And then someone I hate (a boy) has to chace me around and enoy me.

PS Its the fact thery are talking about sex.

What's so bad about sex Posted? They should be able to take about it freely if they wish to do so.

I dont sware and Im not a 'It' boy and stuff...

Are you scared of sex or talking about it?

Well if you don't like it then that is fine. I just feel it is healthy to talk about stuff.
Just as a mater of interest I looked round for articles on the benefits of masturbation and I was shocked by some of the beliefs held by some young people as they had never talked about it in an open way. Just hearsay from mates. This can't be right in this modern age.

Talking about it (I cant even say the scientific words)

Erotophobia, or Genophobia don't no which one.:spin2:

Erotophobia is a term used by psychologists to describe sexuality on a personality scale. Erotophobes score high on one end of the scale that is characterized by expressions of guilt and fear about sex. Erotophobes are less likely to talk about sex, have more negative reactions to sexually explicit material, and have sex less frequently and with fewer partners over time. In contrast, erotophiles score high on the opposite end of the scale, erotophilia, which is characterized by expressing less guilt about sex, talking about sex more openly, and holding more positive attitudes toward sexually explicit material.

Genophobia (also known as coitophobia[1]) is the fear of sexual intercourse. This phobia may be caused by actual sexual trauma (such as rape or molestation especially at an early age) or by witnessing a traumatic sexual act in real life or in the media.[2] Some fear their own sexual drives threaten a sense of self-control. Others may simply find the idea of sexual activity to be horrifying or disgusting and shun it.

Not all instances of genophobia are irrational. Some women may have once experienced vaginismus which results in pain during sex. Even after treatment some demonstrate a reluctance to engage in intercourse.

Lol - All i looked up "was fear of talking about sex" and it came out with those two.

So Ive got that then.

*Notes it down*

Theres nothing bad about you not wanting to talk about, probably quite a lot of people your age "are in the same boat as you"

"Not all instances of genophobia are irrational."

That part made me laugh...
They all sound like fairly decent reasons [besides the "thinking it's disgusting" one.] yet it lists them all as irrational.

As though someone would be odd to be put off sex, after being raped.
Stupid thing for them to say.

LMFAO :laugh2::laugh2::laugh2::laugh2::laugh2::laugh2::j oker::joker::joker::joker::joker::joker::laugh::la ugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:

Sorry if I offended anyone but like I said before at the ned of the day I put it in the "serious topics" section and nobody force you to look at this thread..

[b]REMEMBER THE RULES

It is against the rules to insult other members and doing so can result in a warning being issued.

Thread edited and reopened.

Red

I hope that was not directed towards me because I just apologised for something that I shouldn't of had to sorry for in the first place!

I thought this was quite an interesting subject. It would be good to talk about it sensibly. You never know, somebody might actually learn something from it.

Maybe you ? :bigsmile:

You cannot teach an old dog new tricks. Lol. Sorry, I said serious. I think the older you get, the less you get hung up on these things.

Yeah it's kinda obvious you have more experience when you get older. But it seems that today people get upset when we talk about these things. I mean nobody asks details, it's a general discussion and these ones generally show who are the morons and the bigots lol

I see no real reason why this topic should not be debated. Its content is not of a sexual nature, it is asking a simple question that people can debate. People are discussing without going into details etc..

Keep it clean and we will keep it open!

Yeah I do agree, nobody asks details or try to invade your privacy.
And nobody expects anyone to tell details about your sexual life you know - it's a general discussion that nowadays people find hard to deal with.

I suppose it is a relatively private thing, so some people may find it hard to discuss.

Of course but as it's a general discussion, people ask an opinion, not to tell your sexual life. I hate to say what I do in private but I don't mind telling my opinion about that, and not giving any details.

But as you said, it's completely understandable anyway.

Interesting article:

Men could reduce their risk of developing prostate cancer through regular masturbation, researchers suggest.
They say cancer-causing chemicals could build up in the prostate if men do not ejaculate regularly.

And they say sexual intercourse may not have the same protective effect because of the possibility of contracting a sexually transmitted infection, which could increase men's cancer risk.

Australian researchers questioned over 1,000 men who had developed prostate cancer and 1,250 who had not about their sexual habits.

They found those who had ejaculated the most between the ages of 20 and 50 were the least likely to develop the cancer.

The protective effect was greatest while the men were in their 20s.

Men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer later in life.

Previous research has suggested that a high number of sexual partners or a high level of sexual activity increased a man's risk of developing prostate cancer by up to 40%.

But the Australian researchers who carried out this study suggest the early work missed the protective effect of ejaculation because it focussed on sexual intercourse, with its associated risk of STIs.

Graham Giles, of the Cancer Council Victoria in Melbourne, who led the research team, told New Scientist: "Had we been able to remove ejaculations associated with sexual intercourse, there should have been an even stronger protective effect of ejaculations."

The researchers suggest that ejaculating may prevent carcinogens accumulating in the prostate gland.

The prostate provides a fluid into semen during ejaculation that activates sperm and prevents them sticking together.

The fluid has high concentrations of substances including potassium, zinc, fructose and citric acid, which are drawn from the bloodstream.

But animal studies have shown carcinogens such as 3-methylchloranthrene, found in cigarette smoke, are also concentrated in the prostate.

Dr Giles said fewer ejaculations may mean the carcinogens build up.

"It's a prostatic stagnation hypothesis. The more you flush the ducts out, the less there is to hang around and damage the cells that line them."

A similar connection has been found between breast cancer and breastfeeding, where lactating appeared to "flush out" carcinogens, reduce a woman's risk of the disease, New Scientist reports.

Another theory put forward by the researchers is that ejaculation may induce prostate glands to mature fully, making them less susceptible to carcinogens.

Dr Chris Hiley, head of policy and research at the UK's Prostate Cancer Charity, told BBC News Online: "This is a plausible theory."

She added: "In the same way the human papillomavirus has been linked to cervical cancer, there is a suggestion that bits of prostate cancer may be related to a sexually transmitted infection earlier in life."

Anthony Smith, deputy director of the Australian Research Centre in Sex, Health and Society at La Trobe University in Melbourne, said the research could affect the kind of lifestyle advice doctors give to patients.

"Masturbation is part of people's sexual repertoire.

"If these findings hold up, then it's perfectly reasonable that men should be encouraged to masturbate," he said.


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Why is it always me in the box?:conf:

Sorry?

Why am I always the middle man or the one who starts arguments?

Why what's happened? Have I missed something?

When I say something/Give an opinion usaly it starts of a firework descusion for some stranse reason.....


*Wacks his head on the desk and wonders why he did that*

Usually that happens because a number of people on this forum still are petty and can't but previous grudges (the case of bullying, I'm sure you'll remember) behind them.

But in this case I don't think anyone's having a go at you, they're just saying that if you find the subject a bit gross then that's OK, just don't discuss it :)

It's good & fun.

LMAO

Was there something I said? lmao.

I'm w**king as I write this...















Yes...Winking.

I should hope winking is all you are doing. Lol.

70/40 would make 110 so do I now believe that 110% masterbate?Maybe its more successfull than you thought?......:banana:

:cheer: three cheers for masturbation!!!!

:elephant: Hahahahahaha ur so right elvis isnt dead! 'Brother', i think you may need extra maths classes!

Im sure when every boy get's to 13 he has Masturbated, like you say "if they denie it then oviouly there lying", or they have no dick.