I dont think you can help who you fall in love with. You can help your actions though, no matter how attracted to the person you are. Head rules heart tbh, I've never been one to believe the hopeless romantic stuff.

Yeah and it should as well, I hate people who ruin lives and then use the "oh, I can't help who I fell in love with" excuse. It's pure selfishness imo

No we don't control it. Sometimes we meet that person we have instant connection with, but circumstances don't allow things to work out :bawling: