tintedshadow |
23-07-2009 10:25 PM |
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Originally posted by mrsme
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Originally posted by tintedshadow
no i have very much the same opinion on noirins treatment of the housemates,but only the in sense she could have handled certain situations better..her mixed signals as you see it,are simply a woman in the house who is biting her tongue as she has no where to escape from marcus..
i agree she has been callous in some respect,but imagine you were in the house with a string of admirers,what more can you do but let them down and tell them nothing can happen?i overstand she could have not taken up marcus's offer for the body paint,and numerous hugs.. she is simply trying to keep things civil,every time she says no she is confronted with a hissyfit..
never the less she has said no correct?so maybe you dont agree with the way she has gone about things,you cannot disagree that she has tried to lay down the law?
i dont see sophie as a slut for nothing she has done,my point is if you judge noirin so harshly then sophie deserves much the same as she is a typical glamour model who got close to someone and slept in his bed within a very short time..noirin has done nothing but be friendly and when she see's guys getting the wrong end of the stick she attempts to reason with them,hardly the work of a tease?
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no, sorry, I do sort of disagree with you. she may have said no on a few occasions, but then followed it up with a hug, massage, hairdressing session.
i think it's teasing to say to a man who is clearly besotted with her, i am sorry, i just want to be friends, but then lay down, remove her bra and let him paint her back.
my point is, I dont' think she has laid down the law AT ALL, and think she SHOULD have done. she really shouldn't care less if it upsets marcus, because he would get over it. it would be a better environment (imo) to live in.
i have no beef with you. we just differ in our opinions on what is good behaviour for a young lady on national tv!
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agreed much is to be said for her body painting,i dont think anyone has understood why she allowed this..but the fact remains,she is a grown woman,marcus is grown..she has done nothing more than enjoy a friendship which from one side is turning in to some creepy,ever so controlling relationship..
i must stress though,as is the case with any relationship,the blame does not lie with just one party,both should take some responcibility yet women seem intent on judging noirin?
i do agree hugs and hair sessions may be overdoing in a tad,but you do see noirin platting siavash's hair aswell as marcus,and why?marcus needs his hair platting so he asks someone he wants to do it,perhaps she has platting skills like no other im none too sure,but simply noirin doing a friends hair surely doesnt count as teasing...
as a final point,the only real reason i disagree with most is had noirin been a slightly overweight,acne ridden girl who was doing this i dont see anyone would judge her..it seems her beauty is her downfall in this case,somehow being a stunner and having fun some feel is enough to call noirin a *****?
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