I agree with Dezzy. Why keep yourself and your partner unhappy if you both stay together but don't love each other? Its silly.

I would like to think that if I was ever in that situation then my other half would have the kindness to let us part ways with dignity rather then having to stay in a dead-end relationship forever.

Lust for another person can destroy a relationship.

Stealing another is I am afraid typically survival of the fittest.....The most capable........Morality is only a perception created by individuals with differing opinion as to right and wrong or eminating from some religious doctrine.........Morality only exists as a perception in the mind and does not really exist......

Survival of the fittest does exist that;s the whole ruthless aspect of nature in all its gory detail.....

Your ex girlfriend had a miscarriage? :shocked: Ouch. And you was getting revved up to be a daddy!!

This. Unless you keep them feelings to yourself! Because more times than likely the long term relationship you are in is better than the lustful feelings you have for another person.