think Nadia wouldn't take offense to referncing the cryign game?

it would be like saying to a black person "i understand black people, cause i saw ROOTS" gimme a break.

you can't understand someone based on a MOVIE dude. don't you see how that's offensive??

People are INDIVIDUALS. that's the whole point. that's the ENTIRE point.

Shardlake 04-09-2010 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 3757190)
You know justas well as i do that referncing he crying game is incredibly stereotypical. you think Nadia wouldn't take offense to referncing the cryign game?

it would be like saying to a black person "i understand black people, cause i saw ROOTS" gimme a break.

you can't understand someone based on a MOVIE dude. don't you see how that's offensive??

People are INDIVIDUALS. that's the whole point. that's the ENTIRE point.

shut up you quim, I was making the point that you cannot tell the difference between a transexual and someone born a female just from sight.

The Crying Game illustrates my point perfectly.

End

Livia 04-09-2010 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 3757190)
You know justas well as i do that referncing he crying game is incredibly stereotypical. you think Nadia wouldn't take offense to referncing the cryign game?

it would be like saying to a black person "i understand black people, cause i saw ROOTS" gimme a break.

you can't understand someone based on a MOVIE dude. don't you see how that's offensive??

People are INDIVIDUALS. that's the whole point. that's the ENTIRE point.

Excellent post lostalex.

Shardlake 04-09-2010 04:46 PM

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Man or woman?

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:47 PM

i'm not here to play games.

Shardlake 04-09-2010 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 3757213)
i'm not here to play games.

wasnt even aimed at you you bellend, take your soap box elsewhere

SoBig 04-09-2010 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757209)
Man or woman?

Adriana Lima is 100% woman. Nice try tho. :xyxwave:

Grimnir 04-09-2010 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757209)
Man or woman?


I dont know its too small for me to see so I cant wank to it

post a bigger pic

edit I just notice I can click it to make it bigger, give me a few minutes...

Shardlake 04-09-2010 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by SoBig (Post 3757217)
Adriana Lima is 100% woman. Nice try tho. :xyxwave:

Ah so you are a frequenter of teenage wank mags ok

Livia 04-09-2010 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757223)
Ah so you are a frequenter of teenage wank mags ok

As are you, evidently.

Shardlake 04-09-2010 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 3757227)
As are you, evidently.

Er no

SoBig 04-09-2010 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757223)
Ah so you are a frequenter of teenage wank mags ok

She is a model. FAIL. Like every one of your post has been. A total fail.

Grimnir 04-09-2010 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Shardlake (Post 3757223)
Ah so you are a frequenter of teenage wank mags ok

mags were good wen i was a boy but now i prefer internet pron as i dont have to turn my head and get a stiff neck

lostalex 04-09-2010 04:56 PM

let's try to keep things on topic please. this thread is a question. Is it "transphobic" for heterosexual men to not be attracted to transexual women BECAUSE they are transexual.

that's the question i'm interested in.


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