He fell for the tomboy?

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Yeah she's never had extensions or gone for the trashy look before. :joker:

She's had that dummie image for a good couple of years. Kind of why she lost her job at Hollyoaks and entered CBB.

Also he fingered her on TV whilst she had s boyfriend at home watching so I don't think he's looking for anything other than a pouting sex doll to glare at the cameras with. No class.

Well I knew nothing about her prior to BB so I only have one image to go with and that is the same one she showed Jeremy and the viewers and other housemates when she was in the house....weather is new look is a new image or a return to the old one it changes nothing about my opinion on it...the new image is the pole opposite of the one she sold the viewers and the one she sold Jeremy and if he has dumped her because he finds her new image fake then I agree with him complete...
It is not just a change of hair colour, it represents many other changes ..in appearance and attitude too....it is a drastic change and sends a strong message of how differently she wants to be perceived now and how different she wants to be regarded ...
How she looked in the past and how she behaved in the past is irrelevant because Jeremy didn't know her in the past....he fell for a girl that he said felt like a sexy version of one of his mates...a Tom boy who drank pints and was up for the crack...now she's a fake looking blonde just like all those silly bitches on TOWIE ....i would not hesitate to dump her if I was in his shoes, she is either not the person she seemed to be in the house or she has decided to try and change the person she was in the house....either way it's not what he signed up for.

.... or she is simply a girl who regularly changes up her hairstyle/colour. Which, given her history, is true.

If I was a potential suitor of hers, I'd be more concerned at her high turnover of partners and penchant for infidelity than I would be her change of hair colour.

...hmmm, it might just be a different hair colour/a complete contrast from brunette to blonde but when we do these things, I think we have to do them for ourselves...especially with such and extreme of colouring because the most important thing is how it makes us feel, how much confidence etc and whether we feel good and feel we look good/suit it...of course, if we have a partner then it's always lovely if they prefer the look as well but whether it be a partner/friend etc, or whoever who may say they love something about us/a physical appearance thing...we're not going to feel good about ourselves or feel what they say unless we feel it too...


..I don't think it's an arrogant thing either in terms of her establishing herself, as you say...again I think it's simply something she wanted to do/be blonde and if she's going to become 'established' she will anyway, either as a blonde or a brunette...when you think about it also, she was already established as a brunette and that being established as a brunette took her to a decision to go into the BB house and maybe look at her career, which way she wanted to go forward etc... and her blonde look maybe a first step in that because she's putting 'brunette' aside for the moment to explore something new..?..:laugh:...

...we love our partners, she may have genuine deep feelings for him but more than anything, we have to be ourselves/true to ourselves and our decisions for them to love us...

..well, probably overthinking the new 'air do, there...

Makes her look older in my opinion but then really, for me anyway,the name Stephanie Davis and the word 'amazing' are one mismatch of the highest order.

But I wasn't talking about what behaviour of Stephs you think is concerning, I was talking about what behaviour I find concerning ..... Your views are the same as the majority and like the majority have never changed ...but I have never had issue with those things because I think leaving her idiot bf and going out with Jeremy were the right decisions to make....and was also her right.
I was a big supporter of Steph and Jeremy so maybe that's why I find her new image more frustrating than those who never liked her. For me it speaks volumes about her.

After saying she finally has found someone who loves her for who she is and not just for her image, she then immediately goes and changes her image.
After Jeremy telling her he loves her because she's like of one the guys and not a typical girlie girl she immediately goes and makes herself look like a typical girlie girl.
She posts pics of her new haircut all over social media to attract attention to her life then when her fans show attention to her love life she says that she hates it.
After Jeremy rightfully said she should take a few weeks to get back to normal and to her old self before jumping into a new life she instead makes drastic changes to her appearance so that she looks nothing like her old self.
She's gone from being a Tom Boy brunette drinking pints of Guiness in the pub to being a peroxide blonde pouting like a towie dummy in a nightclub.
Of course it's not just about a change of hair style, it's about the timing of it and the reasons for it and it says more about her than who she falls in love with...she didn't choose who she fell in love with but she def chose to totally change her image at a time when you would imagine that would be the last thing shed need or want ... Especially as, with the old image, she's just come second on BB and has found the apparent love of her life. ... I think the image change represents a lot and non of it good.

