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Kizzy 06-10-2013 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 6412804)
And covering yourself from head to toe is also backwards and also a very sexist tradition imo

Nuns do :laugh:

DanaC 06-10-2013 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Withano (Post 6412957)
I agree. I wasn't expecting to read a thread of people agreeing with the college when I read the title, it saddens me that the majority of the people here so far have done so.

Yup.

Jesus. 06-10-2013 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Salman! (Post 6412869)
omg it ****in pisses me off so much how ignorant people are. it may be funny for you but it's seriously seriously aggravating that people are so judgemental going by what they see in the news. Islam has disadvantages for men too you know, and in many aspects empowers women

-In Islam, women are not required to go to mosque - they have the freedom to pray at home, unlike men who are obliged to go 5 times a day and believe me, prayers at mosques are far longer and it's tough. It's especially difficult for men in Ramadan because they're required to pray late at night after an entire day of fasting for two hours in hot cramped conditions, whereas women's prayer is much shorter and from the comfort of their home & with more flexible times.
-Pregnant women do not need to fast during Ramadan
-Islam hails mothers. they're given more value than fathers and Heaven is said to lie at their feet
-The burqa is not compulsory. Women who therefore wear it are clearly choosing to cover themselves. Banning it an infringement of women's rights and goes completely against what it claims to do
-Judging a woman who does not wear a headscarf is regarded a huge sin
-Islam teaches individuals to lower their gaze and not view people as sexual objects which empowers both sexes
-pretty sure the majority of Muslim woman will tell you they don't feel oppressed so how the **** can you speak for them

I agree that they should be allowed to wear what they want, and as long as it is solely their choice, and not compulsory (like some countries), then it really isn't anyone's business what an individual chooses to wear.

However, lets not pretend that Islam is great to/for women. Islam had a decent approach to womens rights considering the time period, but that's it. The age that Mohammed married and had sex with Aisha at, continues to this day to contribute to child abuse.

I do agree with your argument, but having women at home preparing the feasts, whilst being praised by Mohammed for praying privately in their quarters is no doubt just a happy accident.

Me. I Am Salman 06-10-2013 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Jesus. (Post 6413475)
I agree that they should be allowed to wear what they want, and as long as it is solely their choice, and not compulsory (like some countries), then it really isn't anyone's business what an individual chooses to wear.

However, lets not pretend that Islam is great to/for women. Islam had a decent approach to womens rights considering the time period, but that's it. The age that Mohammed married and had sex with Aisha at, continues to this day to contribute to child abuse.

I do agree with your argument, but having women at home preparing the feasts, whilst being praised by Mohammed for praying privately in their quarters is no doubt just a happy accident.

well every society used to be like that, with their treatment of women and children being married (iirc there was a European king who married a girl under 10) so it's not exclusive to Islamic societies and that isn't what Islam is about. The marriage between Aisha and the Prophet SAW was only consummated when Aisha was deemed to be sexually mature and research by Islamic scholars suggest that she was actually 19 when they consummated, but whatever it was it's irrelevant to Islamic teachings and only happened because society was less developed

Jesus. 06-10-2013 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Salman! (Post 6413512)
well every society used to be like that, with their treatment of women and children being married (iirc there was a European king who married a girl under 10) so it's not exclusive to Islamic societies and that isn't what Islam is about. The marriage between Aisha and the Prophet SAW was only consummated when Aisha was deemed to be sexually mature and research by Islamic scholars suggest that she was actually 19 when they consummated, but whatever it was it's irrelevant to Islamic teachings and only happened because society was less developed

I completely agree. Other societies did used to be like that. However, humanity progressed and challenged Christianity and Monarchies. Islam is still a relatively young religion, which hasn't reached that level yet.

Which sort of shows to me that it's humanity that progresses and changes, by challenging the dogmas we've been fed, and not the dogmas that help us progress by following them.

I am completely on your side though when it comes to this issue though.

DanaC 06-10-2013 02:49 PM

It's a pretty typical thing really. Like the West promoting democracy in some dictatorship and then getting bent out of shape when they democratically elect someone we don't approve of and who seems to us to be the antithesis of democracy.

We promote greater choice, equality and autonomy for women whose native (or ancestral) culture seems designed to remove it and then get bent out of shape when some of them choose to embrace the culture we disapprove of and which seems the antithesis of choice, equality and autonomy.

