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Vanessa 04-08-2024 04:31 PM

I wish I could go back and change it.

Kate! 04-08-2024 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11488749)
I wish I could go back and change it.

Me too love. :love: I'm so sorry.

Ninastar 04-08-2024 04:36 PM

We Stan a romantic make up

Vanessa 04-08-2024 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11488750)
Me too love. :love: I'm so sorry.

I know I can be very stubborn. I wish I wasn't like that. I can't apologize enough.
It could have been avoided if I wasn't so stubborn.

Kate! 04-08-2024 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11488759)
I know I can be very stubborn. I wish I wasn't like that. I can't apologize enough.
It could have been avoided if I wasn't so stubborn.

Please reply to my pm, if you got it??

Vanessa 04-08-2024 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11488763)
Please reply to my pm, if you got it??

I have sent you one few days ago.
But I'm not good with words.
I'll check.

Vanessa 04-08-2024 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11488763)
Please reply to my pm, if you got it??

I haven't got it.

Kate! 04-08-2024 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11488767)
I haven't got it.

Ahh, hang on I'll resend it....

Vanessa 04-08-2024 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11488769)
Ahh, hang on I'll resend it....

I only got Swan pms?

Kate! 04-08-2024 04:42 PM

I've forwarded it to you....

Edd 04-08-2024 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11488633)
A bit but not to the extent that I was before. I'm pathetic.

https://www.gamstop.co.uk/

Vanessa 04-08-2024 04:44 PM

Not feeling the best myself. So many things one after the other. And not the riots. Life just gets harder and harder.

Edd 04-08-2024 04:47 PM

When we have a gambling win, the brain releases a feel-good chemical called dopamine. But when we gamble often, our brain gets used to the dopamine, which makes that winning feeling difficult to achieve. Consequently, we may have to gamble more and more to feel the same level of pleasure.

Vanessa 04-08-2024 04:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Edd (Post 11488776)
When we have a gambling win, the brain releases a feel-good chemical called dopamine. But when we gamble often, our brain gets used to the dopamine, which makes that winning feeling difficult to achieve. Consequently, we may have to gamble more and more to feel the same level of pleasure.

Yes. That makes sense.

Edd 04-08-2024 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11488779)
Yes. That makes sense.

Thank you the op is not alone as this effort many people.

One tip I would give to the op is take most of the money out of your bank account and keep it with you this will takeaway the means to gamble online of csuse if you need money in your account to pay for things you can use a post off free of charge to deposit.

Ninastar 04-08-2024 04:54 PM

Edd… boi?

Edd 04-08-2024 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Ninastar (Post 11488790)
Edd… boi?

Can I help you?

Vanessa 04-08-2024 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11488651)
Look on hotel booking sites, a lot don't need payment till you arrive. They take debit card details but no payment till you get there

I want to go, but don't know if it's safe. The riots looks bad :shocked:

Vanessa 04-08-2024 05:02 PM

Addiction isn't easy to get out of.
You're going to have relapses. But never give up.

Mystic Mock 05-08-2024 03:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11488623)
Its not a case of nobody caring .. they were probably, like myself, thinking what on earth to write ..


Thankfully Glenn to his credit ( of all people) nailed it !


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro

This.

I'm absolutely terrible at this sort of thing.

Me and emotions, I try to help if I can, but I am useless on Mental Health discussions.:laugh:

Well done to Glenn though for finding a possible solution for Kate.

Mystic Mock 05-08-2024 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11488661)
Shocking huh? It’s almost like I’m not the complete arsehole everyone makes me out to be

I don't think that you're an arsehole Glenn.

I don't always agree with everything that you say, but I believe that you're a decent guy.

LaLaLand 05-08-2024 04:43 AM

So, so sorry to see you're struggling Kate.

I too struggle with depression and poor MH and at the moment it's horrendous (money worries here too also) but I'm hoping for better days if I just plod on.

Always here to chat. Hope things improve for you very soon. xx

Kate! 05-08-2024 04:44 AM

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Originally Posted by LaLaLand (Post 11489162)
So, so sorry to see you're struggling Kate.

I too struggle with depression and poor MH and at the moment it's horrendous (money worries here too also) but I'm hoping for better days if I just plod on.

