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Kazanne 04-08-2013 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by sampvt (Post 6248961)
I hope Sam washed his hands after squeezing the little rats balls tonight. I normally don't like to see people hurting or being made to look very very small, but I quite enjoyed watching Dexters face after he met Sam in the store room, that was tv gold. Even my wife said those looks are the looks of a man on his way to a hanging. Just emphasises how big a coward he is. Even Callum on one of his rants didn't get that kind of a reaction, just goes to show how frightened of Sam Dexter is. This will rattle his cage big time.

He knows Sam is a favourite,that's why Sam has had more of an impact.:hugesmile:

Hunrahsun 05-08-2013 12:13 PM

iF dExter was being genuine when talking to Sam - why did he look so afraid? why did he keep saying the same thing over and over again? if he "genuinely liked the bloke" why was so he so aggressive towards him? because he was SCARED. the look on his face after Sam walked back in, absolute "dang - the viewers saw that, they know Im lying" He can easily manipulate the house - but he cant go back now - he out and out LIES. I hope people can admit their wrong when supporting a housemate, Dexter is a snake. He uses people and he is not even not honest about it. wake up

aman201 05-08-2013 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 6248668)
That did not look good for him at all, if only he had apologised and left it at that but no he had to go on and on....

His expression when he realised Sam was still there was priceless too so he even knew himself he had put his foot in it..

Yeah, so true. :D

aman201 05-08-2013 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 6248750)
He just didn't remember the exact words. That's all.

You know Dexter by know, he's sly.

He knew what he was doing.

Videostar 05-08-2013 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 6248840)
If Dexter really has such difficulty remembering the 'exact' words that others have said maybe he would do better not to attempt to say what someone has said to others and present it as gospel when he himself talks to those other people.

He remembers alright,he just twists it to suit his own agenda as to what he would have liked them to say.

Whatever happened to Dexter's stammer by the way that was mentioned early in the series as to how he found it hard to explain things.
He does perfectly well saying anything when he is lying or twisting things.

Why would Dexter lie, for all he knows the mics picked up that chat between Sam and him on Friday night...it makes no sense for Dexter to lie as it would count against him with the public.

Winkie Expand 05-08-2013 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by south12345 (Post 6248806)
Sam handled things like an adult....he confronted Dexter straight away, he didnt swear, raise his voice or was aggressive. He allowed Dexter to respond to the accusations without interruption, then responded in a way to bring about the peace....
Hardly the reaction of a stroppy teenager as some have described his confrontation....
Dislike Dexter even more.....

Precisely. :hello:

Vanessa 05-08-2013 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by anon01 (Post 6250276)
You know Dexter by know, he's sly.

He knew what he was doing.

He just didn't remember the exact words. No big deal. Him and Sam have sorted it out like adults. That's good enough for me. :)

Kate! 05-08-2013 12:28 PM

rubbish. He lied.

Lex 05-08-2013 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 6248668)
That did not look good for him at all, if only he had apologised and left it at that but no he had to go on and on....

His expression when he realised Sam was still there was priceless too so he even knew himself he had put his foot in it..

Another desperate anti-Dexter thread Josy! :nono:...it was Sam who came out of that, looking a prat, not Dexter [or Sophie for that matter!] and if you would just take the 'Dexter-hate' blinkers off just for a second...it would all become much clearer to you, and you wouldn't be so confused! :thumbs:

Vanessa 05-08-2013 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by boomoo (Post 6249113)
Put this into context please. Sam was viewing Dexter ctitcising him, in fact being very unpleasant.
Sam simply came out and put him right.
There was a world of difference between what Sam recalled and what Dexter claimed he said.
Sam said Don't feel, which is polite.
Dexter said that Sam had rudely said Don't speak to me just because Callum has gone.

Quite nasty.
Doesn't matter because fortunately the housemates are not going to vote. There talk was all about pointing to Sam to make sure they all nominated him.

