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Fetch The Bolt Cutters 04-11-2011 12:07 AM

i hope when he is old and cant look after himself she pushes him downstairs or something

Liberty4eva 04-11-2011 12:52 AM

I watched the first belt slap but couldn't watch after that. I know that's going to be the theme of the video. I've seen a youtube video of a guy getting his arm ripped off by a crocodile and this is just as disturbing imo. It was bad enough that the girl had to live through it once but now she has to live it again and again now that the whole world gets to see her humiliation.

MTVN 04-11-2011 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Liberty4eva (Post 4717383)
I watched the first belt slap but couldn't watch after that. I know that's going to be the theme of the video. I've seen a youtube video of a guy getting his arm ripped off by a crocodile and this is just as disturbing imo. It was bad enough that the girl had to live through it once but now she has to live it again and again now that the whole world gets to see her humiliation.

She posted the clip online herself to expose her father for the child-beater that he is

InOne 04-11-2011 12:56 AM

Apparently she has cerebal pasly too D:

Scarlett. 04-11-2011 01:16 AM

What an actual horrible excuse for a man, I hope this makes its way to the courtroom and he gets sent down for assult (or even child harm depending on her age)

InOne 04-11-2011 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Chewy (Post 4717426)
What an actual horrible excuse for a man, I hope this makes its way to the courtroom and he gets sent down for assult (or even child harm depending on her age)

Nothing can happen to him. 5 years is the max they can prosecute for. It's been 7 years since it happened

Kate! 04-11-2011 11:31 AM

His life has been made difficult because of her!! How dare he. This man is an appalling bully and justice needs to be dealt out quicksmart. Unbelievable.

Niall 04-11-2011 04:15 PM

I was so disgusted when I saw this. I just cannot comprehend how anyone can subject their own child to that kind of treatment. They should lock him in jail and throw away the key, absolute piece of ****. :bored:

MeMyselfAndI 04-11-2011 04:21 PM

Thats vile & the woman should get just as much blame the bitch.

Jamie. 04-11-2011 05:16 PM

Disgusting. This guy doesn't deserve to have a child.
Absolutely disgusting.

CharlieO 04-11-2011 05:25 PM

That made me so sad. I hate to see that happen to others as I know how much it damaged me. I hate people like that so much.

Firewire 04-11-2011 06:09 PM

I saw this on Tumblr the other day and I was disgusted. I cannot believe someone could treat their "child" like that. The daughter herself said that the mother is not to blame as she was bullied by him too. I just hope the father gets the punishment he deserves.

Z 04-11-2011 06:10 PM

I'm actually appalled by that. How can anyone treat their child like that? It's even sadder that she doesn't even seem like she did anything wrong - obviously we don't have the full context of why he chose to beat her that time, but she doesn't come across as the type of person to talk back or cause trouble; he said something about her lying and cheating in that video... what the **** man...

CharlieO 04-11-2011 06:27 PM

It happens everyday, everywhere and its why child abuse is illegal. She isn't the only one, hopefully it'll make people realise more about awareness and stuff.

Ammi 04-11-2011 06:39 PM

I'd like to see him spend some time in prison and let the inmates show him what a big man he is...see how he feels to be defenseless

Pyramid* 04-11-2011 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by CharlieO (Post 4718821)
It happens everyday, everywhere and its why child abuse is illegal. She isn't the only one, hopefully it'll make people realise more about awareness and stuff.


spot on.


It's not new, it happens as you say, far more than people realise - and it's not until footage such as this is released, that people see how bad it is - behind closed doors, with parents that are meant to be respectable pillars of society.

As much as you get the old story about "they were abused as a child and that's why they did that, it was what they grew up with" (crap) for every story like that, there the opposite side of the coin: ie; why some cannot understand why people find amusement in bullying, ganging up, or any type of such violence on others - and why some feel so very passionate about those type of things being regarded as amusing, even if it's done in some 'apparently' amusing manner.

I felt physically sick when I saw this clip. The daughter is a better person that I, in that she appears able to forgive.

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 04-11-2011 06:53 PM

i only got hit once as a child and that wasnt with a belt or anything and it was just one hit this guy looks like he is enjoying it he hit her like 50 times or something and i kind of deserved it actually i was about 7 and i told my mum to **** off and die in the middle of poundstretcher because she wouldnt buy me this fire engine thing so he smacked me on my leg and it really hurt and i was crying and everything and she felt really guilty so she bought it for me in the end :joker:

CharlieO 04-11-2011 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Scott (Post 4718896)
i only got hit once as a child and that wasnt with a belt or anything and it was just one hit this guy looks like he is enjoying it he hit her like 50 times or something and i kind of deserved it actually i was about 7 and i told my mum to **** off and die in the middle of poundstretcher because she wouldnt buy me this fire engine thing so he smacked me on my leg and it really hurt and i was crying and everything and she felt really guilty so she bought it for me in the end :joker:

Not really the tone thats appropriate.

