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pinkmichk 17-09-2008 05:44 PM

there is nowt pervy about it i have been with a older bloke (i was 19 he was 37) and our relationship was fine

Sam! 17-09-2008 05:52 PM

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I think huge age gaps are skank like 19-40 but ones of like 2-4 years are fine.
What about the 5-18 year gaps? Fine? Skank? Does it actually matter at all providing both are happy with it?
I just think its pervy when someone is 19 and going out with a 40yr old.
What's perverted about it if both fancy each other and both are comfortable with it? I don't see anything remotely perverted with that.
Its weird and its not practical. Both are at different places in life and the 40 year old is old enough to be the 19 year olds parent. Its just wrong on so many levels.
Yeh thats my opinion on it :)

Tom 17-09-2008 06:18 PM

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I think huge age gaps are skank like 19-40 but ones of like 2-4 years are fine.
What about the 5-18 year gaps? Fine? Skank? Does it actually matter at all providing both are happy with it?
I just think its pervy when someone is 19 and going out with a 40yr old.
What's perverted about it if both fancy each other and both are comfortable with it? I don't see anything remotely perverted with that.
Its weird and its not practical. Both are at different places in life and the 40 year old is old enough to be the 19 year olds parent. Its just wrong on so many levels.
"weird"? How so?

To people with a narrow mind it's wrong on so many levels.

And who says both are at different places in their lives? Does that not entirely depend on the people involved?
I just think it is weird just because they're old enough to be your dad. I just find it weird that one was an adult possibly before the other was even born. And the chances are they are at different places in life. By 40, most people have a set path for their life as half of it has already gone, whereas the 19 year old's life is only just really starting.

Can I just ask, why am I the narrow minded one? How do you know I haven't tried to accept it/find nothing wrong with it but just can't? Just because I don't agree with you doesn't mean I'm narrow minded.

Markymark 18-09-2008 12:06 AM

If men can reproduce up until death then I don't see how there is anything unnatural about old men being with younger women.

Ruth 19-09-2008 05:06 PM

Nothing wrong with age gaps, as long as both people involved are consenting adults. It's nobody's place to judge either.


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