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Cherie 29-08-2024 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499730)
Peek at the spoiler above Cherie and tell me the picture is lying.

I would say the majority in the pic are under 55 wouldn't you?

Niamh. 29-08-2024 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11499729)
Not sure about that maybe sitting at home, but the audience are generally young men and women

They always looked mixed to me. Anecdotally, in real life the only people I know who are into watching the Darts are middle aged/older

user104658 29-08-2024 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11499731)
Actually since they were binned in 2018 the sport has been growing, so no one knows why they have suddenly decided to do this

We do know.

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someone somewhere thought it was a good idea 6 years later
An older man with his hand down his pants.

Let's stop pretending to know why. If you're defending the sport surely "Ugh we got past this and the sport was growing in legitimacy, why have they gone back to this outdated trash" should be the focus, not "Ahh it's fine it's just a bit of casual letchery for the working man, leave them to it".

user104658 29-08-2024 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11499732)
I would say the majority in the pic are under 55 wouldn't you?

Parmy said under 25 Cherie and you said it's a mixed audience of "generally young men and women"!

Trying to find women of any age or a man under about 35-40 in that photo - a real photo, of a real, recent world darts championship - is like playing "Where's Wally?" :joker:. Actually quite fun.

Captioning that photo "a mixed audience of generally young men and women" would frankly be a flat out and blatant lie.

MTVN 29-08-2024 11:43 AM

There is a big and growing youth scene in darts. Most of the top pros are pretty young now. That said the fact it generally takes place in pubs at grassroots level does skew things towards an older demographic

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11499715)
My issue with it in sports in particular is women in sport are already fighting to be taken seriously in sport as it is so i think having women as decorations around the men in a sport makes it even harder for the female competitors to be taken seriously. I'm not going to stop watching the sports because of it (not talking specifically about Darts here as I rarely watch Darts but I suppose UFC/MMA ring girls comes to mind) but I don't love it.

That's a fair point but ironically - given it's being made out to be a bastion of sexism - darts is one of the only sports where women have broken into the men's game plus the women's game gets a lot of exposure and coverage in its own right

user104658 29-08-2024 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 11499736)
There is a big and growing youth scene in darts. Most of the top pros are pretty young now. That said the fact it generally takes place in pubs at grassroots level does skew things towards an older demographic

All the more reason to not slam it into reverse?


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That's a fair point but ironically - given it's being made out to be a bastion of sexism - darts is one of the only sports where women have broken into the men's game plus the women's game gets a lot of exposure and coverage in its own right
Again this is a reason to push back against a return to the gross spectacle of "girls to look at for to soothe our eyes while the blokes walk on" rather than defending it to the hilt. It's being made out to be sexist in this example because there's a clear, current example of an official part of the sport making a conscious decision to return to a sexist practice that they'd left behind.

To be fair I initially thought it was the whole sport as that's how it was presented in the OP. It turns out to "just" be the seniors which is somehow similtaneously not quite as bad, whilst also being substantially more grim.

Niamh. 29-08-2024 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 11499736)
There is a big and growing youth scene in darts. Most of the top pros are pretty young now. That said the fact it generally takes place in pubs at grassroots level does skew things towards an older demographic



That's a fair point but ironically - given it's being made out to be a bastion of sexism - darts is one of the only sports where women have broken into the men's game plus the women's game gets a lot of exposure and coverage in its own right

Sure and tbf to the UFC they mix their cards so women and men perform on the same shows and it is one where men do seem to rate the female fighters and enjoy the fights (not all men of course, you're always going to have the ones who just don't want women doing anything but walking around in short shorts with Round 1 on a card) but I just don't like it, it's kind of jarring to have the women fighting and at the end of a round other women coming on in skimpy clothes as well so basically sending, imo two conflicting messages to the male viewers and to any women watching (especially younger women and girls)

Beso 29-08-2024 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499692)
I think it's only you and Parmy on this forum who still think "being gay" is some sort of insult Alf. I'll reiterate as I always do; I'm not gay, I've very happily been in a long-term heterosexual relationship for decades, but I don't find "getting called gay :hehe: " offensive. You're like a wee boy in shorts in the school playground 30 years ago with these insults. And apparently it's me stuck in the 80's :joker:.

Erm, you are using a lump of meat to try and insult people.


Isnt that childish? I also dont use the word gay as an insult either, so you can apologise for that.

Beso 29-08-2024 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499726)
I'll just ask what I asked above;

1) Why are they there?