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 04-11-2011 07:07 PM

my thread so its whatever tone i want it to be

http://i.imgur.com/UA8cE.jpg?2560

and its relevant so hush

CharlieO 04-11-2011 07:10 PM

It is not relevant. It is a story narrated in a hideous vulgar way comparing your selfish materialistic self to people who actually go through abuse. Its disgusting really.

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 04-11-2011 07:13 PM

thats nice dear

Pyramid* 04-11-2011 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by CharlieO (Post 4718934)
Not really the tone thats appropriate.

I could not agree more

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Originally Posted by Scott (Post 4718942)
my thread so its whatever tone i want it to be


and its relevant so hush

Nice to see you understand the difference between very sick and inappropriate humour on a thread that you put up, showing very serious abuse.

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Originally Posted by CharlieO (Post 4718950)
It is not relevant. It is a story narrated in a hideous vulgar way comparing your selfish materialistic self to people who actually go through abuse. Its disgusting really.


Totally agree Charlie, and I could not have worded it better myself.

InOne 04-11-2011 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Zee (Post 4718779)
I'm actually appalled by that. How can anyone treat their child like that? It's even sadder that she doesn't even seem like she did anything wrong - obviously we don't have the full context of why he chose to beat her that time, but she doesn't come across as the type of person to talk back or cause trouble; he said something about her lying and cheating in that video... what the **** man...

Over downloading music illegally :bored: Apparently the father didn't know much about the net and was wary of it. So treated it like it was mortal sin or something.

Iceman 04-11-2011 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by CharlieO (Post 4718950)
It is not relevant. It is a story narrated in a hideous vulgar way comparing your selfish materialistic self to people who actually go through abuse. Its disgusting really.

Not really, he's revealing something about a similar instance (okay not to the max that this is)

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 04-11-2011 07:26 PM

thankyou :hmph:

Pyramid* 04-11-2011 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Eoin (Post 4718993)
Not really, he's revealing something about a similar instance (okay not to the max that this is)

there is nothing remotely similar to a petulant child being smacked on the leg for being a spoilt little child and a mother giving into the child's demands....and a father beating absolute hell out of his daughter - regardless of the reason for it. Not one iota of similarity at all.

Scott is making light, and making fun out of a very serious matter - because he thought it was funny - and the very point I made in my earlier post - there is nothing amusing to discuss on this thread given the OP and the subject matter.

Iceman 04-11-2011 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 4719018)
there is nothing remotely similar to a petulant child being smacked on the leg for being a spoilt little child and a mother giving into the child's demands....and a father beating absolute hell out of his daughter - regardless of the reason for it. Not one iota of similarity at all.

Scott is making light, and making fun out of a very serious matter - because he thought it was funny - and the very point I made in my earlier post - there is nothing amusing to discuss on this thread given the OP and the subject matter.


Nothing wrong here, bad taste maybe but thats it. All abuse is linked, maybe you dont see smacking as abuse but I do, maybe it's the generation gap, your generation was allowed to get smacked no?

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 04-11-2011 07:33 PM

omg that post was really profound -edits-

i was making light out of that fact that my mum did buy me the toy in the end so she obviously felt bad about what she did and regretted it straight away whereas the guy in the video didn't even regret it years later and didnt see anything wrong with what he did to his daughter so it is relevant

Pyramid* 04-11-2011 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Eoin (Post 4719023)
Nothing wrong here, bad taste maybe but thats it. All abuse is linked, maybe you dont see smacking as abuse but I do, maybe it's the generation gap, your generation was allowed to get smacked no?

Clearly you have no idea.

Look again at the video. I understand the video only too well. You get my drift.

A quick smack on the legs for a spoilt child throwing a tantrum because he's not getting what he wants - is a whole different ball game.

Scott's post making light of abuse - which is exactly what he was doing...I find highly offensive, and if you as a moderator cannot see why, it beggars belief.