Dexter never lies about these things. Him and Sam have always been open and honest with each other. They know where they stand.

aman201 05-08-2013 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 6250285)
He just didn't remember the exact words. No big deal. Him and Sam have sorted it out like adults. That's good enough for me. :)

He did though, that's my point.

He deliberately twisted it.

Vanessa 05-08-2013 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Lex (Post 6250294)
Another desperate anti-Dexter thread Josy! :nono:...it was Sam who came out of that, looking a prat, not Dexter [or Sophie for that matter!] and if you would just take the 'Dexter-hate' blinkers off just for a second...it would all become much clearer to you, and you wouldn't be so confused! :thumbs:

The main thing is that Sam and Dexter sorted things out like adults. Unlike what's happening in the forums. :joker:

Vanessa 05-08-2013 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by anon01 (Post 6250313)
He did though, that's my point.

He deliberately twisted it.

No, he did not. He knows cameras record every word. If he lied he knows he'd be caught out.

aman201 05-08-2013 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 6250320)
No, he did not. He knows cameras record every word. If he lied he knows he'd be caught out.

They don't get replayed back to the house though, so him lying won't affect him.

Vanessa 05-08-2013 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by anon01 (Post 6250359)
They don't get replayed back to the house though, so him lying won't affect him.

Why would he lie? I don't believe Sam would lie either. Him and Dexter have always been honest with each other.

sampvt 05-08-2013 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 6250320)
No, he did not. He knows cameras record every word. If he lied he knows he'd be caught out.

WHAT !!!!!!!!!! Dexter tells so many lies its easier to decipher how often he tells the truth, which is about twice a day. He is such a prolific purveyor of the art of lying, he actually begins to believe his own lies as fact not fiction. He is little more than a little kid that was hated at school and hasn't yet grown up.

After watching him last night defend his argument with sam, a part of me began to feel sorry for him. I honestly think he needs help and a real friend to console him. Nobody should be allowed to go through life sticking pins in their own eyes and maligning themselves that frequently, he needs help.

Marmalite 05-08-2013 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 6250285)
He just didn't remember the exact words. No big deal. Him and Sam have sorted it out like adults. That's good enough for me. :)


If he couldn't remember the right words (which he only openly admitted to when Sam confronted him and said that's not what I said) then why did he bitch about it in the first place?

Dexter ****ed up and he knows it.

He failed to remember that when he disappeared with Gina they had access to HM's conversations. It's secret and lies, so it was clearly obvious that something fishy was going on. But he's so far up his own arse and thinks he's the only one that deserves to be in the final that he's starting to **** up big time!

The look on his face and his body language absolutely without doubt confirmed he knew he had messed up and messed up big and his conversation with Sam in trying to explain to him why he said it was more for damage control then actually apologising for talking a load of bollocks about someone who wasn't there to defend himself!

Oh and btw, if Dexter is one the most honest and straight forward people in the house then why did he not speak to Sam about how he felt before? Why wait until he was "missing" from the house before he started bitching about him and why he needs to go?

joeysteele 05-08-2013 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Marmalite (Post 6250396)
If he couldn't remember the right words (which he only openly admitted to when Sam confronted him and said that's not what I said) then why did he bitch about it in the first place?

Dexter ****ed up and he knows it.

He failed to remember that when he disappeared with Gina they had access to HM's conversations. It's secret and lies, so it was clearly obvious that something fishy was going on. But he's so far up his own arse and thinks he's the only one that deserves to be in the final that he's starting to **** up big time!

The look on his face and his body language absolutely without doubt confirmed he knew he had messed up and messed up big and his conversation with Sam in trying to explain to him why he said it was more for damage control then actually apologising for talking a load of bollocks about someone who wasn't there to defend himself!

Oh and btw, if Dexter is one the most honest and straight forward people in the house then why did he not speak to Sam about how he felt before? Why wait until he was "missing" from the house before he started bitching about him and why he needs to go?



Excellent points and very well made. I agree entirely with you as to your whole post above.