Always here to chat. Hope things improve for you very soon. xx

Thank you Jonnii. How lovely of you. I'm feeling a bit more positive this morning xx

Ammi 05-08-2024 04:50 AM

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Originally Posted by LaLaLand (Post 11489162)
So, so sorry to see you're struggling Kate.

I too struggle with depression and poor MH and at the moment it's horrendous (money worries here too also) but I'm hoping for better days if I just plod on.

Always here to chat. Hope things improve for you very soon. xx

….ahhh, I’m so sorry to hear that, LaLaLand…I know that you’ve had some exceptional life achievements in recent years as well as you’ve spoken about your weight loss …so try to hold on to those great things as well…and your talent is just…well, incredible and I hope that helps to create a balance also when you can absorb in that creativeness…you also spoke about some of your work being exhibited…?…

…:hug:…

Ammi 05-08-2024 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11489163)
Thank you Jonnii. How lovely of you. I'm feeling a bit more positive this morning xx

…:love:…

Mystic Mock 05-08-2024 05:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11489163)
Thank you Jonnii. How lovely of you. I'm feeling a bit more positive this morning xx

That's good to hear.:)

It's good to vent out your problems sometimes.

AnnieK 05-08-2024 05:20 AM

Glad you are feeling a little better :love:

Mystic Mock 05-08-2024 05:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LaLaLand (Post 11489162)
So, so sorry to see you're struggling Kate.

I too struggle with depression and poor MH and at the moment it's horrendous (money worries here too also) but I'm hoping for better days if I just plod on.

Always here to chat. Hope things improve for you very soon. xx

I hope that things improve for both of you tbh.

Vanessa 05-08-2024 05:23 AM

Yes I think a lot of people are struggling with mental health these days.
And what's going on these days doesn't help at all. The worrying is never ending.

Cherie 05-08-2024 07:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11488795)
I want to go, but don't know if it's safe. The riots looks bad :shocked:

in Blackpool?

Vanessa 05-08-2024 07:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11489212)
in Blackpool?

Yes. It's a bit worrying.

Kate! 05-08-2024 07:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11489213)
Yes. It's a bit worrying.

Vanessa, we are going though, we will be very careful.

Vanessa 05-08-2024 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11489234)
Vanessa, we are going though, we will be very careful.

Yes.

_Seth 05-08-2024 08:15 AM

https://www.moneyhelper.org.uk/en

They might have some resources or advice you haven't thought of.

rusticgal 05-08-2024 08:19 AM

There are a lot of Self help groups out there Kate...you interact well with people so I think these groups will be good for you to bounce off people. There is so much of this at the moment regarding depression and Mental Health. We have been to hell and back these last 3 months with my son...but he has finally got the help he needs and it has turned his life around.

Cherie 05-08-2024 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11489248)
There are a lot of Self help groups out there Kate...you interact well with people so I think these groups will be good for you to bounce off people. There is so much of this at the moment regarding depression and Mental Health. We have been to hell and back these last 3 months with my son...but he has finally got the help he needs and it has turned his life around.

So sorry to hear that Rusti, young people seem to have a lot of issues with mental health, too much exposure to crap on line I think

rusticgal 05-08-2024 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11489253)
So sorry to hear that Rusti, young people seem to have a lot of issues with mental health, too much exposure to crap on line I think


No, it was more to do with work pressures..running his own business...lack of sleep and anxiety.
He isnt young young...but I can only imagine the sort of MH issues bought on by Social Media...its just destroying a generation.

:hug:

Cherie 05-08-2024 08:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11489265)
No, it was more to do with work pressures..running his own business...lack of sleep and anxiety.
He isnt young young...but I can only imagine the sort of MH issues bought on by Social Media...its just destroying a generation.

:hug:

so glad he is in a better place now Rusti x

Kate! 05-08-2024 08:30 AM

Thanks Seth and Rusti, and also Cherie for your comments. You're all so great.

Vanessa 05-08-2024 08:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11489248)
There are a lot of Self help groups out there Kate...you interact well with people so I think these groups will be good for you to bounce off people. There is so much of this at the moment regarding depression and Mental Health. We have been to hell and back these last 3 months with my son...but he has finally got the help he needs and it has turned his life around.

This sounds good.


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