Arrogant maybe too strong a word but she is def very confident that her image is already established enough that she can totally change it so soon after finding fame from it....I know she was in Hollyoaks but it's not those 17 viewers that's put her in the spot light is it ? For most people she only really became present after BB....maybe not arrogant but def not thought through and a bit stupid....for me, and I'm sure for others too, the way she looked was a big part of what was appealing about her because she didn't look like all those generic mass produced dummy's on shows like TOWIE and and now she does.

Arrogant came to mind because I found the way she expects people to just adapt to her total 360 change of image very similar to Cheryl Cole who expected people to adapt to her ever changing surnames....that was def arrogant because she was complaining about it the silly bitch...Steph hasn't quite reached that level yet so maybe I will hold fire on calling her arrogant ...I do after all like her and want her to stop being stupid.

I think we get accused of over thinking when we take time to back up our observations.....you're the same and that's why I take you more seriously than others who just throw insults around without backing them up.
I def look a bit deeper behind what's on show.....that's why I saw the bigger picture when they got together and that's why I see more than just a new hair style now....I am pissed off that the type of person I liked in the house is now trying to look like the exact type of person I dislike....I also can see how bored people in the TV media are getting with her ever changing mind so the last thing she shud be doing is changing her appearance right now.
I like the girl, or I'm trying to, and I def like Jeremy...so to watch him fail to turn up for his This Morning interview a few weeks ago, then fail to arrive at his new presenting job on Irish TV , then watch both of them fail to attend their appearance on Loose Women is just arrogant and stupid ...and now to watch her turn into just another fake looking dummy like so many others is just frustrating.....I wonder who the hell cares about them, I know he has lost his family and maybe that explains a lot but what about hers....what is the reason she is so manic and so unhappy with herself that she has to keep changing everything on such a big scale ? Her parents and her friends and her agent, do non of them have any influence ?
I don't think I am over thinking anything but I can see how you may think that... I actually think she has some serious problem and is surrounded by people telling her the opposite and I think that's sad..... If I like someone I like them enough to say when they are making a mistake.

...so maybe because you see something in her/something specific in her character/a depth that you don't feel others saw in the house..?...you're frustrated that her hair will make her look like something which you feel 'stereotypically' represents something not so good/shallow, type thing...but also you want the public to like her, to see what you do in her and it's annoying you because you feel they won't because of her hair change and general publicity behaviour since leaving the house..?.../that she and Jeremy aren't quite shaping up to be the likeable couple/loved by the public, you believed in them becoming on leaving the house...?...

Suits it dark better tbh. But her choice.

All of the above Amii except for last bit, I actually think the public interest in them and the TV shows sympathising with them shows how much the public like them ...I think the public seem to want them to work it out more then they themselves do...
But all the above, about what i see in her that she does so well to smash in front of everyone, yeh....she's really silly to not know when she is liked and why.....if the public had wantend a fake dummy who spends all day with their face in the mirror to be this years top female in BB they would have chosen Gemma or Megan or even Nancy.....she won the show because she wasn't like that and now she's trying to be...of course, as someone who liked her, I feel that she is letting herself down and just reinforcing people's dislike of her....irony is, that if she goes full on down that fake celebrity reality style path then all those who have hated her on here should actually start to like her cause she'll be just like the females they usually love so much.

..I do understand what you're saying, I think Stephanie has a pretty loyal fan there, eh...but I guess that I just hate to see you get so irritated/annoyed/sad with stuff, like you seem to be because as you know, none of us have any control over what others do, no matter how much we wish they wouldn't do certain things or have control over what others think of them and obviously neither should we have that control so it's all wasted energy and pointless frustrations and emotions...it's probably similar to the frustrations that some of the other housemates had with her, they were almost pulling their hair out at times and in complete despair..:laugh:..it felt as though, many thought she was her 'worst enemy' and almost on a path of self destruct...?..a path that some of them had also followed so there was those screams of STOP to her, but ultimately she did it her way and many people have to do that,no matter what the influences, how good they are...people have to follow their own paths in life and find their own ...
way/their way...

A lot of women redo their hair after major life events (like a bad breakup). In fact for some it's so emotional to cut their hair that it is a really big deal, much less change a hair style and color completely. When we do it on our terms it's like saying we're taking back our identity and claiming full ownership and control over what the new one will be.

