Originally Posted by angus58 (Post 4154649)

My mum died suddenly aged 54 from a stroke, and my dad died five years later aged 61 from lung cancer. Neither of them lived long enough to see any of their grandchildren which always saddens me.

Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 4154776)

Now that..... that angers me. Strangely enough: I was reading something online only last week - about someone who had been going to the doctor - had something like 38 different appointments - and it was cancer of the kidneys or something. Finally diagnosed but far too late.

That saddens me greatly.

Sorry for your loss Iceman. Hell of a young age to lose your mum. :(

Originally Posted by angus58 (Post 4154667)

Aww,so sorry - that's really young to lose both your parents.:sad:

Originally Posted by Iceman (Post 4155715)

I find every year gets worse and I cant stop thinking about this year cause its gonna be ten years and I have no idea what I'm gonna do.... if that makes sense...?

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~ (Post 4155718)

Live good and live well for your Mam - be happy, for her. Not sad. Would she want to see you sad? No

Originally Posted by Iceman (Post 4155725)

Maybe, I find it harder and harder to remember her though....I just think there is an easy way out if I want to take it.....

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~ (Post 4155728)

What? I hope you're not talking what I think.....

I can barely remember my Mam but I know for a fact she'd want me to live life

You OK?

Originally Posted by Iceman (Post 4155731)

Im fine, dont have the bottle, couldnt if I wanted to, too may people depend on me..... Im just sad but that happens, dont mind me Im being an idiot....

Originally Posted by Claymores (Post 4155732)

Kerster - to lose both at such an early age is unimaginable to me - but I can see you strong nevertheless.

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~ (Post 4155734)

Nope, you're not an idiot. Only if you think you're an idiot for grieving you'll be an idiot

Feck, confuddled myself now....

Originally Posted by Iceman (Post 4155737)

Urgh I dunno, You're a proper inspiration it's people like you that helps others :)

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~ (Post 4155741)

Hardly. Usually drive people insane :D

But can usually spot a person in need of a shoulder *prods* so .... well, so :)

Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4155745)

Faith Evans is a distant relative of mine

Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4155748)

She's not really by the way

Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4155748)

She's not really by the way

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~ (Post 4155753)

Are you always an insensitive twat or just when you're awake?

Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4155754)

How on earth was that insensitive? get a grip woman.

Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4155754)

How on earth was that insensitive? get a grip woman.