Pyramid* 04-11-2011 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Scott (Post 4719040)
omg that post was really profound -edits-

i was making light out of that fact that my mum did buy me the toy in the end so she obviously felt bad about what she did and regretted it straight away whereas the guy in the video didn't even regret it years later and didnt see anything wrong with what he did to his daughter so it is relevant

Exactly...you were making light of a situation that is far from funny Scott - and thinking it was funny - regardless of who you offend by doing so.

Iceman 04-11-2011 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 4719051)
Clearly you have no idea.

Look again at the video. I understand the video only too well. You get my drift.

A quick smack on the legs for a spoilt child throwing a tantrum because he's not getting what he wants - is a whole different ball game.

Scott's post making light of abuse - which is exactly what he was doing...I find highly offensive, and if you as a moderator cannot see why, it beggars belief.

I watched the video its horrific. I still say any kind of slapping is abuse, i would never slap a kid cause it weakens the relationship and can affect people long term.

Clearly you find it okay though, like I said different generations...........

Iceman 04-11-2011 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 4719058)
Exactly...you were making light of a situation that is far from funny Scott - and thinking it was funny - regardless of who you offend by doing so.

making light of his own situation not the video, read stuff thoroughly before posting a snide remark please.

CharlieO 04-11-2011 07:42 PM

Once again the differentiation of seriousness between the two occurrences quite disgusts me. As someone who's been through situations extremely similar if not worse to the poor girl in the video it offended me and I reacted to it with my beliefs.

Abuse is not about physical pain. It is the oppression one is put under mentally. I understand that and to compare a smack on the leg as mentally damaging because a child didn't get a toy is in no way similar and it is disgusting to say that one could be as damaged as children who go through real abuse.

Iceman 04-11-2011 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by CharlieO (Post 4719080)
Once again the differentiation of seriousness between the two occurrences quite disgusts me. As someone who's been through situations extremely similar if not worse to the poor girl in the video it offended me and I reacted to it with my beliefs.

Abuse is not about physical pain. It is the oppression one is put under mentally. I understand that and to compare a smack on the leg as mentally damaging because a child didn't get a toy is in no way similar and it is disgusting to say that one could be as damaged as children who go through real abuse.

Okay but that's your view. I find all forms of this terrible. I understand what you're saying but I agree with what Scott said, i just dont think any form of hitting kids is good, wether it be a smack or worse.

Pyramid* 04-11-2011 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Eoin (Post 4719068)
making light of his own situation not the video, read stuff thoroughly before posting a snide remark please.

I have made no snide remark. You will find that I used the very same words that Scott used, 'making light'.... yet you don't pull him up on offering snide remarks.

I have reported this anyway as I find it offensive, and I am not alone in finding it to be so.

Iceman 04-11-2011 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 4719113)
I have made no snide remark. You will find that I used the very same words that Scott used, 'making light'.... yet you don't pull him up on offering snide remarks.

I have reported this anyway as I find it offensive, and I am not alone in finding it to be so.

I know I read it and guess what.............im not infracting myself :laugh2:

CharlieO 04-11-2011 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Eoin (Post 4719087)
Okay but that's your view. I find all forms of this terrible. I understand what you're saying but I agree with what Scott said, i just dont think any form of hitting kids is good, wether it be a smack or worse.

But Scott was not proclaiming about how he found all forms terrible. He was making light of an issue which isn't one to be laughed at.

I understand your opinion entirely but Scott's story was inappropriate as it was laughing about a situation which you and he proclaim as similar.

Iceman 04-11-2011 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by CharlieO (Post 4719124)
But Scott was not proclaiming about how he found all forms terrible. He was making light of an issue which isn't one to be laughed at.

I understand your opinion entirely but Scott's story was inappropriate as it was laughing about a situation which you and he proclaim as similar.

I think he made light of it as to not want sympathy or anything like that, I found it relevant to the thread and so did another Mod who had a look, like i said maybe not the best comparison but a comparison none the less. I completely understand what you're saying though.

CharlieO 04-11-2011 07:59 PM

Relevant to the very edge of the topic realms, yes. However, relevant to the tone; there is no way that one could say it was fitting.

Pyramid* 04-11-2011 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Eoin (Post 4719128)
I think he made light of it as to not want sympathy or anything like that, I found it relevant to the thread and so did another Mod who had a look, like i said maybe not the best comparison but a comparison none the less. I completely understand what you're saying though.

therefore the fact that not one but two members find it highly offensive - have said this on this very thread, have explained why they do, yet it matters not a jot - and you as a moderator, take the opportunity to address such a matter, by laughing at a forum member who has explained clearly why they find such flippant comments highly offensive. It simply beggars belief.


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