It's kinda something some people do to signal a change is needed/in the air. When I moved cross country at 19 and started a new life, I made a serious change. I went from hair that was so long it went to my butt for so many years to basically a bob haircut and color. Now I don't use color and I'm somewhere in-between length-wise, but sometimes we feel like our old identity has us by the throat and changing our hair/appearance is one of those things we have the most control over...

I think a lot of this could easily apply to Stephanie. Saying she must stay the same for long periods of time because that is what the public expects or wants to see of her is plain silly... there are plenty of celebrities that make dramatic changes to their identity (sometimes in the form of rebelling) and are still well-known after the fact.

Besides, Stephanie just went from theoretically, one ****ty life to a much better one, so this is kinda like shedding that previous ****ty life... it makes complete sense.

Some Examples:
Lindsay Lohan
Justin Bieber
Miley Cyrus
Robert Downy Jr.
Angelina Jolie (read up on her past...)
Michael Jackson


I love this topic by the way

Her red hair>

I really don't see how her darker hair made her look tomboyish at all.

There are plenty blondes who drink pints of lager. :unsure:

It's interesting how you see her new image as being the result of her needing a big change in here life....I just wonder how many changes she needs to display in full public view before she finally appreciates what she's got.......I thought going into BB was her big change and chance to prove herself to the public....then there was the abandoned wedding plans to her partner because she needed change...then there was the new big love of her life who she said finally makes her feel happy and loved for who she is and not for her image, before immediately changing that image yet again ....I liked her in the house, I liked her fighting spirit against the very people she's now turning into....but some folkes just keep on needing dramatic life changes till there's no where left to go except tragedy...pretty much every one on the list above that you think strengthens your view is a fuk up ....one of which didn't stop till he was dead , one of which didn't stop till she'd stolen some ones husband and two of which ended up in jail.
This is about her sudden need to make a dramatic change at the very start of what was supposed to be her new start with Jeremy.

I never said that the public expect her to stay the same for long periods of time so that's a miss quote that you make on my behalf....I said that she wants to be a brand but the majority of the public have only got to know her because of BB and that her decision to drastically change the way she looks is too soon because she's not established her original image yet. I also said it seems an odd thing to do, change your appearance completely from the one Jeremy said he fell in love with only weeks ago...she keeps telling everyone that she just wants to be loved for herself yet as soon as someone has done that she immediately changes herself.
The public don't expect her to stay the same for long periods of time they just want her to stay the same for more than 5 minutes. A lot of people have already spent the last 8 weeks asking themselves who she is and what she actually wants, the image of her and Jeremy was supposed to finally be the answer but apparently not cause now she's gone and changed completely again, this time visually......she's a disaster and it's a shame cause she's a funny girl who is not dumb like others in that house....slowly but surely the TV shows will start shutting her out...it's already happened

You have written a trilogy of novels with these essays on Stephanie's hair colour.

My list is not very exhaustive, but my main point is that many celebrities have had major drama/changes in their looks/appearance and still remain some of the more recognizable celebrities in our culture. Even the worst of them are loved by their fanbase. You're acting as if Steph made the worst move ever for her brand and I'm pointing out that for many the constant change in their lives have actually made them more interesting to the public.

You're operating under the assumption that many people think as deeply as you do about who they vy for. For many it just comes down to likeability. Celebrities can be a major "f--k up" as you kindly put it, even be horrid (see: Donald Trump) but still be very likable and so therefore enjoy fame, success and fortune throughout their entire careers.

I would argue Steph's variability/volatility is very much her brand. It's one of the main reasons I found her a favorite this season. Elizabeth Taylor had all sorts of drama (and marriages) throughout her life and yet she is a legend.

TDLR: Her hair color is at best a statement, but it doesn't define who she is as a person, much less her brand. Many celebrities change is more fundamental ways (see: sex change/sexual preference) and yet still enjoy great success.

She's an actress anyway, she should be a chameleon for her characters.

She looks common and dirty.

a tesco worker in the making #bb15zoe

That's because she is common and dirty...we all saw that in the house.

She needs some good advice and to just lie low for a period of time. Her time in the house did her no favours whatsoever...but unfortunately as we saw, she is unable to take advice and does what she wants because she thinks she knows best. She is just spiralling downwards and she needs to stop her attention seeking ways.