my heart

Firstly, Don't come for me. Secondly, I feel like i know much more about all the other housemates than Raph even Joe, Kieran and Charlotte. All i know from him is that he's a gameplayer, a massive BB fan and a cheat. He doesn't seem relatable, tonight I saw a sneaky side to him. He needs to lighten up, have some fun. Just do something

I'll come for you anytime, any day, you better be ready cuz you aint seen nuffin' yet.

That's not what you said earlier pal.

That is what i said. Raph is a gameplayer, fake, sneaky, a cheat, playing on those pity votes. You may not see that cos you have tunnel vision but I judge him as a housemate in the BB house. No preconceived opinions, unlike some

I don't have any either because I don't know him?

So.... try again?

Raph: I'm gay.


"But you iz not jumping about screaming, wearing pink or squealing SHOWBIZZZZZ at every little thing. WOT U LYIN 4!!!!"

The whole idea that he is not "gay enough" for some is ridiculous. Maybe he isn't defined by his sexuality and is secure enough in himself to not think that his bedroom proclivities define him.
Maybe he wants to show the world that all gay men aren't just crazy, horny, bitchy effeminate caricatures that are so often portrayed on television.
I am not someone who ever really mentions my sexual activity or inclinations...its not for being ashamed or not knowing myself, but for the fact that it really is the least interesting thing about me....

This! There's so much more to Raph than his sexuality. Housemates are underestimating him, but that's a good thing for us fans.

My life being straight, i want to tell everyone my story even if no-one is the slightest bit interested in it. Its defined my whole life. Oh wait, it hasn't

:joker:

Surely it's a personal thing how much information about your personal life you want to impart? Sex talk on BB is so boring as people try to outdo each other in the outrageous stakes, it's quite nice that he has something different to offer personality wise, Like his "what kind of books do you like quote" this is more normal on a first date anyway than what's the size of your penis

Do we? For most twenty-somethings these days it's pretty much the same - they say "I'm gay" at some point, and their parents come to terms with it. How his parents react to such an arbitrary thing isn't interesting.

all i know is in his DR session last night he adopted that god awful line (type thing) Paulie (BBUS 18) would say all the time on the feeds. pretty much after every sentence. Raph being a major fan of that big giant massive a-hole has poisoned him. i felt like he said that on purpose for that reason & i wonder if any other BBUS fans on here caught that lol

unless he starts being much more of a massive gay then I dont think I can support him

i like my gays to be screaming, not covert like straight people :worry:

To date he is my fav HM.He is not shouting ,talking loud or interrupting.He is not seeking air time via OTT drama or making a big deal Re his sexuality and imo these are all positives.

He has already got his own back on twat Joe, who was horrible to Arthur. The boy is doing good :dazzler:

im not saying he should be running around screaming like a queen, im just saying he should be talking about the fact that he is gay. its part of his game plan to come across as "straight acting" i guess, if only for his own ego. but baby you cannot hide those limp wrists.

Not all gays are squealing seals like Marco :joker:

listen! there is some grey area between being a squealing seal and literally not acknowledging your sexuality.

He does talk about dating boys. But we don't see those clips on the highlights. There was a chat about it with Chanelle that was not shown.

What? I really don't see what point you're trying to make. "Talk about being gay",what is there to talk about? Should he drop it into conversations, HAVE I MENTIONED I'M GAY TODAY? He talks about dating guys when it's relevant, otherwise, why would he?

:joker:

These pray the gay away courses need to rethink their method. All a gay guy needs to do is like shut up talking about it for a bit.

If he wants to win, he has to be relatable to the public. And so far we've only seen the fake gameplayer side so it'll be a nice change. And ffs, nobody's sad enough and cares what someone's favourite book

Except for most people.

Funnily enough no one on here is sad enough to be desperate for him to go into detail about what he likes to do in bed.

No one is sad enough to care about a persons favourite book? Umm except normal people

I'd much rather someone talk about books with me than whatever the latest gay fad is.

No he doesnt. There are not defined rules of being gay or straight

What is "straight acting"? Is it being not feminen or is it not talking about being gay all the time. Regardless there is no such thing as acting "straight" or gay because there are no rules about being straight or gay.

Films i get, but books. How is knowing what books their into is gonna benefit the relationship and make you like them more

I laughed when he said that. Of all the things you could ask a guy! :laugh:

Fine, let's all have a discussion about Raph's favourite book and let's change the website name from TIBB to BB's book club while we're at it

Why though, why would i give a toss what books a guy likes, the types of guys I normally go for don't care as well

Yes because the only other thing about Raph that could possibly be discussion worthy apart from his sex life is his favourite book.

Obviously.

You must know some very dull people if you think it's the be all and end all of someones life and personality.

Why would we give a toss whether Raph likes to top or bottom?

Why do gay people have to act a certain way to be accepted as gay. This is literally ridiculous, It's almost laughable.

Also people do read, and Raph is an intelligent guy hes more likely to read and enjoy books and so care about books. It's no different than caring about a football team/A band/singer/Video game/movie - You're argument is literally so flawed and ridiculous that I'm finding it hard to understand.

What a strong point.

I actually find this needing to know more and hear more as to Raph sexual preferences weird.

What on earth has it to do with anyone other than Raph or how he chooses present himself.

He's a great guy,an interesting guy to listen to,he is now making his presence felt more.
I for one,am enjoying watching him and listening to him as he is relaying in the house.

He's a good housemate,in my view.
Good on him.

Why would you get films but not books? Books take more time and dedication so would tell you more about a person imo

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Why would he talk about being gay? People get annoyed when others talk about their sexuality all the time (especially being gay I've noticed), poor guy can't win