Johnnyuk123 10-10-2013 05:37 PM

If this college rule gets overturned then what next? Naturist turning up starkers? Co's if they did the whole country would kick off about that but naturists too should also be allowed to express the exact same freedom as this girl is demaning by dressing or undressing how they see fit in public just like this muslim girl has, which after all is exactly the same kind of freedom that people want.

Jesus. 10-10-2013 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnnyuk123 (Post 6422188)
If this college rule gets overturned then what next? Naturist turning up starkers? Co's if they did the whole country would kick off about that but naturists too should also be allowed to express the exact same freedom as this girl is demaning by dressing or undressing how they see fit in public just like this muslim girl has, which after all is exactly the same kind of freedom that people want.

Well naturalists would have to travel to school to begin with, and they are probably breaking laws of public decency if they traveled naked on buses.

user104658 10-10-2013 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Jesus. (Post 6422257)
Well naturalists would have to travel to school to begin with, and they are probably breaking laws of public decency if they traveled naked on buses.

And if the naturists start claiming that it's a religion; that they believe covering up and part of their body (God's creation?) is an insult to Him and His work? What then? Surely, by the same rules of religious freedom that apply to the veil, it would have to be legalized... and accepted in establishments such as colleges.

You can't start picking and choosing, deeming one religion more legitimate than another... the rules have to be the same across the board. So, either it's OK for a college to disallow the veil, OR all religious freedoms are valid, and so they'd have to allow these new Naturochristians (that I have just invented AND named, awesome) to exercise their right to religious freedom by attending college buck naked.

lostalex 11-10-2013 07:41 AM

There should be one rule for everyone, no exceptions. This school is a secular environment, if you are THAT religious then you should be in a religious school that has different rules that can accomodate your religious needs.

Jesus. 11-10-2013 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 6422785)
And if the naturists start claiming that it's a religion; that they believe covering up and part of their body (God's creation?) is an insult to Him and His work? What then? Surely, by the same rules of religious freedom that apply to the veil, it would have to be legalized... and accepted in establishments such as colleges.

You can't start picking and choosing, deeming one religion more legitimate than another... the rules have to be the same across the board. So, either it's OK for a college to disallow the veil, OR all religious freedoms are valid, and so they'd have to allow these new Naturochristians (that I have just invented AND named, awesome) to exercise their right to religious freedom by attending college buck naked.

You really don't understand the difference? Firstly, naturalists have been partaking in the removal of clothes for milennia, and not once have they even tried to claim it as religion. Naturalists seem fairly comfortable with themselves, and I really couldn't see a load of irate naked people suddenly deciding that they want to be able to be naked in the streets and in schools.

Finally, you can't just claim yourself a religion and have access to religious freedoms. There are conditions that need to be met in order to receive religious benefits. There is a name for a group of people that get together and claim they are a religion, and that is cult.

I am an anti-theist, I neither believe in, nor want any religion, but I'm arguing to allow religious freedom, I'm arguing to allow complete civil liberties, and if religious dress crosses over, then they have the right to wear what they want, be it a veil, or a beard.

lostalex 11-10-2013 07:52 AM

what about rastafarians? i know here in America rastafarians in prison have tried to be allowed to smoke pot as part of their religion. Also there are some South American religions that use hallucinogenic drugs in their rituals. How far does religious freedom extend?

Jesus. 11-10-2013 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 6423272)
what about rastafarians? i know here in America rastafarians in prison have tried to be allowed to smoke pot as part of their religion. Also there are some South American religions that use hallucinogenic drugs in their rituals. How far does religious freedom extend?

I'm a social libertarian, so I believe they should be allowed to smoke what they want, regardless of any religious issues/freedoms.

I'm less interested in religious freedom, than personal freedom, and I know that's odd living in the CCTV nation.

user104658 11-10-2013 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Jesus. (Post 6423270)

Finally, you can't just claim yourself a religion and have access to religious freedoms. There are conditions that need to be met in order to receive religious benefits. There is a name for a group of people that get together and claim they are a religion, and that is cult.

We fundamentally disagree here again; I'd be more inclined to say "there's a name for a cult with more than a few thousand members. It's called a religion.". I personally find it ridiculous that one load of fairytales and nonsense can be considered "more legitimate" than another, purely on the grounds that more people happen to believe it.

I'm not necessarily saying that people would be lying about their beliefs in order to manipulate freedoms. I'm saying that, feasibly, there hypothetically COULD be a group of people who believe that hiding the naked body, supposedly the pinnacle of God's "work", could be considered blasphemy. It's a perfectly justifiable religious logic, much moreso than covering it, debatably. And if that group did exist, and was to be considered a "real" religion, would it not then follow that those people could claim the right to be naked wherever they want to be naked, on religious grounds?

lostalex 11-10-2013 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Jesus. (Post 6423273)
I'm a social libertarian, so I believe they should be allowed to smoke what they want, regardless of any religious issues/freedoms.

