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Crimson Dynamo 19-02-2018 12:33 PM

plus he stepped down before the full investigation could be completed, wonder why...

Kizzy 19-02-2018 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 9879590)
I read the BBC article and it said new info had arisen. YOu obviously missed that one and dont seem to be able to state why he took 3 years to resign (or should I say be advised to resign)

I also expect the Mail have more dirt on him as they will want to release more this Sunday

Took 3yrs to resign from where?

Kizzy 19-02-2018 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 9879591)
Has an allegation been made against a particular person who attended?

I don't know the ins and outs of the case Cherie, we know what the media reports as with this issue that isn't very much, but the reactions are very different.

Crimson Dynamo 19-02-2018 12:43 PM

The husband of the murdered MP Jo Cox has resigned from the two charities he set up in her memory after being publicly accused of sexual assault.

Brendan Cox has stepped down from his posts at More in Common and the Jo Cox Foundation after allegations, printed in the Mail on Sunday, that he had assaulted a woman in her 30s at Harvard University in 2015. Police filed her complaint as assault and battery but action against him was dropped.

Cox denied the claims in a statement issued on Saturday but admitted making mistakes in a previous role with the charity Save the Children.

Source: Guardian


I cant believe he set up a charity for his dead wife after this?

Kizzy 19-02-2018 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 9879593)
plus he stepped down before the full investigation could be completed, wonder why...

An investigation could still be done in his absence, him not being there is not an issue. Should it be warranted then that would take place regardless.

Crimson Dynamo 19-02-2018 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 9879605)
An investigation could still be done in his absence, him not being there is not an issue. Should it be warranted then that would take place regardless.

he is bang to rights and a bloody disgrace bearing in mind his wife and he is a father


what a douche

Kizzy 19-02-2018 01:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 9879609)
he is bag to rights and a bloody disgrace bearing in mind his wife and he is a father


what a douche

ok

GoldHeart 19-02-2018 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 9879354)
It is claimed that Mr Cox drunkenly harassed a female employee at the charity in London, forcing her against a wall outside a bar, holding her by the throat and telling her: 'I want to ******* you.'

The incident led to him being forced to leave the charity in 2015. Save The Children's chief executive Justin Forsyth, a close friend of Mr Cox and former aide to Labour Prime Minister Gordon Brown, resigned four months later.

Astonishingly, one month after Mr Cox left the charity, a senior female US Government official told police Mr Cox had carried out a similar alleged assault on her at Harvard University in America – as this newspaper revealed last week. The woman was unaware of the Save The Children incident at the time.
...

Some colleagues say he had a reputation for pestering women for sex. 'It wasn't comfortable being on duty alone with him,' said one.

'He would buy women drinks, his hands were everywhere. Everyone knew it was going on, but he was best friends with the boss.'

Matters came to a head after a Save The Children drinks party in July 2015. 'Brendan was dancing provocatively with a woman who told him to leave her alone,' said one source. 'She joined a group of women who went on to a bar. Brendan followed them. He got her outside, pushed her against a wall and tried to force himself on her.'
...

This newspaper revealed last week how a woman, whose identity we withheld, complained to US police, accusing Mr Cox of sexual assault while there.

By her account, he cornered her in a bar, plied her with drink, 'grabbed her by the hips, pulled her hair, forced his thumb into her mouth in a sexual way' and later sent her obscene text messages. Police filed her complaint as 'assault and battery', but she told them not to take further action because she 'feared repercussions'.


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...t-resigns.html

See the article I read had none of this information :shocked: :facepalm:, I knew it was far serious that some people thought .

He only denied 1 incident as well,which means he pretty much did all of this still . I don't think his wife would of known . The fact he's admitted he's overstepped the line just shows he's guilty .

bots 19-02-2018 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 9879881)
See the article I read had none of this information :shocked: :facepalm:, I knew it was far serious that some people thought .

He only denied 1 incident as well,which means he pretty much did all of this still . I don't think his wife would of known . The fact he's admitted he's overstepped the line just shows he's guilty .

i think his wife was alive when he first resigned from that charity. So it's not something brought on by grief

GoldHeart 19-02-2018 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 9879884)
i think his wife was alive when he first resigned from that charity. So it's not something brought on by grief

Makes you wonder if she knew :think:, I wonder if she was just loyal to him and loved him and didn't want to believe anything bad about him poor woman and poor kids .