Vanessa 05-08-2013 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Marmalite (Post 6250396)
If he couldn't remember the right words (which he only openly admitted to when Sam confronted him and said that's not what I said) then why did he bitch about it in the first place?

Dexter ****ed up and he knows it.

He failed to remember that when he disappeared with Gina they had access to HM's conversations. It's secret and lies, so it was clearly obvious that something fishy was going on. But he's so far up his own arse and thinks he's the only one that deserves to be in the final that he's starting to **** up big time!

The look on his face and his body language absolutely without doubt confirmed he knew he had messed up and messed up big and his conversation with Sam in trying to explain to him why he said it was more for damage control then actually apologising for talking a load of bollocks about someone who wasn't there to defend himself!

Oh and btw, if Dexter is one the most honest and straight forward people in the house then why did he not speak to Sam about how he felt before? Why wait until he was "missing" from the house before he started bitching about him and why he needs to go?

They all thought Sam was gone were all shocked.
Because Callum was always on the way. But now they can talk and sort out any issue they have with each other.

Marmalite 05-08-2013 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by smeagol (Post 6248797)
he never twisted nothing it means the same thing i.e go away
its extremely petty and even stranger the forum is goin nuts over it,

ive decided anyone who cant chat objectively with reason is going on ignore ...sorted
roll up haters lol



So, let me get this straight.....

You are actually trying to make everyone believe that:

"Don't feel you have to talk to me now that Callum has gone"

means exactly the same as:

"Don't talk to me"


:crazy:

Kizzy 05-08-2013 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Marmalite (Post 6250429)
So, let me get this straight.....

You are actually trying to make everyone believe that:

"Don't feel you have to talk to me now that Callum has gone"

means exactly the same as:

"Don't talk to me"


:crazy:

Exactamundo, and seeing dexters attempt to worm his way out of his hole was one of my highlights of BB this year :)

Marmalite 05-08-2013 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 6250407)
They all thought Sam was gone were all shocked.
Because Callum was always on the way. But now they can talk and sort out any issue they have with each other.


Your post makes no sense to me what-so-ever!

Callum has nothing to do with this. He wasn't even in the house, yet he's still getting blamed every time Dexter ****s up.

Take your blinkers off honey!

Vanessa 05-08-2013 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Marmalite (Post 6250464)
Your post makes no sense to me what-so-ever!

Callum has nothing to do with this. He wasn't even in the house, yet he's still getting blamed every time Dexter ****s up.

Take your blinkers off honey!

Sam and Dexter have sorted things out anyway.

Kazanne 05-08-2013 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Marmalite (Post 6250464)
Your post makes no sense to me what-so-ever!

Callum has nothing to do with this. He wasn't even in the house, yet he's still getting blamed every time Dexter ****s up.

Take your blinkers off honey!

What a good poster you are:wavey::hugesmile:

smeagol 05-08-2013 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Marmalite (Post 6250429)
So, let me get this straight.....

You are actually trying to make everyone believe that:

"Don't feel you have to talk to me now that Callum has gone"

means exactly the same as:

"Don't talk to me"


:crazy:

they both mean the same thing i.e go way i'm not interested its a knock back no matter how its sugur coated
its really sad there is 3 pages on this as its so trivial lol

Marmalite 05-08-2013 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 6250474)
Dexter's mask slipped big time and he has now tried to do damage control by speaking a load of more bollocks.


I corrected your post for you!

chuff me dizzy 05-08-2013 01:19 PM

I hope they show on tonights show where Dexter says he can take people out a CLEAR threat from the strip joint waiter

Gillian-73 05-08-2013 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 6250523)
I hope they show on tonights show where Dexter says he can take people out a CLEAR threat from the strip joint waiter

Bib.... Really? On live feed? Silly man.

Vanessa 05-08-2013 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Gillian-73 (Post 6250545)
Bib.... Really? On live feed? Silly man.