2) Who is it for?

If you can reasonably answer those two things in a way that is at all reaslistic, and doesn't boil down to "to be nice to look at", "for men" then that's the start of a conversation. Until then you're just shouting "no you're wrong!". If I'm wrong give me an alternative, realistic, explanation.



Its pretty evident that they are there to advertise the sponsor, the william hill banner is a bit of a giveaway..


Didnt you used to keep there money safe for them?

Beso 29-08-2024 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499730)
Peek at the spoiler above Cherie and tell me the picture is lying.

A picture of a packed house, taken when there was no walk on girls..oh, how can we fill this full stadium even fuller...err we cant, it's full...aww, I was hoping to bring the walk on girls back to over fill the stadium..dont be silly, it's full already...with people still young and vibrant.

Bring the girls back though, they were good for advertisement..

Ok.thats what we will do then...bring them back fir the advertisement, our stadiums are full to the brim, so we do t need them for the dirty old men from the 80s to come back..

What about the ones watching on tv pulling their blinkers though...dont be silly, nobody is going to be sitting with their cocks out in front if the wife and grandkids peter.

Beso 29-08-2024 12:21 PM

Hers me thinking the YES, YES, YEAHHHHH. was the crowd appreciating a 180, when on fact it's just the sounds if many old men coming in unison.

thesheriff443 29-08-2024 12:21 PM

Straight men look at women
Straight men look at beautiful women for longer or take several looks
I’m sorry but I’m not going to look at the floor if I see a beautiful woman

Beso 29-08-2024 12:46 PM

The seniors darts isnt even on tv, so there are no dirty old gammony perverts watching. @Quantum Boy.

Cherie 29-08-2024 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11499733)
They always looked mixed to me. Anecdotally, in real life the only people I know who are into watching the Darts are middle aged/older

My younger son loves the darts :laugh:

Niamh. 29-08-2024 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11499782)
My younger son loves the darts :laugh:

Yeah I'm aware that was anecdotal :laugh: the only one in my house into darts is Gav, his brother and sister watch too

Ammi 29-08-2024 01:52 PM

…surely it isn’t about the sport of Darts itself or the audience/fans because as has been seen since 2018, the sport has thrived without the addition of the walk on girls….its about whether it’s a fine or regressive thing for the girls to walk back on after 6 years….im a bit conflicted on this atm because I can see feminism should give females that right to decide if they want to earn an income in that way….anyway, while I’m pondering more… (…I think this is quite a good article and worthy of a read…)….

Is Banning Walk-On Girls From Darts An Own-Goal For Feminism?…

The Professional Darts Corporation has decided that walk-on girls are bad and, effective immediately, they’ve cancelled the whole idea. Darts players will just have to walk onto the stage in their big shirts all on their own. “We regularly review all aspects of our events and this move has been made following feedback from our host broadcasters,” said a PDC spokesperson. The Women’s Sport Trust applauded the move. “Motor Racing, Boxing and Cycling... your move,” they said.

It sounds good: the mute girls standing there in pretty dresses are a relic from our sexist past that should be deleted from our lives, like powerful movie producers wanking into pot plants, like actresses trading bleak sex for roles. But maybe not. In an interview with BBC Radio 5 Live soon after the announcement, PDC walk-on girl and model Charlotte Wood said that the darts made up 60% of her income. “I have chosen to do this job. I go to work. I put on a nice dress. I escort darts players to the stage. I smile and that is it.” She doesn’t see what the problem is. It’s an easy gig. She chose to do it.

It’s not inherently anti-feminist to choose to do a job that uses your body and your looks. Some of the most outspoken feminists I know stripped in bars because the money was better than working behind one. They used the cash they earned with their body to fund their art, their degree, to pay the rent for whatever cheap dive they were living in so they could buy time to do the thing they wanted to do. They exploited a system set up to exploit them. They chose to.

Semi-naked models parade on catwalks in front of fashion week crowds every year
Removing a choice, enforcing a lack of one as a PR move: how is that good, and how is that feminist? It’s patronising and controlling to take away the option for the sake of the PDC looking virtuous in the eyes of their broadcasters. The need to abolish this kind of work also seems like classist snobbery about girls and darts in general. It could be argued that working class women, regardless of their personal politics, are losing out on a source of income they rely on just to satisfy another class of women’s idea of feminism and the context in which they believe the female body should be viewed. Twitter rejoiced when ZOO magazine closed, but no one said anything about nude black and white spreads in glossier magazines. Semi-naked models parade on catwalks in front of fashion week crowds, to a huge hive of male photographers, every year. Barely covered nipples in that context is risqué — it’s art — just like the semi-naked women in Vogue. Contextually these images are entirely different, but they’re all paid gigs to models.