Vicky. 19-02-2018 05:35 PM

The amount of people minimizing and defending this behavior is insane. Labour MPs saying on twitter 'good on him for admitting it' and such :umm2: Well yes, I guess its good in a way that he is taking responsibility, but it hardly makes him a saint given he is admitting gross behaviour.

https://twitter.com/michaelgove/stat...43533048406020

Crimson Dynamo 19-02-2018 05:37 PM

people have invested so much sainthood in jo cox its hard now to realise that her husband was a wanker i guess is what is going on?

GoldHeart 19-02-2018 05:44 PM

As i've said before nobody expected Brendan Cox to be a saint , but we all felt sympathy for the devastating brutal loss of his wife . We also assumed he was a decent guy , come on how could any of us expect this from him ?? :shocked:.

But just shows none of us actually know these people or what's really going on behind the scenes . Yes hes admitted to it but he's still in the wrong .

Alf 19-02-2018 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9879982)
The amount of people minimizing and defending this behavior is insane. Labour MPs saying on twitter 'good on him for admitting it' and such :umm2: Well yes, I guess its good in a way that he is taking responsibility, but it hardly makes him a saint given he is admitting gross behaviour.

https://twitter.com/michaelgove/stat...43533048406020

The same people cyber hunted Toby Young into resigning, over some text messages only a few months back. Shows you just how much of a game it is to them.

Alf 19-02-2018 06:47 PM

He was obviously used for the remain campaign. Grieving widower of remain politician tragically murdered.

GoldHeart 19-02-2018 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Alf (Post 9880251)
He was obviously used for the remain campaign. Grieving widower of remain politician tragically murdered.

Well it didn't make a difference , we still left :bored:.

MB. 19-02-2018 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Oliver_W (Post 9879444)
She was just another politician at the time though, she wasn't the new Jesus yet.

Congrats on managing to find a take as gross as this one, I guess

Vicky. 19-02-2018 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Alf (Post 9880240)
The same people cyber hunted Toby Young into resigning, over some text messages only a few months back. Shows you just how much of a game it is to them.

Well quite.

I don't think issues like this should be made into some ridiculous political point scoring exercise. but it seems these days everything must be made into that. I find it quite pathetic tbh.

Kizzy 19-02-2018 08:42 PM

The difference of course being they were actual messages and not an allegation he wrote a message, there is a difference.

Maybe it would've been better for him if he had gone through the appropriate disciplinary procedures in 2015, even if it would have been politically embarrassing for his wife, it would have prevented all this did he/ didn't he today?

Beso 20-02-2018 07:19 AM

Luckily he is not donald trump, therefore the left will shut up and sweep it under the carpet rather than climb on a padastool to begin the rancid hate mongering of the individual.

Beso 20-02-2018 07:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 9879504)
'he cornered her in a bar, plied her with drink, 'grabbed her by the hips, pulled her hair, forced his thumb into her mouth in a sexual way' and later sent her obscene text messages.'

This sounds like a line from 50 shades... :/

Only its not.

Kizzy 20-02-2018 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 9881517)
Only its not.

What is it then, look at that rationally what is really happening in that scenario?

He saw her in a bar
He bought her a drink
They danced
They kissed
There was some sexual contact
They exchanged phone numbers

Beso 20-02-2018 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 9881568)
What is it then, look at that rationally what is really happening in that scenario?

He saw her in a bar
He bought her a drink
They danced
They kissed
There was some sexual contact
They exchanged phone numbers

Its a shame only one side wanted all that.:nono:

Kizzy 20-02-2018 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 9881600)
Its a shame only one side wanted all that.:nono:

Ok

Beso 20-02-2018 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 9881640)
Ok

Sorry, im not really following...


Are you being so dismissive because you think its ok to be a sex pest on woman on a night out when she has clearly told you NO.

MTVN 20-02-2018 12:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 9881568)
What is it then, look at that rationally what is really happening in that scenario?