He worded that wrong. He meant if he's attacked he will defend himself.

Kazanne 05-08-2013 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Gillian-73 (Post 6250545)
Bib.... Really? On live feed? Silly man.

Gillian,we are going to kidnap you and take you onboard HMS Samuel,we sail the high seas to destroy the rat that has hypnotised you,we will make you snap out of it,ye will make a great shipmate:hugesmile:

chuff me dizzy 05-08-2013 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 6250549)
He worded that wrong. He meant if he's attacked he will defend himself.

Im not rolling on the floor laughing at your ability to read his mind :laugh3::laugh3::laugh2::laugh2:

smudgie 05-08-2013 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Gillian-73 (Post 6250545)
Bib.... Really? On live feed? Silly man.

I think it is on the BB website, on the video where Sam and Dexter go for a talk in the treehouse. Something like that was said in the garden beforehand, could be another instance though.

Marc 05-08-2013 01:28 PM

Sam has hopefully taken him

chuff me dizzy 05-08-2013 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Marc (Post 6250568)
Sam has hopefully taken him

Sam has eaten him up and spat him out Marc

chuff me dizzy 05-08-2013 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by smudgie (Post 6250563)
I think it is on the BB website, on the video where Sam and Dexter go for a talk in the treehouse. Something like that was said in the garden beforehand, could be another instance though.

Ye ,it is there for all to see isnt it ?

lippyzippy 05-08-2013 01:32 PM

dexter was ultimately in the wrong...in the real world people do that all the time misrepresent people twist their words a bit to suit themselves and their agenda.....absolutely everyone on the planet does it to one degree or another.....this is magnified in the bb house.....so I think dexters punishment should be limited here ....everyone edits conversations.....how many people recollect every word of every sentence uttered to them.....though I do think dexter intention here was sly to make sam look bad and to make something worse than it was.....if hed simply said sam didn't want to talk to me after callums eviction he would have gotten away with it....the exact words dexter used were ...sam said "don't speak to me just because callums gone...." that is simply not what sam said.....if dexter had said the truth which was sam saying dont feel you have to speak to me just because callums gone.....then dexter would have had abit of a point as that was a bit rude of sam in a moment of despair.....but dexters twisting and misrepresentation of his words was poor.....I dont think even dexter can quite wriggle out of that

Vanessa 05-08-2013 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Marc (Post 6250568)
Sam has hopefully taken him

Sam is targeting both Sophie and Dexter, but i think he's bitten more than he can chew. :joker:

Kizzy 05-08-2013 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Gillian-73 (Post 6250545)
Bib.... Really? On live feed? Silly man.

Of course he seems just the type to hire muscle as he has none, Dexter has hinted at this a few times.

Gillian-73 05-08-2013 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 6250549)
He worded that wrong. He meant if he's attacked he will defend himself.

How do you know what he really meant? We can only go by what we see & hear.
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Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 6250557)
Gillian,we are going to kidnap you and take you onboard HMS Samuel,we sail the high seas to destroy the rat that has hypnotised you,we will make you snap out of it,ye will make a great shipmate:hugesmile:

Hahaha! It might not be long till I'm there Kaz :D
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Originally Posted by smudgie (Post 6250563)
I think it is on the BB website, on the video where Sam and Dexter go for a talk in the treehouse. Something like that was said in the garden beforehand, could be another instance though.

Thank you :)
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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 6250593)
Of course he seems just the type to hire muscle as he has none, Dexter has hinted at this a few times.

Interesting but yes I see your point, I can quite easily believe it.

Vanessa 05-08-2013 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Gillian-73 (Post 6250636)
How do you know what he really meant? We can only go by what we see & hear.

Hahaha! It might not be long till I'm there Kaz :D

Thank you :)


Interesting but yes I see your point, I can quite easily believe it.

I know he's ruthless on the outside. He's been bullied in there since day one. I say it's time to fight back. I would have done it ages ago, but i'm not as patient as Dexter.


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