i know - but InOne bought it up - he reminded meee :nono:

Oh, so you know how everyone thinks and feels do you?

no, but i know some people that have done it

Some people? That is not everyone is it. And alot of people hide it too, it is not always for attention. It is a coping mechanism.

Courtney...Courtney sometimes I have the urge to bash my head against the screen because of your posts. Urgh.

(Joke)

Feel free, just as long as you know your talking complete ****.

Oh Courtney quit while you're failing, stop acting like an authority on things you know nothing about.

I hardly think you're the authority on why ALL people self harm though? Everyone does it for different reasons. Some do do it for attention yes, for others it's a release, and so on. And most people are actually ashamed of doing it, they don't wear their scars like some badge of honour! You're being really naive and insensitive tbh.

its called a cry for help.....you have no idea what your talking about, you dont have the experience some people do and im sure you havent had the same experiences that some people have but yet you write off people for being depressed (not saying everyone who self harms is depressed) or going through a rough patch, i'd seriously consider rethinking your morales and views on the subject before you post something stupid.:spin:

And the ones that don't do it for attention? You suggest they get help rather than do it, but if they get help they'll have the stigma attached to them that YOU YOURSELF just suggested i.e. that they want attention, or are sick.

You are a ****ing idiot.

That is all.

My reply, through the medium of Linda
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So beautiful! :hug:

You guys are actually answering to those posts from courtney out here? cmon now!

I personally cant think of anything I have done, other than biting on my skin on my fingers, when I am worried about thinks. But I do know people who have done it, regularly, with knives and suh. Really not a nie thing to see, and how compulsive it an get for some people, and the ant help it.

Short and to the point.

I like it. :thumbs:

That's how I roll.

At least the 'Possibly Triggering' tag has lived up to it's name :hugesmile:.

It entices people more really lol

I feel now like willingly reading Courtney's posts pretty much equates to self harm.

There are no words to sum that girl up lol Although lili got the closest

Sorry, but if was as easy as that, people would go and get help. But it takes time to phsc (sp) yourself up/find the courage, and when you do, something holds you back, I myself find that everytime I comtemplate telling and get close to doing so, I don't because I'm scared people will judge, not take it seriously etc..I have told a couple of people, one of them my mum, and she took the piss, and still does

Yeah Bronna I told who I though was a friend and they told me to stop messing about....I was like cheers...

Your mum probably takes the pee as a diversion tactic. As a mum she'll naturally blame herself if you self harm, because she should be the one who protects you enough so you feel you don't have it (if everything was that simple eh). By laughing it off or making jokes of it she's probably hoping that making it light-hearted and trivial may stop you from doing it.

Story of a girl. Video could be triggering.

I told a friend as she was all, 'It's in your head you're making yourself think you;re depressed for attention" or something along those lines lmao

I never thought of it like that..
Off topic - but do you learn things like this with your Physcology degree or are you just realllyyyy smart? :L