and if something terrible happened to your son because of it or ended up dead, your wife would end up resenting you

I've taken the wrap off my mum for my younger bro(was a one off he assured me :suspect:). This is nothing.

I dont think she would half as much because its the son's own doing. Course it will take time but if the wife and husband are strong they will eventually be able to cope. And there is always the possibility that the son would get a lighter punishment because of age.

I don't think so, I think if my husband stopped me saving my son and he died or was seriously hurt because of it, I would never get over it.

PS lol at our moral clashes :laugh:

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I think its age and that you have children of your own, I can see how it probably would differ.

Yeah, probably. I mean if he was caught in Ireland or Britain, I'd definitely let him take the blame, it's just how dangerous and unfair those places can be would worry me

I'd be more confused at the thought of getting the death penalty or life in jail over a bag of weed
But i dunno what i'd do as i have no kids

Seriously! i wouldn't even let my kids leave the state, let alone the country, not even to Canada.

When i was in HS one of good friends went on the senior trip just down to TJ, and she was gang raped.

There's no way i'd let my kids leave the country. No way in hell.

They canm do all the traveling they want when they work for the state department, until then ain't gonna have a passport,k sorry!

This country is big enuf for you to explore until yu turn 18.

I don't think there is a choice other than to claim it.

They can do hair follicle tests to detect who uses marijuana - that is if they can be a*sed when they've already got a fall guy willing to confess. Oh, and I would willingly confess to save my son who of course, would have a lifetime of guilt because I'd done his time, or was executed. It's a lose/lose situation.

I'd let him take the rap for it if it were the UK, because our laws are more reasonable, and tbh, he's likely get a £40 on the spot fine for a personal-use amount of weed.

But, in those countries, I couldn't take the chance.