Pointlessly escorting some large dad onto a stage may be kind of gross, but so many of the jobs we have when we’re young and hot are worse. Having a job where you’re not explicitly objectified does not protect you from being objectified. From my own file of minor grievances: I had my apron strings yanked while taking food orders from a table of middle-aged businessmen in a nice restaurant in Mayfair. I had my arse slapped when I stepped out from behind the bar to collect the empty pints. I had a man literally breathe down my neck as I searched the DVD overstock for the sad cheap porno he requested and claimed he couldn’t find, but was right there on top of the pile. And I got paid far less for it than the walk-on girl.

At least for her there’s a barrier: her job is televised. It’s not a President’s Club situation, it’s not a private room filled with rich men who think they own the girls like they own everything else. I’ve been to countless boxing matches and — though stories will always vary from decade to decade and room to room — in my experience in those halls filled with physically overpowering men, those ring-girls are given a wide berth. At most, they’re helped through the ropes by giant security guards. They are distant, untouchable attractions.

There is never a feminist consensus on these things because women are people, complete with all our invisible clashing hierarchies of context and personal prejudices. Which is why we’ll continue to argue about where the lines are, to blunt our knives on benign bullshit like walk-on girls at a darts show. But loathe though I am to side with the kind of dudes who sign this petition to reinstate the girls and type “it’s PC gone mad” in the comments box, I think, in the world of feminism, this is an own goal.

Ammi 29-08-2024 01:56 PM

…one of the things of the article that I completely agree with is that female don’t have to ‘be objectified to be objectified…’…they’re objectified in so many different ways, as we know…does that make it right, no…but it’s still a truth, I think….we just have to look at people like Nigella Lawson preparing for her Christmas lunch and we know for many watching, it’s not about the cooking…but these walk on girls have turned it around to make an earnings they want to make and because they have the equal freedom to do so…

user104658 29-08-2024 02:13 PM

Exploitation with consent is not freedom Ammi, but I'm really not going to go into an entire semester's worth of political philosophy to explain that reasoning. You either understand it at a root level or you don't, and the groundwork needed to understand why it's the case is not for TiBB.

This is just the porn/onlyfans argument all over again so there's probably multiple threads out there where it's been gone over a lot more.

Ammi 29-08-2024 02:18 PM

…ok, well…I’m not going to get completely focused on the watching audience so that the girls themselves and their freedoms to choose are taken from them because that really is just a different step backwards, I would say…anyway, I’m packing to move house tomorrow right now so I don’t have time for ‘all over again’ either…we’re definitely in agreement in that…

user104658 29-08-2024 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Beso (Post 11499743)
Its pretty evident that they are there to advertise the sponsor, the william hill banner is a bit of a giveaway..


Didnt you used to keep there money safe for them?

Indeed though I'll not confirm which of the bastards I worked for ;) however it does mean that I'm well aware of the following;

1) Gambling by nature if an exploitation of the "customers".

2) The industry as a whole treats staff as numbers-in-seats not as people and pays as little as possible.

3) They openly and blatantly thrive on the exploitation and misuse of horses and greyhounds.


So it's not a particular surprise thet they'll happily exploit women for profit.

Is the argument "it's OK because some big companies are making lots of money off it"? Is that the justification now? That might be even flimsier than it being for the ogling sleazeballs.

Beso 29-08-2024 02:23 PM

Sorry charlotte, you will have to starve because SB fi ds you too sexy and thinks everyone else who does wont be able to control themselves the way he does..

user104658 29-08-2024 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11499810)
…ok, well…I’m not going to get completely focused on the watching audience so that the girls themselves and their freedoms to choose are taken from them because that really is just a different step backwards, I would say…anyway, I’m packing to move house tomorrow right now so I don’t have time for ‘all over again’ either…we’re definitely in agreement in that…

Andrew Tate would agree with you Ammi. The ladies in his "employment" are free to choose to be pimped out. They have a commodity, after all, it's in high demand, why shouldn't they sell it?

https://i.imgur.com/FCEQtrF.jpeg

user104658 29-08-2024 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Beso (Post 11499812)
Sorry charlotte, you will have to starve because SB fi ds you too sexy and thinks everyone else who does wont be able to control themselves the way he does..

