See, thats pretty funny and not crude at all...acceptable...

I just want to see the forum thrive, and be a nice warm place.

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30 seconds if that....

Bet you say that to all the boys.:laugh:

lmao :laugh:


but Smithy has more than 30 hours of love for queen Gaga so he only has 30 seconds for others :hehe:

Don't mind an innuendo or two, but I see people all the time sharing graphic details about their sex lives when nobody really asked for it. I just don't get it.

Oh look at people being outed for being a hypocrite and then getting tetchy when they do lol x

Quiet spectator...its banter, between me and two sugars..its how we manage to co exist on the forum...the quoted post by smithy does not prove hypocricy...sorry to deflate you.

You didn't lie

This is a forum about a show which showed Marnie Simpson giving Lewis Bloor a blowjob in the shower so I don't really see the point in going full on Helen Lovejoy over the odd bit of sex talk.

All shown after the watershed.



Your boss thinks theres a small problem...thankfully he cares about the 13 n 14 yr olds.

Disgusting. I HOPE no children saw this, especially the term pussylips.

there are worse and more gross words than pussylips :oh:

Dont get ha started nicky, shes one of the worst.

pussylips... nice word
sound like it could be a flower: my pussylips are opening early in this warm weather...

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So as long as they’re poor innuendoes it’s ok?

Hmm

To be honest though Parmy, that example Smithy posted and you called banter is still not what I would be wanting my 13 year old to be seeing either. The dick stuff is all mainly banter too - I find pussylips to be pretty degrading to women - sounds awful really. I'm not trying to be difficult here but what I am saying is that your idea of banter is not always the same same as someone elses. If we are going to have that rule - then all sexual banter of ANY kind would have to be banned

or more into a 18+ thread, i could make that thread now if you guys want that

There is an 18+ group Nicky but don't think it gets used much. you can't really have an 18+ thread as there is no way that you could restrict that to 18+ on the main boards.

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I apologise for any offence..im disgusted with myself.

But yes, all sexual banter should be banned on this forum imo.

really???? that shocks me

we all make mistakes sometimes, maybe you've seen the light now but you just wanted to defend your own word ''pussylips'' against better knowing


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Chad Johnson Gate desensitized me from any and all sex talk. My eyes still burn.

Yeah "pussylips" is a pretty disgusting term, it made me wince when I read it

Just another slang term for a body part..
Like cock, dick, diq...etc etc.....

Perhaps it only becomes crude and offencive when its female genitalania.:shrug:

Hey where's my apology like Annie got, member bias tbh :hee:

Mmmm I don't know. Maybe its offensive when its a term you don't use yourself. Where I am from dick is as common a word as hello it seems so maybe its about what you are desensitized to I think :shrug:

genitalia, not genitalania, parm

I'm surprised pussylips causes such strong reactions. But women know best what's acceptable in this case. Are there any acceptable terms then? Vagina of course. A vag?
Men are generally not fussed about how their bits are called.
Edit: as long as it's not, ehm, diminishing.

That's the thing though - just because I find it horrible doesn't mean every woman will - I have a male friend who absolutely abhors the word prick but most people think that's tame. Its all about what offensive to you and its not always offensive to anyone else.

Its all about perception and that's why if a rule were to come in about sexual banter it has to be blanket or else someone will always be offended

Or kept in the private chat threads

Meh. I hate all the smutty talk tbh. The threads filled with innuendos just as much as the more graphic chat/language. And the 18+_ social group is just vile. But its like a trainwreck tbh, I cannot look away but I hate it :laugh:

You sound like only female slang names offend you...i apologise if you are offended by dick as well.

Why does my apology have conditions attached?, not much of an apology then at all :nono:

Can someone add me to the social group please

Are you over 18? :suspect:

I'm 23 love

no you’re not

Oh, I assumed anyone could add members...it seems its only shaun who can :laugh:

Nothing wrong with a little bit of dick

I've witnessed many times you've used words such as 'gilf'

So don't try to get on your high horse, know yourself before you come for us