I'm less interested in religious freedom, than personal freedom, and I know that's odd living in the CCTV nation.

but you can understand how having hundreds of violent prisoners tripped out on hallucinogens might be difficult to manage? i'm just saying, there has to be SOME restrictions on religious(and personal) freedom. just out of pure practicality.

That being said, I agree that how someone wears a head scarf or their facial hair is completely a non-issue when you are talking about school kids. I think even school uniforms are ridiculous.

Jesus. 11-10-2013 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 6423278)
We fundamentally disagree here again; I'd be more inclined to say "there's a name for a cult with more than a few thousand members. It's called a religion.". I personally find it ridiculous that one load of fairytales and nonsense can be considered "more legitimate" than another, purely on the grounds that more people happen to believe it.

I'm not necessarily saying that people would be lying about their beliefs in order to manipulate freedoms. I'm saying that, feasibly, there hypothetically COULD be a group of people who believe that hiding the naked body, supposedly the pinnacle of God's "work", could be considered blasphemy. It's a perfectly justifiable religious logic, much moreso than covering it, debatably. And if that group did exist, and was to be considered a "real" religion, would it not then follow that those people could claim the right to be naked wherever they want to be naked, on religious grounds?

I think we sort of agree, it's just a bit clouded. All religions are cults is something that we can definitely agree on. I also agree that one set of fairy tales shouldn't be given more credence than another, but it just is, and it's purely a function of historical time. The Abrahamic religions have ruled the world for centuries, so they permeated the psyche. It's only the last couple of hundred years that secularism has got any kind of foothold, and it's a long path ahead that science and rationalism will continue to erode long after the time that you and I exist.

Apart from that, your example is hyperbole, and not very realistic. Where is this religion coming from? Is it a sect of a an existing religion? The bible says you should kill cheeky children, or not eat shellfish, murder your brother for cleaning his car on a Sunday. Would I argue that a member of a religion should be allowed to stone his cheating wife to death? No, of course not.

However, wearing a veil, or growing a beard isn't hurting anyone, and if we're not confident/secure enough as a people to tolerate difference, then that says far more about us, than it does about a young woman who wishes to hide her head under a veil, away from her imaginary friend.

Jesus. 11-10-2013 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 6423280)
but you can understand how having hundreds of violent prisoners tripped out on hallucinogens might be difficult to manage? i'm just saying, there has to be SOME restrictions on religious(and personal) freedom. just out of pure practicality.

That being said, I agree that how someone wears a head scarf or their facial hair is completely a non-issue when you are talking about school kids. I think even school uniforms are ridiculous.

Isn't the whole point of prison to remove people from society, thus restricting freedom?

lostalex 11-10-2013 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Jesus. (Post 6423282)
Isn't the whole point of prison to remove people from society, thus restricting freedom?

well exactly, but technically the prison is also their home. and they do deserve some individual rights in their own home, even in prison. So it's a balance. Same for schools on a much less intense scale, schools are also institutions where there needs to be a certain level of control. It's a large group of people being governed by a small number of people. Anytime there are large groups of epople there are certain rules you need just to keep the peace, in a large group you are no longer just an individual, you are also part of the group. being part of a large group, you have to accept that you are not just an individual any more.

Anyways, i'm rambling now. My main point is there should be one rule for all. If these to girls are allowed to cover their faces, everyone should be allowed to, wear masks, or sun glasses or whatever they want, my only real point is there should be 1 rule for everyone, and religious people should not get special exceptions.

Jesus. 11-10-2013 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 6423283)
well exactly, but technically the prison is also their home. and they do deserve some individual rights in their own home, even in prison. So it's a balance. Same for schools on a much less intense scale, schools are also institutions where there needs to be a certain level of control. It's a large group of people being governed by a small number of people. Anytime there are large groups of people there are certain rules you need just to keep the peace, in a large group you are no longer just an individual, you are also part of the group. being part of a large group, you have to accept that you are not just an individual any more.

They have some individual rights, and they shouldn't be refused religious texts, or the opportunity to pray, but the government should have no compunction to provide substances that are still classed as illegal, however much I disagree with the fact that they are illegal.

School should only ever be about learning, and people are individuals. Individuals learn in different ways and react better/worse to different approaches. I don't agree with a one size fits all approach to education.


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