Absolutely nothing to do with people being able to control themselves or otherwise.

1) Why are they there.

2) Who is it for.

You still haven't answered these very simple questions Parmy, I wonder why not?

Beso 29-08-2024 02:49 PM

I did answer..I said they are there for the sponsors, but after reading ammis post, they are also there for themselves.

user104658 29-08-2024 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Beso (Post 11499827)
I did answer..I said they are there for the sponsors, but after reading ammis post, they are also there for themselves.

How does them being there benefit the sponsors?

bots 29-08-2024 02:51 PM

will the women be dressed up like they are working at hooters or will they be dressed like traditional presenters

Beso 29-08-2024 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499828)
How does them being there benefit the sponsors?

Let me ask you a question first.

Do you find the ladies sexy?

jet 29-08-2024 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499686)
See above Cherie - it's not "stereotyping" to point out that the people who want and are OK with this are slimy old bastards who should be on a leash at all times around women and children. It's not about "everyone".

That's just ludicrous. Men are men. Men of all ages appreciate a beautiful woman; appreciate the female form. It’s how we are made.
It doesn’t mean we get a hard on and drool and want to grab our cocks when an attractive woman appears onstage at a sports event. …..and do you need to be reminded that women are fully our equals (if not better, in my experience) and have a choice as to what they do without a big hot under the collar male thumping his chest on their behalf.
You doth protest too much.

Ammi 29-08-2024 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499813)
Andrew Tate would agree with you Ammi. The ladies in his "employment" are free to choose to be pimped out. They have a commodity, after all, it's in high demand, why shouldn't they sell it?

https://i.imgur.com/FCEQtrF.jpeg

…that’s one heck of a joining of dots to females choosing to be Darts Walk on Girls to being a gateway leading to Andrew Tate and being ‘pimped out’….so I’m just going to leave you to make that link, as that’s what you feel…as I said earlier, I’m distracted with packing atm so haven’t given this topic complete thought to have formed a definite opinion…it was really the article I wanted to post because I found that it prompted me to think more deeply about it all….I will say, though…to be really blunt…with your last comment to me…?…there are some days when it’s sadly impossible to have a grown up conversation with you…

Beso 29-08-2024 03:32 PM

Mustn't answer questions!

Beso 29-08-2024 05:12 PM

Do we have the demographic age ranges of people who commit the really bad perverted stuff like rapes and indecent assaults..cause I'm sure as **** it ain't the old beer swilling gammony fat old men over 55 committing those perversion.

user104658 29-08-2024 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by jet (Post 11499832)
That's just ludicrous. Men are men. Men of all ages appreciate a beautiful woman; appreciate the female form. It’s how we are made.
It doesn’t mean we get a hard on and drool and want to grab our cocks when an attractive woman appears onstage at a sports event. …..and do you need to be reminded that women are fully our equals (if not better, in my experience) and have a choice as to what they do without a big hot under the collar male thumping his chest on their behalf.
You doth protest too much.

Oh yes it's definitely me protesting too much :joker:

And to answer Parmy: no, I do not find it "sexy" when girls half my age are paraded around to be gawped at by dirty old blokes who think it's "normal". Are you really struggling to get your head around that?

user104658 29-08-2024 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11499833)
…that’s one heck of a joining of dots to females choosing to be Darts Walk on Girls to being a gateway leading to Andrew Tate and being ‘pimped out’….

No it isn't, it's an extreme version of EXACTLY the same mindset, and a normalisation of that mindset that excuses misogyny "lite". There is precisely nothing "empowering" about anyone selling this, in either form.

bots 29-08-2024 10:18 PM

In fairness to QB, he has consistently held that view for years, so, agree with him or not, it's not just applicable to Dart assistants

Mystic Mock 29-08-2024 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499685)
The objectification of women (and if you do want to extend it to Hollywood, men as well) is insidious and damaging and saying that "the ones who don't want to do it can avoid it" is reductive, lacks insight and ultimately IMO comes purely from a place of defensiveness.

I'm stereotyping Darts because instead of leaning into being seen as a more professional/respectable sport, they're choosing to go back to the old ways of trotting half-naked ladies out to "pretty up" their events. Is the sport not engaging enough to stand on its own merits? People are arguing hard that it is. Without then questioning why they're doing this :idc:.