He saw her in a bar
He bought her a drink
They danced
They kissed
There was some sexual contact
They exchanged phone numbers

Sounds very much like you are trying to justify his behaviour and minimise the seriousness of these allegations :think:

joeysteele 20-02-2018 01:40 PM

No one I can see is even attempting to brush anything under the carpet.
He also is not even a Labour MP or even a potential electoral candidate.
This is his personal life and he is wrong as to his behaviour,he has said so,he has stepped down from the charity posts.
While commendable in doing so,his admission of overstepping things with other Women is then fact and he has done wrong.

All this however has nothing to do with his Wife who lost her life by being so brutally murdered as she has.

The only people making issues of this are those casting unnecessary slurs and dragging her onto this.
Someone described her as being portrayed as the second Jesus.
Shocking and in the worst taste.

Then its tried to accuse the left of being inappropriate.
I really despair and get more sickened on here each day that passes now.

Crimson Dynamo 20-02-2018 02:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 9881728)
No one I can see is even attempting to brush anything under the carpet.
He also is not even a Labour MP or even a potential electoral candidate.
This is his personal life and he is wrong as to his behaviour,he has said so,he has stepped down from the charity posts.
While commendable in doing so,his admission of overstepping things with other Women is then fact and he has done wrong.

All this however has nothing to do with his Wife who lost her life by being so brutally murdered as she has.

The only people making issues of this are those casting unnecessary slurs and dragging her onto this.
Someone described her as being portrayed as the second Jesus.
Shocking and in the worst taste.

Then its tried to accuse the left of being inappropriate.
I really despair and get more sickened on here each day that passes now.


No one is forcing you to stay, sounds like you could do with a long break...

Kizzy 20-02-2018 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 9881664)
Sounds very much like you are trying to justify his behaviour and minimise the seriousness of these allegations :think:

Nope I'm explaining another way to look at some very inventive journalism, please don't accuse me of anything MTVN.

Kizzy 20-02-2018 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 9881728)
No one I can see is even attempting to brush anything under the carpet.
He also is not even a Labour MP or even a potential electoral candidate.
This is his personal life and he is wrong as to his behaviour,he has said so,he has stepped down from the charity posts.
While commendable in doing so,his admission of overstepping things with other Women is then fact and he has done wrong.

All this however has nothing to do with his Wife who lost her life by being so brutally murdered as she has.

The only people making issues of this are those casting unnecessary slurs and dragging her onto this.
Someone described her as being portrayed as the second Jesus.
Shocking and in the worst taste.

Then its tried to accuse the left of being inappropriate.
I really despair and get more sickened on here each day that passes now.

Ah I'm ignoring the pitchfork waving now, it's shocking isn't it one unsubstantiated accusation has effectively brought down 2 charities and further decimated a family already reeling, nice job gutter press.

What's in todays news?...Damian ( I haven't done anything wrong!) Green still in denial following an inquiry by the propriety and ethics team :/
Double standards.

joeysteele 20-02-2018 03:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 9881751)
No one is forcing you to stay, sounds like you could do with a long break...

I'm well aware 'no one' is forcing me to stay on here.

However and greatly thankfully I don't need nor want, any sarcastic or otherwise advice from 'you' whatsoever.

Crimson Dynamo 20-02-2018 03:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 9881791)
I'm well aware 'no one' is forcing me to stay on here.

However and greatly thankfully I don't need nor want, any sarcastic or otherwise advice from 'you' whatsoever.

No need to snap

GoldHeart 20-02-2018 03:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 9881755)
Nope I'm explaining another way to look at some very inventive journalism, please don't accuse me of anything MTVN.

Okay Kizzy to play devils advocate ,we all know men can be in a tricky situation if they get flirtatious with women they fancy . A woman won't face the same repercussions if a man isn't interested in them.

But Brendan has admitted he overstepped the line and clearly he harassed some women, who he wasn't even dating and he clearly didn't take no for an answer and kept pestering .

Kizzy 20-02-2018 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 9881812)
Okay Kizzy to play devils advocate ,we all know men can be in a tricky situation if they get flirtatious with women they fancy . A woman won't face the same repercussions if a man isn't interested in them.