And then it transpired that it's only for the seniors :joker: :skull:. Slimey as ****, I have literally no issue at all with saying that 50+ year old men who want 20 year olds with their boobs out to make the dart more entertaining to them are gross, perving trogs. Straight in the bin. The ones who say "Err we don't need that in our sport thanks, gross" can stay. Where's the stereotyping?

No offense intended here QB, but the BIB I normally tend to hear from two groups of people.

1. Evangelicals who use the "think of the children" card and "traditional family values."

And 2. Extreme feminists who hate women being sexual or to be "pleasing" to men full stop.

And personally I don't believe that Darts needs it in a commercial sense or entertainment sense, but if some women are wanting to do the gig, and the Sport also wants them to be apart of the process then I don't see the issue.:shrug:

And again if 50+ year old men are into women in their twenties who cares? They're adults by that point.

Because are we saying that for example that Cheryl Cole's a creep for being into Liam Payne, when there was a 10 year age gap between them? Plus she knew him when he was a kid on The X Factor.

Mystic Mock 29-08-2024 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499686)
See above Cherie - it's not "stereotyping" to point out that the people who want and are OK with this are slimy old bastards who should be on a leash at all times around women and children. It's not about "everyone".

If Darts doesn't want to be seen as a sport for letching nonces, they probably shouldn't use "young women's boobies" as an advertising boon for their seniors tournaments. JFC.

Fancying women in their twenties doesn't make these older men Nonces.:laugh:

Mystic Mock 29-08-2024 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499709)
There' nothing wrong with the dresses. There's something fundamentally wrong with needlessly exhibiting young women in a sport aimed at middle-aged men. This should not be a hard concept to grasp but I won't pretend why some people "don't get it". Too busy with their hand in their pants watching women young enough to be their daughters drag out the old Darts Farts for literally no reason whatsoever that anyone can give other than that "they're nice for men to look at".

https://i.imgur.com/YovCH3f.jpeg

Can we please stop pretending to not know what we're looking at here? Come on now :joker:. Don't be so f'ing silly.

That picture.:joker:

Mystic Mock 29-08-2024 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Beso (Post 11499744)
A picture of a packed house, taken when there was no walk on girls..oh, how can we fill this full stadium even fuller...err we cant, it's full...aww, I was hoping to bring the walk on girls back to over fill the stadium..dont be silly, it's full already...with people still young and vibrant.

Bring the girls back though, they were good for advertisement..

Ok.thats what we will do then...bring them back fir the advertisement, our stadiums are full to the brim, so we do t need them for the dirty old men from the 80s to come back..

What about the ones watching on tv pulling their blinkers though...dont be silly, nobody is going to be sitting with their cocks out in front if the wife and grandkids peter.

Tbf, the girls aren't there to sponsor William Hill.:laugh:

Mystic Mock 30-08-2024 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11499792)
…one of the things of the article that I completely agree with is that female don’t have to ‘be objectified to be objectified…’…they’re objectified in so many different ways, as we know…does that make it right, no…but it’s still a truth, I think….we just have to look at people like Nigella Lawson preparing for her Christmas lunch and we know for many watching, it’s not about the cooking…but these walk on girls have turned it around to make an earnings they want to make and because they have the equal freedom to do so…

God some men do love to perv over Nigella Lawson.:laugh:

Personally I don't see the issue with watching stuff where you find someone attractive.

Didn't Shows like Buffy and Smallville thrive off of audiences finding the Actors attractive? Depending on age groups there would be different strokes for different folks on those two Shows.

I always in particular remember Smallville loving shirtless Oliver scenes, is that objectification and regressive? Personally I just see it as good marketing from CW.

And tbh it's not a healthy society to tell people that finding anyone on TV attractive is "objectification" or these people on TV being hired for their looks is "regressive" and "sexist."

Having a basic level of people (men and women) being sexualized (whilst the person in question is consenting to it) is okay, and it is normal for people to find other people attractive or sexy, there should be no shaming on that front (as long as they're adults of course.)

And it's just a slippery slope what some people are kind of wanting to have happen in every industry, because what's next? Should women not wear dresses anymore? Should women not be allowed to wear makeup anymore? Are women not allowed to work anymore? Whatever argument that people want to make and whether you like or don't like a certain profession, if it's not hurting anyone then why should it bother anyone in a negative way?

Mystic Mock 30-08-2024 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Quantum Boy (Post 11499828)
How does them being there benefit the sponsors?

I will agree with you on this part.


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