But Brendan has admitted he overstepped the line and clearly he harassed some women, who he wasn't even dating and he clearly didn't take no for an answer and kept pestering .

Not true at all in any organisation there is the same procedure in relation to equality and diversity as men :/

We don't know what happened, as there was no inquiry.. You've just cobbled that together from bits reported in the media.
He admitted his behaviour towards one woman was inappropriate that's all, and he stepped down at the time.

He has admitted his inappropriate behaviour publically made a conscious effort to show that it was a past mistake as noted by his friends, family, colleagues and MPs.

I don't know what is required here ... for him to wear a millstone of shame for the next 10yrs?
No! you can't run your dead wifes memorial any longer!!... You're not WORTHY! :/

bots 20-02-2018 04:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 9881728)
No one I can see is even attempting to brush anything under the carpet.
He also is not even a Labour MP or even a potential electoral candidate.
This is his personal life and he is wrong as to his behaviour,he has said so,he has stepped down from the charity posts.
While commendable in doing so,his admission of overstepping things with other Women is then fact and he has done wrong.

All this however has nothing to do with his Wife who lost her life by being so brutally murdered as she has.

The only people making issues of this are those casting unnecessary slurs and dragging her onto this.
Someone described her as being portrayed as the second Jesus.
Shocking and in the worst taste.

Then its tried to accuse the left of being inappropriate.
I really despair and get more sickened on here each day that passes now.

You really don't think Kizzy is making excuses for his behaviour?

I haven't seen a single comment casting aspersions at his wife, other than to say that when she was murdered she didn't suddenly become a saint, which is factually correct unless you know otherwise?

GoldHeart 20-02-2018 04:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 9881832)
Not true at all in any organisation there is the same procedure in relation to equality and diversity as men :/

We don't know what happened, as there was no inquiry.. You've just cobbled that together from bits reported in the media.
He admitted his behaviour towards one woman was inappropriate that's all, and he stepped down at the time.

He has admitted his inappropriate behaviour publically made a conscious effort to show that it was a past mistake as noted by his friends, family, colleagues and MPs.

I don't know what is required here ... for him to wear a millstone of shame for the next 10yrs?
No! you can't run your dead wifes memorial any longer!!... You're not WORTHY! :/

I didn't cobble anything together ,I'm going by what I've read . I know he denied 1 allegation but he said he has gone too far . He's not a serial rapist but it sounds like he's been pestering women .

Nobody is saying he should wear a millstone of shame :facepalm:, why are you defending him so much?. And I didn't say women don't get told off but it's not treated as serious as when a man is accused. And the reason this has come out more publicly is because of the Oxfam scandal .

And you know I'm right as majority of sexual harassment claims are against men, and people forget women sexually harass and overstep the line as well .

Niamh. 20-02-2018 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 9881850)
I didn't cobble anything together ,I'm going by what I've read . I know he denied 1 allegation but he said he has gone too far . He's not a serial rapist but it sounds like he's been pestering women .

Nobody is saying he should wear a millstone of shame :facepalm:, why are you defending him so much?. And I didn't say women don't get told off but it's not treated as serious as when a man is accused. And the reason this has come out more publicly is because of the Oxfam scandal .

And you know I'm right as majority of sexual harassment claims are against men, and people forget women sexually harass and overstep the line as well .

No where near as much as men do though

bots 20-02-2018 04:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9881856)
No where near as much as men do though

ive actually seen some pretty outrageous behaviour from women over the years, it's maybe not done aggressively, but it's there just the same

GoldHeart 20-02-2018 04:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9881856)
No where near as much as men do though

I'm inclined to agree, but just think about something . If a man cried sexual harassment every time a woman touched him without his permission or tried to grab a kiss again without his permission then I think they'd be quite a few allegations .

But men don't complain or if they do it's not treated as sexual harassment. Plus some are embarrassed and just laugh it off .

On a drunken night out women can blame booze for getting frisky with a man who's clearly not interested, a man can't blame booze as he'll still be called a pervert :bored: .

Beso 20-02-2018 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9881856)
No where near as much as men do though

You ever been to wales?


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